I always wondered, do you girls feel it weird if a guy wanted to compensate you but simply give you a night off? What I mean is take you out for dinner, bring you back to a dimly lit room, massage your feet because you have been looking so damn good all night in those heels just for us, rubbing your neck, shoulders and back and just relaxing. You probably do not get it too much but I wondered if that would make a guy odd, just asking.

"I don't care ho"

Don't you hate it when there's not enough room in the subject line box?

LMAO!!!

Although it is very thoughtful, I would feel wierd taking your compensation without giving you what I do best lol.  You are a very sweet man!

Because I have too much respect for them as people to ask them to labor alongside my sweaty carcass.

I'm not attractive in the least.  They don't get "wet" at the sight or touch of me.  So I figure "why push it?"

All I really wanna do is chip away at my net worth by treating ladies like princesses and seeing to it that (on MY watch) they don't have to put on airs.

For instance, there's the lady I took to Bora Bora for a week.  Her "on-the-water" suite was as amazing as she was.  Since she cut me a deal at $5k a day, I didn't mind that she hooked up with another visitor (well, 2 actually, at the same time) while I waited on her and filled her bath for her.

The only thing that really stuck in my craw as I watched these two studs pummel her in DP fashion was when she motioned to me for a squirt of lube on her backside.  Guess she didn't want Fabio to break rhythm....

Back at the airport, we hugged quickly and she told me she couldn't see me any more.......

All this pampering sounds great.Makes me exreemely horny.I'm ready.

We just wanna be your bitch, that's all.  Total platonic, P4P relationship.

LMAO now that was funny... Hmmmm the DP thingy caught my attention though

Throughout my Saving Sailors career, I've met a few gentlemen who want to take me to dinner, shopping and have given me massages. As long as we are all compensated I do not see any lines crossed. I also do go to dinner before or after a SWIM CLASS, when it is planned ahead. That is how friendships are formed. SIGN ME UP!

fetching the OP is, I don't want him rubbing his gnarly biscuit-hooks on MY feet (or anywhere else), whether I'm on the clock or not.

Now as to whether you'd like it....I've just got this feeling you'd get excited and want to cross off another bucket list "Venue".  Am I right?

Sounds like just what the doctor ordered!
Kisses
Elle

For some ladies. There are a lot of men who just really get pleasure out of giving pleasure. It's a fantastic thing for someone to be that giving and it is appreciated all the more by women who are constantly on the "do" end instead of the "get" end.

I took her out for that 8-hour date and we watched each from across the room.

When I was in Philly, I had this one client in particular who was a huge giver.  The only real issue he had in his marriage is that whenever he bought his wife a gift, she would exchange it for something different.  If he wanted to take her out to a fancy restaurant, she preferred a diner.  He would buy her flowers and she would complain how they were going to die in a few days and were just a waste.

Granted, I felt funny about it at first.  However, when I saw how much it truly did please him, I became more comfortable.  And I would also reciprocate with gifts/souveniers from trips I had been on.  (Usually wine or his favorite whiskey that he could take home with him)  And that made him feel GREAT!

And every once in a while, we would have a play date.  (But I still got flowers and gifts! )   He even treated for an overnight stay for me and a friend of mine in Baltimore.  He was there for a jewelry show with his wife and only had time to stop by and chat for a few minutes.  

We still talk but since I am in Florida now, I don't get to see him.

Hugs,   Tarah   xoxo

I'm very into a pleasing exchange and I don't find it uncomfortable or weird at all!  Its a great way to give a man the gift of accepting and receiving him, that is pleasurable for both!  

Kisses,
Alexis

In the back of my mind I would know that the man WANTS MORE.
I would feel like a "tease" & as if I was taking advantage of him.

I would NOT be able to enjoy the foot rub or anything else without feeling like a jerk.

While that is TRUE...
it is DIFFERENT when the man KNOWS that he CAN have MORE IF he wants
& decides to please a woman is ENOUGH.

It is NOT the same to GO INTO IT KNOWING that MORE is NOT an option.

Although, I can't say that's the "typical" date...it does happen from time to time and it is quite refreshing. I've accompanied gentlemen to dinner, Halloween and Christmas parties, several different charity events and theme parks...without any intimacy.

I've also spent plenty of time "behind closed doors", where the gentlemen never take their clothes off. Instead, they make it ALL about me. Under these circumstances, I do sometimes feel a little guilty accepting a gift.

Paris Bouvier

but it does happen and am always glad when it does. I wouldn't think any man weird for how he wants to spend his time with me. It's not the destination but the journey that is most enjoyable and when a man's journey is to give me pleasure I can only feel blessed.

Kisses Haley