YES I know bareback riding is dangerous and potentially stupid.
YES I know this invites flames thrown at me.
HOWEVER..all of us can and need to admit it goes on out there, maybe for an extra price or with girls who love it but dont advertise it since it invites flames and criticism.
SO.please dont tell me it "would never happen", or that escorts "would never play unsafe" or that I'm "stupid for playing Russian roulette." I know. But i love to.  And there ARE escorts out there who ride bareback.   NO I won't name names, but I have a list of 10 regulars around the country whom I asked and they were more than happy to do it w/o a condom.  I'm new to Florida though and would love some PM's from guys who know girls who'll do this, or messages from girls who will do this - I promise I NEVER "fill and tell" lol
thanks

Dude, I guess you are commited to this approach.  No reason to "flame" you if this is the life you want.  But tell us--does it really make that much difference?  That's the part I can't really understand--the risk is incalcuable.

-- Modified on 10/6/2005 8:11:34 AM

Well you are close... It's not "dangerous and potentially stupid". It's "Deadly and Extremly Stupid"... there is no "Potentially" about it.
I hope for everyone's sake, you tell your non-hoby partners "oh BTW, I bang escorts with out a condom because I like it better, hope you don't mind". Do what you like, but i hope you are responsible.

Well yes I love this way of life, and like anything in life you take your chances.  There's a majority of people though on this board who think it NEVER happens...not true! Happens all the time - some providers never would but there are plenty who do and others who consider it on a case-by-case basis - some providers just want the "business" side of this, others are human and horny as hell too!
Oh I forgot - please email anybody you know to [email protected]
Thanks

I think I'd vomit if I ever found out a condom had broken/slipped off with a provider, but hey, whatever floats your boat.  Have you at least done some research on STDs?

By the way, there's no potentially about it...it's just plain stupid.

...but when offered bb recently I declined.

why do all of you assume it's "deadly"? Is the assumption that every escort has an STD?

Check out some of the girl's private sites and you will see short video clips of them doing guys bareback.  It happens.  Then, you go dining at the Y, asssuming that it never happens.  Then what happens?

I would never go bare back with a provider, excluding BBBJ, however i do not think it is anymore dangerous than going to a club and picking up a complete stranger and taking her home.  most girls who hook up at a club do it on a regular basis and are probably less careful than a provider is because they have been drinking and let lust and alchohol skew their judgement.  if you can find one that will do it, congrats but be careful dude.

I'm with you...As a sexually active adult I regularily bareback it.  Especially when a familiar date turns into something more intimate...I would not, however unwrap the rascal when seeing a provider...for at least a couple visits, but I guess that depends...
Personally, I think condoms suck.  If I have to, I buy the polyurethane otherwise I can't feel a thing!
Please email me I'd like your "list" and I'll give you mine we see if we have any surprises!

You can't assume all providers have STDs, but just like the general population, you have to assume some do. Can you tell by looking at them which do and which don't? I can't.
But, here's a hint.... If she lets you go BareBack, odds are she let the last guy go BB, and the guy before that, and the guy before that, and the before that, and the buy before that....
And that's just this week.
How do you know that ALL those guys and ALL of the girls they have EVER been with are STD free??

there is, in my humble opinion, no reason to take that chance.

-- Modified on 10/8/2005 10:52:24 PM

When you look up from the results of TER Polls, Not many hobbists go to see Doctors to test STD or HIV. But many providers do on a regular basis.

Interesting subject. I too think this happens more than one would expect.