You want our support and feedback and then you lash out with anger? Sure, some people here are going to bust your balls, but you acting angry is going to repel others.
I recently gave a local provider some similar advice...acting angry repels people. Of course, she acted defensive and argued instead of seeing the value of some good marketing insights.
I'd scheduled two separate appts with a couple of well reviewed ladies this past weekend. Both of these ladies post fairly frequently on this board. Should I out these ladies??? I emailed both, gave them my cell number, was screened by both and on the day and time, just crickets, no call, no email.
you never know what may have happened. Maybe the day/time was not as clear to them as it was to you. Suggest you reach out to them first to find out what happened, as it does not sound like you have tried that...
The ball was in their court, they should've reached out to him if something came up, however there may be more to this story than meets the eye. The ladies side of the story would be helpful.
let 'em get on here and speak up. Since the OP said they were fairly regular posters here, they have probably read this, and know who they are. Maybe there is a prob with this guy...but NCNS is still wrong. Declining the date would have been more appropriate, or even contacting him with some flimsy excuse, but not NCMS!!!
the two ladies are going to keep their mouths shut. Why would they say anything? Right now their anonymity is perfect. No one knows who they are, and keeping quiet keeps their reputations intact!
I'm sorry this happended to you!!! I just arrived in Orlando and have availability all day today and tomorrow.. I am a petite southern spitfire and have stellar reviews honey.. Either way theres plenty of women to chose from.. Hope you have a better experience next time!!!
He's pissed alright, but what I wondered about, were the appts, incalls or outcalls, he never said that in original post.
Maybe they read his reviews and decided not to see him due his low grades?????? But, regardless, IMHO, they still should have let him know something....
If you have attempted to contact these ladies, for an explanation and received no response, then I think it's your obligation to make others aware.
You mentioned that you emailed both with your cell number and that you were screened. However, I would be interested to hear how much communication took place prior to your scheduled dates. I've observed that the largest reason for NCNS dates is the LACK of communication.
I have learned to prune my skills in this category, nearly eliminating all NCNS appointments and cancellations. Again, communication must be clear and concise by both parties. For instance, if you had a date scheduled with me, we would confirm 2-3 times or maybe more prior to actually meeting. This might seem a little monotonous to some, by I will tell you .....it WORKS! If I advise you to call me once you land, to let me know that you arrived...I will be expecting your call. If you don't, I will attempt communication via email. If I don't receive a response, I will assume our date is cancelled PERIOD. For the ones who seem to think they can refrain from communication and then call 30 minutes from the scheduled date, to find out directions, are barking up the wrong tree. Again, communication...communication...communication!
If these ladies are remaining silent, after your attempted contact, OUT THEM! I have been known many times to pick up the pieces after such shenanigans and I'd love to finally see them outed to everyone. Instead, the guys complain in the back room and never have the balls to come forward. Why? Because the ladies are well reviewed and they don't want to cause a big tidal wave. Fuck that, speak up...let the waves roar!
I was in Orlando last week...had an appt with Paris planned....had a couple emails exchanged... at the last minute my wife decided she wanted to join me on my business trip. We take the good with the bad....right. I made an early cancelation and got a positive reply. I will be back to Orlando.
I also, like Paris, like alot of communication. I state on my site that once you fill out the form I will send you an email that I received it, however, if you don't get a response in 24 hrs. please do email or call me... Then once the screening is complete you will get an email saying we are good to go. I then encourage emails or a few phone calls to build up the anticipation of what is to come. Also, the night before or the am of the day of the appt. I ask for a confirmation call or email. No call no email then guess we are not a good to go. Blackberry's are wonderful as if by chance I am doing something personal, I can respond back to you generally pretty quick.
I also agree...let the gentleman know who they are..Sadly you are back home now and I am sure one of us other ladies would have loved to assist you. Next time you are town, check out one or two of us other ladies..We will be glad to spend some quality time with you..
Sorry for this and next time will be better, I am sure...
since two separate ladies did the same thing, maybe HE was the problem. My OP actually kinda sided with him. After reading this thread, and thinking about 2 different ladies pulling the same thing, I now have to think this had more to do with HIM than the ladies! Either that, or the highly respected, FL board participants he mentions were actually $50/hr CL specials!!!
Sorry but i don't sit on top of the board every minute of the day!!! I do have another life that takes up a significant part of my day. By the way what does CL have to do with anything, if you are saying that you are 2 good to use CL, then that's your fucking business, what does that have to do with the price of tea in China!! I can see that some of you are just a bunch of shilling assholes. Motherfuck y'all, I'll keep the information to myself!! You find out on your own who the bitches are.
(3's-6's most of the time) I can see where you are coming from. Obviously you do little homework and like to gamble on dates. In this case I wouldn't be so surprised at the NCNS deals at all. I didn't say I'm too good to use CL...I'm too poor to use CL. Meaning I'd rather pay a little more and NOT have to worry about NCNS of bad dates if they do show! That's what CL has to do with anything, including the price of tea in China. I don't drink Chinese tea, and I don't wast my time and money on CL skanks! If that makes me a shilling asshole, pass the toilet paper. As for your problem, I can now see why the NCNS would happen, and my apologies to the ladies who left you pounding your pud, as I'm sure they had good reason!
You want our support and feedback and then you lash out with anger? Sure, some people here are going to bust your balls, but you acting angry is going to repel others.
I recently gave a local provider some similar advice...acting angry repels people. Of course, she acted defensive and argued instead of seeing the value of some good marketing insights.
I find this hard to believe. Although I don't write many reviews I have been hobbying a long time and I have only had one NCNS and that one before I discovered TER.
Ladies should be more professional than that. But I have to wonder why anyone would want to see him after reading his reviews, even when he gives a high number on performance he still rips the provider in some fasion. Why take the chance on being insulted, some people just cant be made happy. To Treasure sorry it happened but me thinks you could go a little easier on the critisism without changing the overal review. Just a lurker on the sidelines.
Dirty Diego's name should be changed to "asshole" for the response he gave to a legitimate concern about an issue that was obviously a sensitive matter about a couple of NCNS's to a member. His response was insensitive and should not have been posted on this board and his attitude toward all on this board is why we see fewer member involvements. Why would I want to ask a question be it possibly a dumb or naive one if I am going to be treated like he treated your question. Yes, expose the NCNS's. The power of the written word exposes the worst in the weakest.
You just aren't bright enough to follow along, are you? If you were, you would know this: 1. This guy has a crap attitude, as evidenced by his reviews. 2. He was told, in public and private, to go ahead and get the info out so it can be dealt with. 3. MORE than enough time went by with NO action from the OP. This only serves to keep the shit stirred up needlessly.
Now here's the funniest thing.... If you had actually been following along, you would have seen that BEFORE you posted...the OP popped in, got WAY over-sensitive about a simple post, then told all of us to fuck ourselves and he'd just keep the info to himself. So all he accomplished was starting trouble, and making himself look like EXACTLY what I called it as.
The bottom line is that you have absolutely no idea WTF you are talking about, cause you haven't followed this little unnecessary drama.
This....from a guy with 8 lousy posts in the last year, who asked how to write reviews way back in 2007, and has yet only managed to put out 1. You're very good as a lurker who just takes advantage of the community. You should stick to that.
P.S. I've been called an asshole by MUCH better than the likes of you!
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