Would it be appropriate to ask to meet a provider at the hotel bar where she is staying for a drink before having some private time? Obviously, the date would start a first meeting so obviously not talking about a short hour meet. Move of a 2, 3, 4 hour sort of thing

I don't see no problem with that. Can't hurt to ask her love.

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but some of the ladies do not prefer it....though some feel comfortable with it...when i meet a gents at a bar...it is a nice way to meet and also feels like a real date!!!
great question .. hope you get more feed back!!!
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The specific question is at her hotel where she is staying or is setting up incall. Meeting at a bar in general, I wouldn't think it much of a bother to ask, but it seems maybe different if it where somewhere she may be for a few days. Any difference?

While I am not much of a drinker I wouldn't mind meeting for a drink just not a the hotel that I'm staying at.

...most ladies will meet you at their bar and typically prefer it. I love meeting friends downstairs for a cocktail first.  

Just be mindful of a few things:,  

- Do not call out her name when you see her. There are others at the bar and it would not be wise to say "Hey Juicy Lucy, it's me, Joe Blow." Notify her of what you are wearing and pick a discrete corner of the bar to meet. Although the gesture is always nice and appreciated, do not show up in a public place with flowers, candy, etc. If you want to do that, just go straight to the room.  

- You may want to ensure that she dressed discretely in public. You do not want to draw attention to yourselves, especially if you live in that area and she is staying a few days at the hotel. She needs to dress conservatively/appropriately. Although she may be hot as hell, having her walk into the lobby in a sequence dress up to her "who ha" and come fuck me pumps is not wise.  

-Be discrete in your conversation. The walls have ears. Talking about reviews, tours, appointments, etc. is not prudent in a public place like a lobby bar.  

Have fun, enjoy yourself and have a drink for me

Your GFE Assistant~
Sexy Ton

great info. Exactly what I wanted to know

Well great I guess the romantic meet up plan I had to rendezvous at Arby's is out!

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I have had several successful meetings like this, the major difference being it is at My hotel. You can read my reviews to see what I'm talking about. I am very open with my screening info. I usually slip the provider the extra room key, and go to the room myself and await her arrival. Any fans of the show "The West Wing" will remember a moment later in the series between two main characters.

if more dates started out this way!

In a situation like this I think it's best to meet at the room for the initial introduction and to leave the envelope in the bathroom prior to walking down to the bar together. I feel way less anxiety that way and then you just look like a couple of old friends having a drink, or maybe work associates or whatever. This way there is no awkward trying to find each other in a public place or accidently saying hi to the wrong person, and most importantly the envelope exchange is out of the way.

Would you rather meet at a bar for a drink or have a new client bring a nice bottle of wine to you? Just curious?