K-girls

Did you eat?
divemaster13 34 Reviews 1967 reads
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1 / 23

Almost without fail, one of the first things a K-girl will ask me when I show up for a date is "Did you eat?" or "Have you had lunch?" or something along those lines.  At first I thought it a bit strange that seemingly every girl asked the same question.  I realize these encounters are scripted, but even so I got to thinking about why this particular question.

My first thought was that it was a way to practice conversational English a bit more than "How are You?" or "It's so good to see you."

But then I got to thinking, they are probably trained to say this as a part of the "GFE" aspect of the date.  Just like a real girlfriend would ask that question if you arrived at her door.  Girls do like to feed their men, right? (at least that's the stereotype).

So thinking about it that way, I've grown to enjoy the question.  Usually my answer is "no" because I don't like to participate in a session on a full stomach (makes me feel ooogy).  But I say it with a smile and some additional talk about not being hungry for food, but excited for the date or whatever.

I wonder what would happen if I said "no" and then offered to take her to Five Guys Burgers after the date LOL

mrfisher 115 Reviews 720 reads
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2 / 23
coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 753 reads
posted
3 / 23

if you say yes, you just ate, they will hand you a toothbrush.  That's why they ask.  They don't want to DFK your left-over meal particles.

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 628 reads
posted
4 / 23

lol

I suspect there's some truth there too.

That said the only time I've have a tooth brush provided the question was not asked or answered.

I've also brought dinner and lunch several times -- sometimes to leave for the girl later and sometimes to share. In the later cases I've never see the toothbrush bought out -- but that would have been a really awkward and unsophisticated move by the girl so not surprised about that.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 539 reads
posted
5 / 23

Yes, there are some girls that have the toothbrush waiting and don't ask if you have recently eaten or not.  Notable toothbrush-obsessors from my own past experience include Milky, recently in LV, and Davi from LA and SF a few years ago.  When Davi hit town, she would start with a bucket of disposable toothbrushes, usually around 150-200 and as I repeated once a week, you would see the remaining amount dwindle accordingly.  I could tell how good business was for her just by watching the toothbrushes disappear.  Lol

divemaster13 34 Reviews 481 reads
posted
6 / 23

Hmmm, that may be the case at times.  But the girl always comes across as "oh, no, you didn't eat?--you poor thing!"  

I always show up clean and minty fresh so the toothbrush never crossed my mind.  Now, the mouthwash...very understandable.  Maybe I'll test it out next time by saying I ate lunch and see if I am presented a toothbrush.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 488 reads
posted
7 / 23

I carry a travel tooth brush in my car and if I eat before a session, I just stop somewhere and brush, and then say I didn't eat

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 418 reads
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9 / 23
divemaster13 34 Reviews 462 reads
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10 / 23

LOL.  I think I would pay double if I could find a K-girl with a natural bush.  I'm not a huge fan of the bald K-kitty.  (Well, obviously I am a fan, but it is in spite of the shaved look, not because of it).

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 533 reads
posted
11 / 23

...that years ago, many of the K-girls had natural/trimmed bushes, especially the ones FOTB.  Gradually, they've become Americanized downstairs because that's what we've come to like.  It's a loss for bearded clam lovers but you may still find some in the SGV.

kgirlbliss 9 Reviews 643 reads
posted
12 / 23

Posted By: divemaster13
Almost without fail, one of the first things a K-girl will ask me when I show up for a date is "Did you eat?" or "Have you had lunch?" or something along those lines.  At first I thought it a bit strange that seemingly every girl asked the same question.  I realize these encounters are scripted, but even so I got to thinking about why this particular question.
"Have you eaten?" (Bap meogeosseoyo?) is a common Korean greeting that starts conversation from what I understand, it's equivalent to your typical "what's up?" or "how's it going?". What's "up" or "going" is basically irrelevant, but it demonstrates mindful engagement and a starting point to go elsewhere. Classic case of literal translation via Google Translate not matching the intent of the phrase. Best response? "Yes, but I'm still hungry" :)

impposter 49 Reviews 573 reads
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13 / 23

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
When Davi hit town, she would start with a bucket of disposable toothbrushes, usually around 150-200 and as I repeated once a week, you would see the remaining amount dwindle accordingly.  I could tell how good business was for her just by watching the toothbrushes disappear.  Lol
Did you ever think about the fact that it might be the 2nd, 3rd or 4th bucket

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 494 reads
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14 / 23
dancebbq09 130 Reviews 522 reads
posted
15 / 23

koreans say it all the time.  More they care about your wellbeing and you have eaten and so your body is healthy etc.

dancebbq09 130 Reviews 486 reads
posted
16 / 23

Shaved bush is a US market thing.  The same kgirls you visit outside the US shaved is the exception.

Women who shaves has a stigma in korea.  Like you are a working girl etc.  its changing as more korena women are wearing Gstringd and waxing but still not the norm.

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 436 reads
posted
17 / 23

Nice to know -- I'm guessing that's a bit like the "It's a carrot." idiom (English translation of the Korean) for "of course" or "that's obvious". Is the "bap" (법) meaning rice?

kgirlbliss 9 Reviews 478 reads
posted
18 / 23

Posted By: Jensen36363
Nice to know -- I'm guessing that's a bit like the "It's a carrot." idiom (English translation of the Korean) for "of course" or "that's obvious". Is the "bap" (법) meaning rice?
Bap does mean rice, but it can also be more generic / general like "food".

termeup 6 Reviews 488 reads
posted
19 / 23

he Thai people have a similar greeting -"Ghin Cau?" - which literally means "Have you eaten rice?"  
But as mentioned above, its connotation is, "How are you doing?"

mrfisher 115 Reviews 436 reads
posted
20 / 23

Typical greeting of two tribe members;

J'eet yet?

Response:

No, jew?

 
translation:

Did you eat yet?

No, did you

ValerieVipXoxo See my TER Reviews 492 reads
posted
21 / 23

Or some Korean BBQ in KTOWN~ HAHAH

mufflover2014 58 Reviews 433 reads
posted
22 / 23

I love eating Korean but really enjoy a tasty Mexican meal occasionally too.

To bad you are in LA ;)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 357 reads
posted
23 / 23

correct.  I love Korean so much I usually eat it three times a week!  I used to like Mexican, but now that seems a little too heavy for me.

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