Ok, here is what has happened. My gf and I started exploring having another women join us for fun. I first joined TER and started contacting providers we both found attractive. Did not get any responses so I made application with P411. A day after I made application a well reviewed  provider contacted me saying "You do know that you have the same name as an IPD Vice Cop" and suggested I have my gf make appointments. I wrote her back and said "No, and how would I?" Since I had already paid for P411 I figured they would vouch for me and then no more problems. P411 approved me and w/gf permission, I saw a provider that offered a service my gf was ok with me receiving. I then reached out to some other providers for myself and gf and about three weeks after P411's approval I get a notice from them that saying they had received some info and were terminating my account and refunding my money. Knowing I had done nothing wrong and a little upset I wrote them asking if what I had been told earlier was the problem. Gina said yes. I told her that I thought it was their job to look at me thoroughly and dispel any concerns. Her reply was it was not her job to clear someones name and rumors travel fast which at first made me mad but after thinking about it I understand (I am but one person and for $129 it would not be worth it to me either). I have a few questions.

RS2000 appears to be more Chicago than anything else. Correct? No matter what, if I make app with them I will share my email exchanges with P411 first. I am Indy suburbs, is RS200 worth it?

Should I pay to have gf do P411 or just let her try to make appointments? I do not see the point since I will be there and assume the provider would want my info also. Gf lives where she grew up with parents but is not employed (is that a problem?) BTW - I have no problem sharing any info a provider wants provided they are reviewed and discreet.

Finally, it appears what we are looking for is unique. The goal of this encounter is for my gf and neither of us know what we will be comfortable with. We would like to find someone that is attracted to women and at the least provide some visual fun that you would find in any strip club. Beyond that we just don't know. The ideal situation would be to meet someone for dinner first and see if we all click but I am not made of money and would not dare ask for a "dinner only rate" because of my "bad luck" name and it would be insulting from a new client. I have had a great email exchange with a provider that said she was couple friendly but after explaining our goal she admitted that she is not really attracted to women.

Any and all advice, opinions and experiences are greatly appreciated.

Posting in Newb board also.