This one is dedicated to CaptainR, who talked about DOA & existential crisis.

Some of us are greedy & fickle. We don't like the idea of ATF as too limiting (one for All Time). Literally it means you have only one ATF, until the next new one who surpasses her. Here's my proposed alphabet soup in a previous review. See what you think.

" I had a former ATF, and a current one. If someone forces me to choose one, I’d honestly have a hard time. Since I’m kind of greedy , let me try a different notation. I’ll call the last one PTF for Past Top Fav; current one CTF, and anticipating a future one, FTF. Gaga without a doubt is going to be my FTF. After two extraterrestrial ATF experiences with her, I look forward to a dozen more times to even improve the chemistry and connection.... "

Back to CaptainR, I know your ATF was Emily, but have you found a better one yet? Recommend to us?

To the word favorite and we can have all we want
whether it be P,C or F.  
The best of all worlds.

I think ATF is a vague, or vaguely used, descriptive. Some use it to mean simply, "my current favorite provider," while others mean to indicate a hottie who stands out from the norm of experience. When I say that Emily is my ATF, I mean just that - she was my favorite of all time.  But, as the Greeks said, "call no man happy who yet lives," because tragedy could befall one even at the end and render one unhappy, and, likewise, until a man is finished with this hobby, another ATF could come along, of course. But the common parlance of ATF - with said designee changing like the tides - diminishes the term....

Doesn't mean I'm not looking, just that nobody has equalled Emily.....

CR