are any of the providers who offer massage  - actually give a good real deal massage??? not just a petting motion

Many providers are real CMT's!

to see someone who has training in tantra.  They really do put an effort into it.

Other than that, I've seen a few gals who do superlative massage.

Look at the reviews and see if their massage rating on their page says "awesome".  Those gals usually live up to their billing.

Thank-you for mentioning Tantra providers having massage skills.
Many do (myself included) have years of training and experience in the erotic arts.
I specialize in deep tissue, Esalen, LomiLomi, AND my famous hot stone massage.
If you're ever in Orlando, please let me know!
Vanessa Lady V