to age. When I was forty, 20 in a week would have been a bender for me, but now that I can see age 60 looming on the horizon, ten in a week was just about right if I was going to enjoy each one as a unique experience. I was a bachelor all through my twenties, so I have done the super high-volume as you describe, mindless fucking just for the sake of fucking, but now its about savoring each experience. I'll stick with my ten, you enjoy your 40. Its not a competition . . . . . anymore. Lol
Contemplating a 4 day kgirl bender while on vacation in LA next month. Solo trip, all about ME.
Anybody ever do this? I know some of you LA residents do this often on a weekly basis somehow.
Budget is $1,500
I prefer 2hr sessions, but willing to split into 1hr sessions.
Nana will get at least 1hr of it.
Who would you do?
And how would you spread the $1,500 and recovery time between sessions over 4 days?
10 girls in 7 days. It went like this: first and second day - 2 one hour sessions with two different girls, one morning, one afternoon each day. Third day, one 1-hr session. Fourth day, rest and sleep. Days five, six and seven were a repeat of days one, two and three, but with different girls. Total bill, including tips: $3300.
A few important points: get 8-9 hours sleep a night unless you're very young; hydrate every chance you get - I was drinking over a gallon of fluids a day; Eat high protein, low carb, low sugar; minimize alcohol consumption; have three times as many girls in your TDL as you plan to see, and be flexible on the order. Some may be on vacation or already booked and you don't want to be scrambling last minute to make choices.
I guess everyone else's idea of a "bender" is different than mine.
Most of my benders have been alcohol fueled and there was barely any time for sleep.
Having sex a couple of times a day is not a "bender" IMHO and doesn't require any change in eating, drinking or sleeping habits. Not unless you're "Really fucking old" at least. I am nearing 60 and can't imagine going through all those changes just to have sex a couple of times a day.
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Enjoying myself with some of the best Kgirls out city had to offer, not about pushing myself or trying to set records, nor did I want to forget any of the ladies because of too much alcohol. Since my normal hobby schedule is 3-4 ladies a week, this was only slightly more than double my usual activity. Even when I'm on vacation, I still do my normal 8 hours a week at the gym, so the small changes are merely to balance the additional hours of "exercise." As a result, I think I was able to maximize the pleasure level of each encounter for BOTH the lady and I. Could I have done more? Yes, but this was about quality, not quantity, and creating unique memories that last a lifetime. Nothing is memorable about an all-you-can-eat meal at a Chinese buffet.
Doubling your activities doesn't really qualify as a "bender"
Everything is relative, your "normal" week (or mine) could easily be considered a bender by most.
I agree that an all you can eat meal at a Chinese Buffet is hardly memorable, but eating a dozen Maine lobsters at a nice restaurant having an all you can eat special on lobster can certainly be memorable. (and a good way to get them to reconsider offering an all you can eat lobster special. True story. lol)
Some of us simply have larger appetites than others, I wasn't trying to set a record, but I did go on a real "bender" about ten years ago, seeing 40 different women over a ten day period. Now THAT is a bender, one very unlikely for me to ever attempt again
to age. When I was forty, 20 in a week would have been a bender for me, but now that I can see age 60 looming on the horizon, ten in a week was just about right if I was going to enjoy each one as a unique experience. I was a bachelor all through my twenties, so I have done the super high-volume as you describe, mindless fucking just for the sake of fucking, but now its about savoring each experience. I'll stick with my ten, you enjoy your 40. Its not a competition . . . . . anymore. Lol
but I think if we are going to be using the term "bender" I take that to mean something more than just a "good week"
At my "advanced age" even ten different women in a single week would be twice my norm as well, but I still can't bring myself to give that "bender" status. I think it would still take three a day for several days to reach bender status. That said, I have no benders in my immediate plans. I am quite content getting laid "most days" as long as I don't go more than a day or two without sex I am pretty well satisfied in that respect at this stage in my life. Also it doesn't have to be a different girl every time, I have ZERO desire for monogamy, but seeing the same girl a couple of times a week with other new and regular girls thrown in the mix works just fine for me two.
BTW I was in my forties that time I saw 40 different girls in ten days, late forties, but forties nonetheless. As sixty seems to be rapidly approaching, I have NO desire to ever do attempt such a thing again. I too would have to eliminate alcohol, get plenty of rest and stay hydrated, (not with tequila) and that would simply be work and not the all out debauchery such a "bender" is supposed to be
would probably consider a "bender" to be going off the deep end, but it doesn't matter because the OP has a $1500 budget. I think we would both agree that that amount is not going to get a "bender", either by my definition or yours, but since he first used the term in this thread, 5-6 girls may be a bender for HIM.
IMHO, the term "bender" can be relative to what is normal or typical behaviour, and thus different for each monger.
Just my $0.02, which is about all I have left after my Quinn-fest (won't call it a bender even if it does qualify under the definition I offered...) of the last couple weeks. 😄
Cheers,
BD
a QUIM-fest with Quinn. Cheers.
