This has happened a few times, some impatient moron jumps the gun or on a first time meet doesn't ask the kgirls name after they come through the door. 
With Psing, borrowed pics or Booker/Bookers not coordinating the move in for the sessions, they just go with the Kgirl who opens the door, really lame dudes.
I call them dudes, should be duds, that's as nice as I will get! All MO, they don't even qualify as hobbyists, which IMO is also lame, let alone as a Monger.

They pull some fucked up shit, rushing the door in the building entrance, even the incall apt and lurking outside and inside the building with phones out, not waiting in the car for the go ahead.
And that's just a couple of violations.

My deal was, I go through the door, and I see she is not who I am expecting, but she was really nice looking^^! I tell her who I am seeing and it's her roommate. So, she knocks on her door, she's with the guy who jumped the gun or didn't ask the Kgirl when she let him in. So, now the guy is going to the other room naked and carrying whatever he had hastily grabbed up, fucking embarrassing IMO, maybe that will be a learning experience for him. 

This subject, uncool moves by customers not knowing how to act, was talked about on another site and the next time at a session I run into one of these guys.

in any case I would report them to the agency, and let them know you're reconsidering using their service unless they do something about it.  Also, emphasize their lurking can draw unwanted public attention.

how it goes when you lecture one of the naked guys you run across. I'm sure their feelings will be really hurt when they learn they don't qualify as a hobbyist or even a monger.

with Newbies in these situations.  As you suggest, it's easy to see who they are by their actions and nervous behavior.  I liked getting on the elevator with them as they shoved past me, and when the elevator door closes, I will say something like, "You seem in a real hurry, which girl are you seeing today."   They usually become the deer in the headlights and mumble about not knowing what I'm talking about.  But the coup-de-grace is when they get off on the same floor as me, looking flustered and confused.  I know they are not going to the same place I am, so that leaves the only other incall on that floor, so then I will say, "Go down this hallway, turn right and it's the third door on the left."  They hesitate until I'm out of sight because they don't know if it's safe or not.  Any of these guys that are reading this now know they met CDL in person.  LOL

I wouldn't waste my time, the sooner they get out of the way, the better!

I must say I've never had that problem myself. Knock on wood I suppose.

 
Putting aside the other stupid behavior, some of which I've seen, I would say getting the clients confused is really on the bookers, or perhaps the girls jumping in front of the other to get business if they thought they were not getting an appointment.  My experience is that the bookers in DMV have always been really good about keeping the clients spaced on entry so asking the name of who you are seeing is not something I've really ever given much though about -- other than in the way of introductions when I enter. Similarly, in all the location I've been where two girls are sharing the apartment there has been a nice screen blocking the living room area. I would hope that IF I ever had that happen they would walking me behind the screen so I didn't have experience seeing that other customer, and likewise for him.

The guys wandering outside with phones out either pacing or crowding the door is not new. That's been going on for 15 years at this point, maybe more. A lot of it is obvious because of how they dress and style their hair as well. They don't look like they have any business being where they are. You can be older and still blend. If your fashion makes sense I can picture someone living or visiting someone in a Koreatown building because of how they act even if they're in their 60s. But if you've got the 1998 hair style, a Hawaiian shirt with khaki shorts or wearing dad shoes, and it looks like they grabbed you straight out of the Laguna Niguel Costco parking lot and plopped you in LA, then yeah, I mean it's painful to see.

 
As for the messing up the provider opening the door, that's both the booker but that's also the community's fault. We have somehow started to be ok with fake photos. People are giving out 9s for fake photos and I think that's a mistake. Fake photos need to be punished. In all of my reviews I will hammer fake pics if it happens and call it out specifically in the summary. The eye blurring they did a long time ago was ok with me. Fake pics are not. So you can't really blame guys for taking who answers the door in this case. It's getting better, as a handful of us really push back on the photos.

 
As a customer, it's not my job to handle logistics or make sure the person who greets me is the same person I booked. I'm paying for a friction-free transaction. Sounds like you need to take it up with the bookers. I'm not going to stand in the foyer hashing it out with a provider just so you can avoid friction with the booker. That's something you need to man up and handle as a paying customer. If she's close to the photos I'm going. Not going to sit there and play detective and back and forth in the unit with the booker on text trying to figure it out.

 
If I'm at a place and I see door crowding or I see someone being frantic, I just text the booker and tell them to wait a minute, that someone is wandering around and seems out of place. Then I just hang out down the block and wait a minute or so. If it's inside the building I'll just go rest on a balcony railing or something and wait for whoever to figure it out. Nothing about how I move around is hasty or unsure. I'm at the place like I belong there, which I do, because I'm paying to be there. If anyone doesn't like that, they can actually kiss my ass, and you can tell them I said so.

"Emphasize their lurking can draw unwanted public attention"? Dude. I don't even know what to say. I guess I'll start with saying "no shit" but how exactly are you going to "report" someone to an agency? How do you know which agency that client went through? The providers use multiple agencies at the same time these days. It's not like before when a provider went through one agency in the city. So your calling up and threatening to cut business unless they "do something about" some guys crowding the door with the phones out is a great way for a booker to just determine you're too much of a hassle to deal with.

 
This is what happens when people who have very little experience with any crime get into something like this. They've not gone and bought drugs anywhere before, so they don't know how to play it cool or act natural when they're doing something they shouldn't be doing. They have little experience going to incalls (or even receiving outcall visitors) and this is the result. It's not guys who are drunk or high, it's old guys who have never done something like this and they're terrified because deep down they feel they're not supposed to be there. Lots of these guys are really insecure and really lonely. So they're very fragile and they don't have any sense of calm or confidence. They're chaotic. That's the nature of the business.

