Recently I spent a couple of hours with a highly rated local provider who, for lack of a better term or at least one that is not vulgar, phoned in the session.  I booked a 2 hour session, and we spent the first hour + eating and talking.  It was an evening appointment and when she phoned to inform me that she was almost there, 30 minutes after our scheduled time, I asked if she had eaten dinner.  She replied no, so I ordered some food for us.  I was not really hungry, but figured we could dine in a half hour, get to know each other and then have 90 minutes to play.  Long story short: finally got her moving towards the bed, started playing and quickly realized that she was trying to get me to pop quickly.  Which as most guys can attest has the oposite effect.  

Here's the best or worst part (or maybe just another bad part) after several minutes of trying to enter her with a less  rigid tool she says that the spermicide in the condom has made her mouth numb.  I kid you not!  Spermicide with numbing additive...  Well that explains my rigidity issues.  After exchanging her supplied condom, washing my tool and then using my condum we start over.  Then her phone goes off and so did she.  She hopped off me and announced times up while walking over to silence her phone.  When booking the time I'd asked about extending if we were really having fun and that was approved.  So she  asks me if I want to continue, or should she get dressed.  I'm at that point where I need a release but I'm also unhappy with her.  

I opted for an extra hour, popped and then spent the remainder of the time regretting booking her initially and then agreeing to the extra hour and charge.  I am conflicted on whether to post a review.  I don't post reviews when I don't click with a lady as that will happen and this is her business.  But this was not an issue of not clicking or being less than a complete gentleman.  I am fit, polite and always freshly showered, shaved and brushed.

Comments are welcome.

the prior reviewers first

You spent over an hour eating and talking?  Why?  You have to take some control of the time since you're the one paying for it.  At the 30 minute mark, maybe you should've said ok, let's get comfortable (food or no food at that point).

If the first condom were hers, then she should've been very familiar with the kind she uses so I don't know if I buy the numb-mouth thing.  Although why would she make that up?  Maybe some providers can talk about that one.  And why was she trying to get you to pop quickly?  So she could leave early?

When she said "times up", was it really the full 2 hours?  You say you don't tend to write reviews when you don't connet with a lady....I think you should.  This is what other hobbyist need to know before going in.  It's how we weed out the great ones from the poor ones.

And lastly...was this lady previously reviewed and what were her reviews like?

Sorry you had a crappy date.

but maybe not. Many think like you if the lady is a top provider with great reviews shes having an off day while a so so lady will get a less than stellar review for the same thing. A 1 to 5 with a real bad review.  I guess it's easier for a lady to keep all 9's and 10's than a lady to keep her 7's, 8's and 9's. You got cheated and should be pissed. 3 hour date with local top reviewed lady cost at least $300/hour but outcall would be more like 350/hour. Doing the math that's a hell of a lot money.

Write the review and save others from going through the same thing. It also is a wake-up call for the lady if she is getting lazy

Kisses Haley

I suspect this kind of thing happens quite often but we don't read about it in reviews for reasons that seem very obvious to me. Who is going to go on a website and complain about unsatisfactory service from someone who was hired to engage in an illegal activity, the revelation of which could ruin their lives? And I think this is especially true if the provider has done "extensive screening".

I think you should post a review for sure.  You should have taken control of the time earlier.  2 hours and no release, I would be pissed.

about this lady who doesn't give a quality experience.

Just curious, were her other reviews very positive both descriptive and score?

OUCH!  I never thought of that!  

That does put things in a different perspective.  

My advice 1313MiamiNative is stick with those you know and trust.  Once you have a handful of great girls you can count on for just the right amount of variety and great service, why look anywhere else?



Jessica

Let your TER peers know of that experience. I need to post more bad reviews my self as I normally reframe from doing so. Just think what your review will do for your peers researching a new playmate. Those bad reviews really help me make a decision so I need to start writing the bad ones also.

Plus, you'll get some extra VIP time added as well! Can't forget that benefit!

Just a thought, and I'm new so forgive me if there is one, but it sounds like you need a gentleman's only area for you men to discuss these things without repercussions.