Thanks TER mod for another thread!

It’s about whether or not the Bay Area mongers are ever interested in attracting top tier talent here again. And what it might take to do that.

My brother Twoon, I simply can't imagine a scenario where I could fill two hours with a kgirl without a lengthy nap, and I can nap at home, for f*ks sake! In the future, if my CF or ATF comes back, I would consider doing 90 minutes once to see how I like it. I think that would be sufficient for 2 or 3 pops with a nice long cuddle in between. I think 2 hours would be time and money wasted for me personally. But I know other guys are different, and may take longer to pop, so they could certainly make better use of a 2 hour timeslot.

You're my monger brother.  You're free to $pend your hard earned anyway you likey.  I'm just sharing my experience with those who are interested.

Jeez louise, things must be really REALLY bad in the Bay for you guys to be this bitter and angry - the topic was simply about one hour vs two! Nothing else!

It’s not about value. It’s about your personal preferences. Well put.

While I don't disagree with your argument about sessions in excess of an hour being of value, I can't say I remember seeing the animosity toward those who also agree with your view that you mention on this forum. If anything, you seem to be displaying that attitude against those who disagree with you.

That said, count me in the camp of those mongers who prefer a ONE hour session, or several of them rather than booking two hours at a time which is kind of a waste for me. One hour is plenty of time for me to have sex once at a nice leisurely pace, but two hours is NOT enough for me to go twice. I am not the kind of guy who pays for "time and companionship" so I am just as happy spending the second hour at the bar chatting up the bartender at 25% of the price, with someone who speaks much better English as the typical K-Girl. lol

It’s called being very clear. Not animosity.

I’ve found value in both types of sessions. Especially if you are new to seeing the girl, you may opt for a 1 hr session in that case. If you’re doing a 2hr + session, you’ll have to assume a reasonable amount of time will be spent either talking or doing something outside of the normal activity.  

Understood. I’d forgotten that you preferred 60 minute sessions.  

I am not interested in "building a connection" at $500 a visit. I am interested in having sex when "on the clock" if I want an actual connection, I'll simply ask her out on a date.  

is more pragmatic.  I got to an age where I could no longer get a second pop in a one hour session.  Ergo, I started booking two hours on repeats.  Problem solved.  I agree there is more time to get to know someone if you're looking for a regular, but I have to agree with GaG that if I think the girl has potential to be a RL girlfriend, that's not going to happen at the incall, you have to ask them out.  

Generally I agree with what you’ve said here and you’ve brought up valid points.  

I have no problem (or at least very little problem) getting one leisurely pop in an hour session, however I can rarely get two pops in two hours so two hours is kind of a waste of an hour, sexually speaking at least. Now I often do see SB's for 2-3 hours, but sometimes even then I only finish once, but since those are clock free dates, sometimes we take an hour before even getting started BCD,  so those kind of dates are much different.

Generally, the only times I do two hour sessions with my atfs. They know me, understand my needs,and most importantly, can keep up with me. Well, most of the time.  

I might be known as one of the more combative posters on TER, but I think most of you know that I actually prefer to "get along" with my fellow mongers and agree that we all have different perspectives and that there is no "one way" that is all right or all wrong, and after skimming through this thread it looks like almost all of us have made our own case as to why we like what we like without telling everyone else why their opinion is wrong.

I think we’re using the word “connection” differently.  

NSA aspect.  About once or twice a year, I will meet a civvie woman at the gym who is tight, hot and under 40 that claims to just be looking for a little fun, but its never really that simple, is it?  The maintenance on a civvie girlfriend is a huge time-suck for me.  Working girls, especially Kgirls, are usually busier than me and so don't have enough spare time of their own to demand too much of my time.  Its the best situation for me.  You have a nice relationship with one girl, but have the time to see plenty of others at the same time.  Doesn't quite work like that with civvie girlfriends.  It makes the cost of pussy (in time, not money) a little too dear.  I break up and say I'm done with civvie women, but sooner or later, another one comes along with a slender body and great rack, and I'm a goner.  Lol

I see the relationship with them as mainly being a professional one and not only does the hobby make the most sense that way, but it is also more beneficial that way.

When it comes to kgirls, I rarely do 2 hour visits. And honestly, 2 hour visits won't make a difference. There have been quite a few times when I've gotten kgirls' contact info on a first time visit for an hour. Only times when I do a 2 hour visit is when the girl will be leaving my area and I won't be seeing her for awhile. We'll typically 2 do hours and then I'll take them out to dinner OTC in which they usually buy me dinner. Granted, I'm Korean and speak/text Korean and the stink of desperation of wanting to get a kgirl OTC (most seasoned kgirls can easily smell) isn't on me compared to some other guys...  