 
Instead of complaining about random guys clogging the door, why don't you slam fake pictures in reviews? That would be more helpful in regard to the "I got the wrong provider thing." Not saying you specifically, but people need to stop giving out high scores on appearance if pics are fake.

...me running into other guys at the incalls. But maybe I'm the dumbass LOL.

That's why I like the car services in Vegas. They take you as close as they can and tell you which apt to go into.  

Those Vegas complexes are a little confusing, so I've probably looked like a dumbass.

Ha I would probably thank you for telling me where to go

You tell me to take it to the Booker, but up top you tell that poster, not to tell the Booker!

I know, you're a slip 'n' slidin' crime wave! That has been discussed in the past. if you remember!
Your extensive jail experience.

Yeah, it has happened before and will happen again. I said all that.
PS'd & borrowed pics, learn how to deal with them, but if it's your pet peeve, no sweat for me.

I know who I'm seeing or on a first meet up I know what works, so thanks, but no thanks on your advice!

The assumption here is that the guy did something wrong, ie jump the gun in terms of arriving early. I don't think it's that clear cut. There are many circumstances that could result in the same outcome.  

For example, a guy simply can arrive later even if he was given the green light earlier than the roomies client. It can be all kind of things - lack of someone to trail behind to enter a garage, got lost, "non-kgirl ecosystem" people around the apt door, broken elevator, nosey security guards, bad instructions..thats just off top of my head. There can be a million of reasons.  

Now, generally you will keep the po posted so he/she knows where you are and if there are any issues. But again depends on the gap between green lights. Some orgs in the bay are known for giving it too close and as a result many guys do bump heads and into each other. That's not really on the mongers anymore, is it?  

 
Hell, I heard of a story where a kgirl took in the other roomies guy simply because she felt like it. She knew it wasn't her guy bit she didn't care. She is a special girl, one who would get into fistfights with roommates and call cops on them. But still.  

 
Asking a girl her name at the door is also not really necessary or required This is more of an issue stemming from fake pics galore. I would only ask if the girl is completely different from descriptions in reviews etc. Then again, typically I know who rooms in the apartment before I enter it. Most of the time when I ask them about their roommate I already know..

 
Finally I'd point out that there is nothing suspicious about "lurking" with phones out inside or outside in 2026.  

Here's a fun exercise. Go to a large apartment complex where you know for a fact there are no korgs or orgs of any kind. Now take notes of every male loitering with a phone outside and inside (well, get inside by following someone in lol). You might be surprised by what you might find.

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they arrive too early and rather than wait in the car until they get the go-ahead, they hang around the front door of the apartment complex waiting to be "buzzed" in.   There are guys who push their way in when someone else is buzzed in and then go wait inside, either riding the elevator or waiting in the lobby.  Pacing in the hallway waiting for your turn or riding the elevator up and down while you are waiting creates a security risk for yourself and others.

 
 Residents are more likely to report people who are aimlessly milling around, whether outside or inside the building.  You should only be inside the building when you have been authorized to go to the incall apartment and have the access code and apartment number in hand.  They should wait in their car, but many are obsessed with trying to get every single minute of the hour they have reserved with the provider and are careless about security as a result.  One of the most common reasons for moving an incall location is having it reported to LE by a nosy neighbor who lives in the building.  Unlike their husbands or boyfriends, women seldom appreciate the value in having a Kgirl incall in the same complex where they live.  

And I said, it's a weird assumption to make.  
From badgers post, he didn't see this guy until he got inside the apartment.  

 
So the only facts are that the guy came in first and took the wrong girl. We don't know if he were supposed to come first, we don't know whether the girl messed up or po messed upot the customer messed up.  

But the assumption immediately is to blame it on a customer and assume he was loitering inside/outside. Now you're the king of bad assumptions cdl, so of course you find nothing wrong.  

 
I find it incredulous that issues that arise from fake pics are now held against the customer. Does this issue even exist if the pics were real?

I would have breakfast with then go to the same incall and he would see one of the girls and I would see the other. That's the only time I remember entering an incall at the same time as another monger.  All of the PO's I have experience with were excellent at managing the traffic flow so this doesn't happen.   If you have never tried this, if your buddy is up for it, there is enough time left and the girls allow it, after the first pop, you can switch girls without paying anything extra besides a tip.  However, you may not want to switch unless you are both doing GFE rather than BBFS.  Lol

jumped the gun or didn't get it straight on a first time meet!
If he had seen either Kgirl before he would've remembered, right?
Then I explained what happened to me, the one who opened the door for me I didn't know and got it straight about who I had the session with. A Kgirl I knew.

 
I will blame anyone who doesn't know how to act.
And in LA these girls use multiple Bookers, so I'd say they, the Bookers, don't always coordinate the sessions right.
But if a guy is paying his hard-earned money, you'd think he would make sure he got the right Kgirl!

 
Lurking in these buildings has been brought up a lot and real recent on the other site.
I haven't seen you post in a while, but maybe you still read the forums.
If so, then you have seen the posts.

 
Also, I didn't say anything about *this guy* lurking around anywhere!
There you go again Rocket, twisting, spinning and making up stuff that wasn't in the post!  
The lurking and rushing doors was about fucked up practices being done by, IMO, lame fuckin' guys!

you text the Booker about every door you go through, I'm in the elevator, just passed the 2nd floor, the 3rd, just made a left at the fire extinguisher?
To me it should be simple, your parked and in the car. You get the code, go in and at the incall door it gets opened. The Kgirl texts you're in, on to the playtime.
Now maybe if you get lost, you might need some help.

 
As for her name you don't have a little flirting introduction on the first meet?  
I've found that can start a real playful session, also that can cover up a rude questioning if pics or stats are off.