Ladies and gents, looking for opinions on giving 10/10 reviews. I've only given one 10/10 in my decades of hobbying because  i've always understood it to be an experience that is literally once in a lifetime. Yet i see a lot of reviewers giving multiple 10/10s. How can a person give a "once in a lifetime" rating more than once in a lifetime? Am I misunderstanding how the rating system is supposed to work?

Absolutely. I don't see why not. It's not like your grading all the girls that you see on a curve.

If you leave a session thinking that it couldn't have been any better and it meets the TER criteria for a 10, then it is. As far as looks go, there are many different looks, none more beautiful than the others, just different.  Most of us guys just read the narrative anyway. Without being too hard on someone, I have seen 10's given for looks that I would give a 6. There are probably guys who think the same way about marks I have given.

Also, as I have dated several 10's, my definition has changed somewhat. That is bad news because the older, fatter and uglier I get, the more my bar is raised.

The labeling is nonsense.  A 10 in performance is merited if certain criteria are met.  The maximum score is supposed to be 7, yet one extra point can be added if the rendezvous includes kissing with tongue, BBBJ, trips to Greece, and if the lady is really bi.  The first three have to occur during the rendezvous to count; the last doesn't; if the lady's profile says she does, it allows you to kick up her rating an extra point even if you meet with her alone.   IMO, the extra point for bi should only be applicable during doubles, but it does allow us guys some wiggle room to bump up scores a point if the rendezvous was extraordinary on a subjective basis.

As for 10's in looks...beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  This is totally subjective, and you would do well to take this with a grain of salt in reviews.  Use your own judgment if you are viewing her pics, or meeting her in person at an M&G.  

Also keep in mind that an inordinate number of 10/10's should be looked upon with caution.  More to this than meets the eye, in many cases...

While I have seen over 100 ladies,  I have only 34 posted reviews and have never given a 10/10.  Of the ladies I have seen more than once, I can tell you that I may get an 8 in performance one time and a 10 later on.  I tended to get better performances after we had already met each other.  Some ladies were actually nervous when we met.  I assume that had something to do with me being a moderator, or the fact that they think I look like a serial killer.  Once they figured out that I was a semi-nice guy, it always got better.

The point is that the scores don't really matter. What I considered a 10 in the early years, quickly became an 8 later on as my experiences broadened.

performance scoring on TER.  I sometimes read reviews that say "too bad she doesn't offer Greek, or else she'd be eligible for a 10."

The truth is that Greek doesn't have to be performed, and doesn't even have to be offered, to score a girl a 10.  She can "earn" a 10 based on the 7, PLUS DFK, BBJ, and BI.

And she doesn't have to perform any of those in a session to get credit for them if you choose not to partake.  For instance, if Greek is one of her offerings but not your "bag", technically she can still get a point for the offering.  And this is another piece of "wiggle room" that reviewers have if they want to give a 10.

I agree that a string of 10/10's ought to be viewed with caution.  There is definitely an cross-section of the hobby whose eyes glaze over and a likeness of Bo Derek replaces the actual person in the room.  And the newb's tend to give 10 performances like campaign buttons because their world has never been rocked before.  Once in the hobby, it becomes an expectation.

Rules for scoring are cut & pasted below:

"In order to keep our performance ratings consistent, we set up the following system: An escort provider is only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she is willing to perform one or some of the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, and Anal Sex. For each of these services that are offered, her potential max score is raised by one point, with 10 as an absolute maximum.

This does not mean she earns extra points for offering the service(s); just that she is now eligible for a higher score. Her maximum eligible score is based on what is offered, not what is performed during your session with her. You may or may not be interested in the “extra” services she offers, but the fact she offers them makes her eligible for the higher score.

If your review rates a provider higher than her maximum score, the score will be adjusted down to her maximum."

I also  think the TER guidelines that you posted for scoring a girl are very reasonable. Certain activities raise the potential maximum score but don't necessarily mean that the girl will achieve that maximum score unless she earns it.

Personally, the numbers mean nothing to me.  The ONLY person to rate a 10 would be the Lord God Amighty.  Jeasus, Mohanmad, and the other profits (Can't spell worth crap today.  Where is the spell-checker!) would rate an 9.  Just getting an 8 would pretty high on my rating.

What is more inportant to me is what happens behind closed doors and whether the hobbiest and the provider seem to connect.  Myself being old, fat, and ugly, it is how I am left feeling when walking out the door, not necessarily 4 happy endings, the provider being a perfect body, or anything else.  I want to feel like I am the most wonderful individual in the world rather than what I know I am.

