how some people just don't get it.

We girls do not answer specific graphic questions of any kind for our safety.

I just had a gentleman ask me if I offer daty..I of course, told him to go to my site or check my reviews.  Then I get...I  belong to TER and I'm safe I don't understand why you're having such a problem answering a simple discrete non graphic question as yes or not to daty

I'm sorry to have bothered you.

Let me clarify what has been clarified many times over.  I don't give a toot if you belong to ter...I don't care how many reviews you have...I don't care how many times you are whitelisted..
DO NOT ask these kind of questions OR ask about donations...Oh and if you want to flirt, that is great...But PLEASE don't be graphic in emails or pm's or im's..it really is a huge turn off and a HUGE risk..

Why can't you gentleman understand this????

Believe me I am not the only lady that get's upset by this kind of talk..

One more thing, if you belong to TER then READ and get your answers..

Sorry for the vent but sometimes we just have to do this to get our point across..

Anyone feel free to chime in...

sounds to me this person is not discrete and there for I know i wouldn't be interested in seeing him to begin with. I'd say he did you a favor by ending the conversation. True some don't get it and they never will. I prefer to avoid this type of gentlemen.

Seems like this guy needs a referal to the Newbie Board and should not collect $200 if he passes go.

Please don't judge all guys by this one who must have been at the end of the line when intelligence was distributed.

They never will figure it out.  Sorry you girls have to put up these assholes.  They don't help the rest of us with their lack of discretion.

Swim

Think about it. If they can't figure this stuff out....

like this?

That's funny...

OHVEY
I just hang up the phone, I don't waste my time, energy and wasting minutes on my cell phone.
Then have the nerve to call back LOL!

Bella your not alone...Here is one for you...
Oh I don't do this often I'm a nice guy.
Again I hang up then he'll call back oh we got disconnected then I say when your ready to figure it out call me if not loose my number LOL!

Have a Happy Healthy Yummy Gobble Gobble Thanksgiving!
Tootles
Molly Richards

Very classy photo,NOT!!!!

Showing your true colors huh...

FYI, posting a photo is NOTHING compared to asking me specific questions.. Then again you must not be a true gentleman to understand that...

y'all don't blame me for that!  LOL

Although I must say, I really don't think asking about DATY being offered is the worst, most graphic thing I could imagine some goofball  cumming up with!  I know personally I could do a whole lot better than that!  LOL  

I hate when that happens,all my info is on my website,when gents ask me about  ******I tell the gents to not ask me anything ILLEGAL UNETHICAL OR UNTHINKABLE.All I can do is keep discreete company.

oh gee, you were probably the guy who asked her, right?
whatsamatter, your hand not doing the trick for ya anymore??

Bella is just being security conscious, is all, its something all men should be grateful for.

my 2 pennies worth.

Showing your true colors huh...

LOL.

Anyhow, this whole silly thread belongs on the Provider board, or that other one, the GD board.

Yawn.
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I just read some of your reviews, and if he cannot understand those, he probably does not understand how to DATY correctly either, which would be a really bad experience for you. You are a classy lady, and deserve better treatment.  Wish I was closer to you.

but now I don't have to!

I kid!  I kid!

Just teasing Bella.  I agree that a person should not ask graphic questions.  Some people feel asking about DATY is not graphic because it is initials, not words.    

One thing that is important to me is DFK. If I am not sure, I ask it this way, I make it about me:

"I like to kiss and be romantic.  Do you think we would be a good match?"

Is that a reasonable question if the information is not available?

that is why reading is more appropriate. That is what TER is for...

The ladies know that if we answer anything in an email, a pm or im then it could be used against us.  Initials or asking "round about ways"..could also be used against us. They are not stupid they know what the initials mean..Trust me, they are very slick and sorry I won't fall victim to it..

That is why "reading" on the gentleman's part is more appropriate.

However, think about this...if the information is not on the Ter profile or in any of her reviews, then I am sure it is not available. I wouldn't waste my time at that point....

Hope you have a great Thanksgiving..

thank you for your kind comments...

I am sure you are right I would be in for a bad experience but I bet with you would be a whirlwind...

Bella