The TLN dates... I need to go back ㅠㅠ I didn't even pay for one of them because she was more interested in going to the beach rather than compensation lol.

Another thing I like about TLN dates, as EVERYONE on these boards knows, I drink like a fish and at my "advanced age" sometimes I simply can't finish what I start after drinking all day and all night. Actually I am very happy I can even start, much less finish, but I digress. lol The beauty about spending the entire night together is that if one or both of us is too drunk by the time we go to bed we can always finish what we start in the morning.  

There are no "60 minute no tip guys who say everyone else is stupid and lame" though, Gag. The only antogonistic post in this thread was the first response to twoon accusing him - out of all freakingpeople - of being passive aggressive.

TLN dates are awesome. There was a strip club called Hysteria in Puerto Vallarta in the late 90s/early 2000s that did TLN dates for $300USD (or 3 hours for $160USD). The ladies were great, some from Mexico, some from Central and South America, and even a few Eastern Europeans. You selected your lady as they danced or mingled in the club, made arrangements with the manager, and they left the club with the you in a club provided taxi back to your hotel, and were picked up the next morning 12 hours later. So many great experiences. To me the service was akin to current KGirl AAMPs with multiple showers, massages, and really good sex. I miss those days.

For me, the emphasis on 2 hour visits started for two reasons:

I've actually heard the opposite - most girls like two hour appointments, as they have to fuck less, shower less and people booking two hour appointments usually are on great terms with them.  

I have given up non k girls providers completely, and have for a little while.

I’ve had the “why do you like multi-hour bookings” discussion with many providers over the past couple of decades. From white girls to black and various shades of brown. From Japanese to Chinese to Korean.

I agree with both the NSA aspect and the discussed lack of relationship between session fun and girlfriend potential. If I actually ever wanted to change from customer to boyfriend or more, I would ask her out and get to know her outside the paid session. But I never have wanted that and I’m pretty sure I never will. Though I have thought about it before and I probably will again.

...for your gratuitous mention of me:

and  FUCK YOU for you. lmao

You are a faux stud! And ripe with the stink of lonely braggadocio. Lol!!

I don't think it is a haiku, but it did make me laugh at caca Tex!

Haikus don't usually rhyme but what the hell!

Which is probably why you are such a miserable fucking cunt, digging up posts from years ago as your new hobby.

I likey!

Your ad hominem
is like pissing in the wind.
It blows back on you.

OTOH, if you'd like me to quit pissing on you, all you have to do is light your fat lard ass on fire and I promise I won't piss on you for fear of putting out the flames.

He wants to live in the past because that's when he used to get erections.  If he wasn't such a "miserable fucking cunt", I might even feel sorry for him.  Now I can only say, "Bwahahahahaha"

and several times what those girls could get at home. Even in Costa Rica which was higher than the countries further south down into South America, TLN dates were in the $50 range back in the late 90s/early 2000s. I think it was about the year 2004 or so before the price had moved up to about $100 in CR for TLN. IF you were brave enough to travel further south down to Colombia during the days of the Medellin/Cali cartel wars you could get an all night date with a model quality Paisa for a little bit more than a Happy Meal at McDonalds today. lol

You had to carry ransom insurance to travel to Columbia back then.

it's obvious you don't know what "pissing in the wind" means.

and for the record I am also a college dropout, you seem to always ignore that part of my resume.

Can't help it if things come easy for me. Your name suggests you're Korean... you're telling me that being Korean hasn't made it easy for you to connect with kgirls?

I do not speak or write Korean. But I have worked with Koreans and Korean tech companies for quite a long time. So I’m a bit better at reading signals from Koreans than most non-Koreans.  

Is "Kyungjean" the Korean word for LOSER???  

whoever continued this thread, because the last message being a guy talking about how he'd piss on another guy rubbed me the wrong way...now nothing wrong with that if you're into that, but we ARE on a kgirl forum. Lol.

I don't understand why it's so hard for people to believe that getting OTC, extra free time, good relationships, etc are so hard to get. I'm not a millionaire, I don't have model looks, my dick isn't impressive (I'm now past the denial stage LMAO), I don't live in a mansion, and I have only one car.  

That post is halfway up the thread.  In flat mode, they show in order of posting.  Tree mode allows you to see who is responding to whom.

I like the flat mode for list of threads and tree mode inside the threads.

Sorry, you are right - it was the rhyme that confused me.