Since he is going to LA on "vacation" I assume he is still going to have to pay for a flight, hotel, meals, drinks etc. A plane ticket to CR or the DR might be a few more bucks, but he would save a BUNCH on everything else. $1,500 in CR would get him 15 different chicas, $1,500 in the DR would get him about 40. Now THAT would be a bender by anyone's standards. lol
but yes, as I also said in one of my other posts on this thread, he is hardly going to get a "bender" by either of our definitions with the budget he has, anywhere in the US.
I'm not denying the economic advantage of the above, but maybe the op wants or prefers Korean girls this trip. He might also want to enjoy traditional LA tourist stuff on his rest day.
To the op, I didn't check your reviews but hopefully you got your approvals already so you can book everyone right away upon arrival. Good luck!
You can't really have a "bender" on fifteen hundred bucks in this country. I have gone on a few "benders" in this country. I remember once seeing every girl at a certain agency in the same week. They had well over a dozen girls working for them, I just kept having them send over a different one every several hours until I had seen them all.
Another time I got stuck in Dallas on business, I was seeing a single client on a rather big deal and really had nothing to do between my meetings with him. This was over ten years ago when there were maybe a dozen Asian providers in all of Dallas, most of them all within a couple of miles of the hotel in which I was staying, I made it my mission to see every single one of them that week. Ironically, I moved to Dallas about three years ago and one of them who was brand new when I saw her that week was/is still working under the same name. She is thirtyish now and still looks good.
But back to my advice to head south. A lot of guys have the urge to go on a "fuck fest" like I do all the time, I thought it might give people with that thought in mind an idea of how to go about it. Not many guys can claim they fucked a dozen different women in a single weekend, this is one way to do it, have a great time with quality ladies and not break the bank while doing so.
touching my toes.
But oh, for the good old days.
If I am going to see two girls in one day, I prefer to see the more gfe one first and the more pse one second. If I were to see someone like Nana first, I might not have any energy for the second session.
I only do 2 hours with repeats, so I might do something like 2 1 hr sessions days 1-2, rest day 3, then 1 2 hr with my favorite on day 4.
I rested for about 8 hours in between sessions. If I do this again, I would probably do: Lovely, Veronica, Hera, Boa, Moli, Cami, Emma K, Cara. You may also want to consider these better than average gals: Stella, Rebecca, Chloe, Reah, Cami, Lyn, Heri, Joy, Quinn, Cia, Asia, Megan, Alexa.
But I suppose you could get 6 one hour K-Girl sessions for right about that amount.
I used to do a lot of 3-4 day benders in Latin America, and while I spent more like five grand each time, I am sure you could do it for much less.
My typical bender would go something like this from a financial break down
Airfare $750-1,000, you can get flights much cheaper than that with planning. I have seen flights as cheap as $300 lately
Hotel $100 a night. Call it $500 total with tax.
$500 bar tab each day (with a "little bit" thrown in for food. lol) Obviously you can cut this expense by a LOT.
$500 a day for chicas, 3-4 one hour sessions at $100 each, plus one or two evening dates that would turn into an overnight for an extra $200 or so.
My typical bender would be 3-4 days long during which I would see 12-15 different women. Usually I would try to space them out several hours apart, Starting with "Morning sex" at about 7AM either with whoever spent the night with me or I'd go downstairs and find the hottest girl working that morning. Most days I would see my second chica of the day around noon, and then a 4-5 hour break until "shift change" when the "daytime girls" would go home to their kids and the evening girls would start filtering in, The hottest chicas always got grabbed up early, so I would usually pick a spot at the bar where I could see the girls coming in and grab the hottest one before anyone else had a chance. I would usually spend the rest of the night drinking and gambling until 9,10, 11PM or until I started getting tired (or drunk. lol) Usually I would spend a hour, or even several hours with a chica downstairs drinking and having fun before taking her upstairs and depending on how much I liked her, I might or might not keep her until morning, at which time I would start the process all over again. lol
One admission here, a lot of the time I would be too drunk or tired to "finish" or sometimes to even "start" with that last chica of the night, but for an extra couple of hundred bucks, I knew she would be there in the morning so we could finish what we started the night before.
Like I said, my "budget" was around 5 grand for a long weekend, but you could have a great time on a fraction of that much money. Here is a much cheaper budget you might consider for a future "bender"
Airfare $300. I've seen a lot of flights this cheap
Hotel, $100 night. Three nights $300
Food and drink. I am sure a normal person could get by on $50-100 a day. Lets call it $300 total.
Three chicas a day at $100 each. three days, 9 chicas, $900 total.
Total cost $1,800 for a true bender.
This sounds amazing. Where? CR? DR? Also, where would you stay? Did you have to go far to find girls? Were the girls "girl friendly?"
For my 33 bday I did 9 girls in one day! Started at midnight and in 24 hours I saw 9 girls greatest day ever but I was shooting blanks towards the end of the night epic still thinking I might top it off and just do an orgy next time but youndefinstrly need more in the budget !