(on the side to the Dudette, Halley, Cinderella, and many other wonderful ladys of Florida I have met:  Most of the time, I just can't make that type of drive anymore but would see any of you that we have connected with in a heartbeat.)

'rock'

One of the above post state rules on how to get scores over a 7........This is the only thing that sets me on Fire........I am going to keep this really short cause my opinion should count on this.......

Many times I have recieved reference request from girls to see a client..Dear Valerie is this guy safe, what does he like..etc....I write back, he like greek, or CIM or etc..They write back oh I dont do any of those things I hope he will be happy.. Then the Girl calls me a few days later and tells me I had a great time wth the guy..and all he wanted was a covered BJ...

Hence a review a week later and her score is 1 point higher than mine..why? Extended free time..promise for lower rate on the next visit or even just better chemistry.....happans all the time..and worse the client becomes my regular not hers......s@it is that weird

Thurs I did a booking were a guy blew 4 loads down my throat..Last night a well know provider asked me if this client was safe..I said yes but he only likes BBBJCIM..She responds I only do that with my boyfriend..Her appointment with this same guy is tonight. I am waiting in anticipating

This is humiliating to me though I enjoy the sex cause I really am a vixen but un-fair for business practice.............

I huge percent of the woman on the top 100 list do not offer services that give them scores high enough to even be on the list..They just know the politics...........

It is wrong that a girl with under 30 reviews to be on that list, when there are girls with 100's of reviews no were near that list........

The only way to get pure opinion out of the equation........is to rank girls not by opinion but by shear number of reviews..That proves long term record, professionalism, good customer sevice and reliability. And also proves that ultimatly those girls are the ones that do the things wives wont do and that amature providers wont do at a resonable price to boot.

Gives 10's to a girl.......remember what that tells the next client who's going to see her..you better be right........

Almost any provider with 100+ reviews can knock of her worst reviews and be on that list..But very few have tha stamina and the love of men, sex, and professionalism to get praised 100's of times..

Remember this is written from a womans side..which should be considered before responding..This is beyond personal.........

Though I cant spell this is a very personal intellectual response to the best of my ability..if I was smarter I would be a professor..though that would be a pay cut..........

Peace

Val

The eye of the beholder's (reviewer) point of view and the chemistry that he experienced.

All of this nonsense that a lady has to provide this and/or that service to get a 10 is pure nonsense to me. If the reviewer would like to give a 9 or 10, he should be able to in performance just as he is able to in appearance. It should merely come down to the reviewer's opinion of his experience.

I have dear friends that haven't written a review that I have seen consistently for 5+ years. Some like to write reviews and some prefer to keep their experience BCD (behind closed doors).

Having new reviews is great for business, but it's the connection and the relationships that are developed, beyond the written reviews, that is important to me.

Can't go wrong with an ATF & GFE all in one!


Sweet Kisses,
Sin

I go with a doctor that has only done 5 surgery's instead of one that has done 1000 in his/her career.

A Mercedes is a good car whether it has 25,000 or 100,000 miles..........

I will not respond to any more alias people.......your comment insults 100's of woman on this board.......

Go to OBT to get your quantity woman ...not here.....you could use a $25 BJ right about now...score some drugs while your at it...

Peace..and goodbye..high quantity week cumming up.........

Love

Val

I am 54 years old. I started getting reviews in 07 when I was about 48 or so. My weight goes up and down. Even when I was dieting and exercising in 07, i was still thick. regardless of what I weigh I have a big fat ass and once I had a baby I always have had a tummy, that I can't stand.

Today I am most definitely a BBW now here is that part that I want you guys who prefer the super skinny girls to just plain be nice  to me about.  I have men that come to me and are in such awe of my body. One even went on and on about how I looked like a centerfold. lol lol lol lol

OK OK OK he said it not me.!

I said what magazine are you talking about?

I have emails that call me a butt f&*CK(*g ugly whore. Now there is NO WAY that can be true. Not the whore part lol but my face is very attractive and it can not be truthfully said that I am not. So on the looks, ratings can almost at times be worthless. I had a guy review me this week and said I had 44DDs now I am a 36DD and I do not see how ANYONE can be that off on their guess as to my bra size!

on ratings for performances I will have to go look at mine. I learned a lot about the 7 and the extra possible points available but without question I am a nymph and I love to play. BUT some guys are absolutely lousy in the sack and even though I do my best to enjoy myself with each and every one of you and even though I outright show the guys exactly what to do to get me to squirt some guys either WONT or they can't (which doesn't make sense to me as I am showing them)

I have a great deal of compassion for some guys because they are not good lovers and even when they try they don't try very hard because they are selfish.

