just the other day I said you wont blow me, and I ve to fuck you with a condom because you dont like the mess. I got no where.

A single guy gets to thinking he should be in a relationship to get good, steady sex. A married guy wishes he were single to get good, steady sex. (I'm referring to Joe Average here, not hobbyists.) You tried discussing the issue and she ignored you. Yet if your spouse busted you doing this, her vengeful wrath would be tinged with the anguish of a woman scorned.

Ya sooner or later.