One of my ATF's (won't mention her name but she's in DTLA and shuttles between Portland/LA)
rate has sky rocketed to the point it's not fiscally feasible to see her anymore. It really bums me out.
I really should have seen her way more often when she was at her 250 rate.

If she's able to keep busy at the higher rate that's her prerogative and it isn't likely to change. Wouldn't you take more money from your boss if he was willing to give it to you?

you have been in the game, but Kgirl rates are essentially the same in SoCal as they were when I started seeing them 9 years ago.  Everything else has gone up in price, so I'm not surprised pussy is following suit.  

I'm happy for her, if it's all working out well, and its improved her life...then Kudos.
Its just that my favorite steak at my favorite steak joint has nearly doubled in price lol.

after six months or a year they usually want you to go up to the market rate, but its good while it lasts.  

i'm happy for her - if it's working out well, and it's improved her life - then kudos.
It's just that my favorite steak at my favorite steak joint nearly doubled in price lol.

Even with my limited budget, I'd be too embarrassed to try to negotiate. I would also be leery of being labeled as a difficult or a troublemaker. No use biting the hands that feed my little buddy.

... rather than a request, if you feel awkward.  "Are you keeping the old rates for repeat clients?"  In my opinion there would be nothing wrong with adding, "I hope so, I'd like to be able to keep seeing you as often as I have," which is nothing more than the truth.

Looks like your ATF was just after your money!  

Just asking.

It does suck for those of us with the more limited budgets for the girls. You can always think of it as booking a longer appointment and playing the mind game in your head if you really need to see her. Or find a new ATF -- I'm sure one will show up for you.

sorry for the double post. How do you delete one, BTW?

.... If you were tipping her as so many of us do, just tone down the tip and see what unfolds. I'm not sure what financial sharing she has with her booker and/or agent, but it's my understanding that tips are just between you and the gal. Good luck. Ciao!

seen a girl three times and determined she's not BSC I exchange phone numbers with her.  This has especially come in handy when I'm in another city and see a girl I know working there.  I can text her and tell her I want to see her, but she needs to vouch for me with the booker.  I have been accepted by bookers all over the country using this technique of having the girl verify me.  Usually, bookers don't want to verify out of state references.  This bypasses that.  Once a girl verifies you with a new booker, you have instant access to all of that booker's other girls.  If I'm in another city for a week, I will see the girl I know first, and then see two or three other girls before I leave that town.

If anyone believes that these  fleeting moments are anything more than just that
and believe that any of these girls want anything more  than your money then
you  have lost touch with reality. Sure some get grandfathered in because they
know a golden goose when they see it and a steady customer at the old rate is
better than an unknown at the higher rate. Once they see that they don't need  
you at the  old rate you will be thrown overboard like a rat on a ship. You can
bet on that  one. Just imagine thinking that any of these  girls, especially the ones
who are young and hot enough to raise their rates, wanting to spend their off hours with
older, fatter, balder guys just for the pleasure of their company and giving away what they
sell at a premium.  
If you believe  that one then I have a very nice bridge in Brooklyn I would like to sell you. If they
do spend the remainder of their waking hours with a customer you can rest assured
he is spending more than he  would  if were  just a customer. Much more.

Whats BSC ?? Thx

your ruining some of the fun. For most of us, it's like winning the lottery, albeit in a much less lucrative manner: it's nice to think about, fun to talk (type?) about, but never going to happen for ninety-nine and forty-four one hundredths percent of us.

Bat Shit Crazy. I think.

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Others of us are not.

Lohan in LA and Aya in OC, both married former customers and retired.  I'm a single older (but not too old) guy who is generous and makes more than a Kgirl does and so I get proposed to about twice a month from girls that are looking for an exit/retirement strategy.  I'm not going to name names, but I'm sure guys who might be a little jaded would be shocked at who some of the girls are.  Some months I think I should take the plunge, but not sure I would be totally happy with just one girl (Kgirls are notoriously jealous with their RL boyfriends/husbands so they would make me miserable if I continued in the hobby after marriage).  However, I will agree conditionally with Mufftime that if they don't see some sort of future with you, and they don't genuinely like you, as GaG says, its only about the money.  Period.  

Making a decision to spread your legs for a living  and suck on thousands of guys cum and dfk them sort of breaks something in the girl.  All my exes were mentally whacked to some degree.   And to the 2 dudes who married the girls you mentioned their messed up too.  I know one of the guy and with all the money he has why the hell would you marry a over the hill kgirl?  When you can bang all the new hotties??  The older gals without makeup its not a pretty site.  Especially the lack of exercise from the daily banging turns them into kfatties!

I don't share his disdain for women who have fucked thousands of guys, considering I am not "broken" and I have fucked several thousand women, but I have to ask why you would consider marrying  "any" woman???!!!

I hear you but some of us understand it and some don't.
One guy who has since left the hobby was continuously  
asking me how he could take it to the next level with a
provider we were both seeing. I warned her to go easy
on him because he was believing her words and her  
response to me was " I love all my customers".  
There are some guys who just don't get that.

Face slap. I'm iver it and I promise to see four different Kgirls next week.  

No offense, but let's be real here. Why would you want to marry a hooker when you have shit tons of money? That's stupid. No offense. I mean unless you are deeply in love with her.  Maybe we have different thought, I'm in my mid 20 and you are probably 40-50.. our thought might be different. Perhaps you see something I can't see? Damn sometimes I feel like I'm too young for this hobby. I saw too many 30+ women like 90% of the LA community. Maybe about time to quit.

EVERY Kgirl you have seen is older than you.  

...she get her green card and dump the hubby?  Did she dump the BF too and find a new rich guy?

The hubby takes care of her financial needs and her boyfriend takes care of her "other" needs.

I'm not sure I could've handled marrying Aya because she would've worn me out. But I sure as hell would've married Lohan!

So true. That hour of fantasy is so much better than the 24 hours of reality would be.  Whenever I've ever thought of a relationship with any K Girl I think about the convos about how they're supporting their families back home. Guess who'd be supporting them then?