I did try to search and found hardly any ladies actually using it. Do any ladies know how this is set up and have they found it sending gentlemen their way. My inquiring mind wants to know !

You click on the button it doesn't do anything. Grrrrrrr!

.... but was unable to get it to work. I put the html snippet on my website and the only thing that came up was the "offline" button. Am I missing something?  

Once you log in to the messenger, you become officially online.  

it works perfectly the way you described it.  Kisses and licks to you hot girl!

and bam got a date already.  I also put the online/offline status button on my website.  See the link below to add to your website.

I tried it when it said you were online but I never got a response from you.