You guys wold be doing yourself a service if you sat down and thought it through. What kind of service are you looking for? Do you want to be served and you do NOT NOT NOT  want to give OR GIVE MUCH  during the session? Tell me that. Just say I really am not too concerned with you, Renee, having a sexually satisfying time. I am more interested in you just catering to my body and desires. OR Renee, it means a lot to me to be the best lover I can be so please teach me or show me or let me make love to your body more so than just you catering to my desires.

See that way I adjust to you. If you have fears that you are not a good lover, as for me, and because I am a nymph and I have been around doing this for years and years and because I love men and their bodies (and please kick in a few extra bucks for the extra time or effort it might take,) I will take the time to guide you so you have skills when you leave that you didn't have when you arrived.

I suggest purchasing Masters and Johnston's ( I think that is the book) or the kamasutra (don't know the spelling and bring it to me leave it with me and do a multiple hour read the book try the lesson type session.

OMG I better go check my points. I never even pay attention that stuff but there was at least one 7 and at least one 8. I'm pretty sure.

NOW please just cause some guys think that I have the body of a centerfold and I had the nerve to mention it. Don't get confused I UNDERSTAND I am old and over weight and if I spent more time on top I would probably get in shape and then give these youngsters a run for their money on the looks department.

I am very secure even if I am disappointed in my body and apparently too lazy to jump on top and work. lots and lots of guys think I'm the best in Tampa Bay or so they say before they pop off their load.

PM me for my fantasy about how I could loose weight and trim up and never leave the bed. lol lo. lol laugh with me guys.
better check those ratings right now.

I just got a review and the reviewer said that the environment was sleazy! OMG
Usually the first thing out of everyones mouth when they come in the front or back door is how tastefully and creatively and clean my home is.

Either it is a bogus review or he is out of his mind and used to seeing girls at the best of better homes and gardens photo shoots.

I'm not saying my home is the best it just CANNOT BE CLASSIFIED AS SLEAZY

lol lol lol

wonder who he was?

They charge more or have less reviews. Like I said prior some prefer a woman of quality over a high turn
Over provider. Looks and class count for a lot too. So let me get this straight, I bring you baileys and I get you to swallow 4 of my loads for $25? Cool I'm On my way....Not!

If a gal has not one single negative review, isn't that a little suspicious? I mean really all guys who both see her and write reviews everyone of them not one single 'not so hot review?
I'm not talking about BAD review real bad but comon? she floats everyones boat everywhere she goes?
Don't know if there are any out there like that but I would sure wonder if that were the case.

In the short term, for sure. Otherwise, you're spot on in your observations.

That said my guess is that most don't read or know the rules.

So like everything else in life...let the buyer beware!

In was merely my opinion, just as everyone else gave their opinion on the subject.

Be kind to others and you will go far here.


Sin

We're talking about sex here, right?  The whole "she has to do this to get that score" is ridiculous.  It is possible to have the absolute time of my life with a lady doing some DATY and a HJ, just as it's perfectly possible to have a crappy time with a lady who is a pornstar nymphomaniac who'll do anything.  It's all about chemistry between participants.  Laughter, kindness, and enthusiasm, to me,  are far more important than a perfect body and a willingness to take it up the wazoo.  To the ladies I've had the pleasure to be with, thank you.

Agreed!

However the only way to have real stats is if we all follow the same rules.

But we don't.

TER has posted them as copied above...but as i said most don't take the time to read them.

Your preference is my guess what most follow.

Just because it's in the profile or the numbers may be there, reading the juicy details let's you know what is exactly available.

Kisses Haley

and wish I was able to travel. One day you'll get a surprise and your wish.

Till then Kisses Haley

What's your point?

for the reason you said or they are not happy with them and don't agree.

Kisses Haley

That is understandable. Hence, it's why I've written my post.

I looked at your scores. To your credit....and unlike the pussies on the Atlanta board, you are man enough to not hide behind an alias.

So you've given out ONE 10/10.  

But I also see you haven't seen any of the elite ladies on TER.  What will you do when, say, you meet Brigette Adair. Or Sophie. Or Edrienne, Or Halle.

"SORRY GIRLS....I've already given out my one 10/10. You may blow her away....but sorry, I just can't honestly score you what you deserve.  Hope you understand."

Geez.....There are TWO forms of rules. One is a federal statute.  Non-negotiable.  The rest are some lesser form of guidelines or policy.  To which, I do believe, there is a well known item called "Exception to Policy."

Hopefully more guys do more than just look at scores. They can actually read.