Wouldn't it just be easier if the person who starts the thread follows the perceived rules?

If not....then someone should just report the post as not meeting guidelines....and start the thread the right way.

Just a suggestion.
Thought it might be a little easier than having a sniping fest between ladies, and guys who are trying to be smart-asses.

Feel free to return to your regular programming.....

Just sayin'
DD

I posted a picture of me taken with a mobile phone. I said "Kisses from the Keys", posted the pic and my city, which apparently you said was a good idea.  Other ladies followed suit today as well. You posted "look who's breaking the rules" with no explanation. I haven't receive a pm back from you. I posted "Why" and the thread is all down. My pic stayed for awhile, but now that is down as well.

Okay, I re-posted, same pic, what is the issue? I have been a loyal and reputable member of TER for over 10 years. I would never intentionally break the rules and have always done my best to abide. Can you help me?

I know this is a difficult and time consuming position you have obtained. I do not envy you and wish you the best. Can you please just clarify?

Thank you!
Toni

it's the 1st "Amateur Monday"...
that technically makes it the 1st time you posted it IN Amateur Monday.

THAT IMO, did NOT break the rules of the new theme day BUT...
it is obviously up to Haleys discretion.

Maybe if you spelled Haley's name correctly you will get a response.

...it was not in a "tit-for-tat" direction. I was merely requesting the hostess to clarify the rules for Monday. In fact, I understand her position and the responsibility and thanked her.  Since everything was taken down, I was just outlining the facts to give the background. It was not retaliatory whatsoever and I am sorry you interpreted it as such. Hope I clarified.

Since I don't know the rules and DD does I think that was the problem.  

I may like something but that doesn't mean a hill of  beans. So you posted a city for me. Wow, when did you become my best friend ? I didn't think you would care what I cared about  anyway.

I'm like you and have no authority here. Other people  might have thought this was pushing the envelope or thumbing your nose at me when you posted since DD made a big point under my post.

I certainly posted under ellie Vegas with no problem at all and her post stands does it not.

Kisses Haley

...they all posted their cities....Cocoa Beach, Orlando, Fort Lauderdale, etc. The last time I read the rules in the thread a few days ago, it was a good idea to post the city. It really doesn't matter if you post the city or not, because anyone can just click on your name to go to our profile and see you city. No big deal either way. Thank you  for clarifying.  I was just concerned that is was something against me, since my post was just like everyone else's and only mine was deleted.

Thanks for clarifying. Glad to see you are on top of things.

We need to both shitcan the taunting of Haley; and IF Haley's comment to yo was in any way retaliatory, that's bullshit, too. And, the use of an alias to make mean-spirited comments goes against the wishes stated by TER in eliminating all aliases except one.

...participation. Please, post....we love you.  As far as your other comment, that's okay.  I think Haley will be just fine. It is a time consuming and thankless responsibility. We will see how it all plays out with the new format.

I mean, why take it out on us?????

I was not taunting Haley, and I have my one alias and did not post under an alies. What are you talking about?

You're good.

I feel you, but if you do that then ultimately who wins?
It's a no win situation.
Many of us miss DD but we can't bring him back, God knows we tried.
fight the good fight and don't let the little things bother you.

"I never did mind the little things" Bridget Fonda in Point of no return.


Kisses

Elle

It wasn't in their subject line so I didn't pay attention. It isn't allowed and was mentioned in a post by DD. I never said it could be posted that way and didn't do it myself.

Any change in rules comes from TER and they will post them

Looks like I have a ton of PM's to write and thanks for pointing it out.

Kisses Haley

..."Kisses from the Keys"...it was taken during a visit. I am not based in the Keys. I posted "Deerfield Beach/South Florida" in the body like the others did. Like if I was on top of the Empire State, I would have said "Kisses from NYC"... so I guess we need to refrain from mentioning cities in our titles EXCEPT in the Regional Ad Board....

Thanks again for pointing out my error.

Whew, a lot of new rules and regulations to keep track of.  What happened to us all just having fun!

"Since I don't know the rules and DD does I think that was the problem.  

I may like something but that doesn't mean a hill of  beans. So you posted a city for me. Wow, when did you become my best friend ? I didn't think you would care what I cared about  anyway.

I'm like you and have no authority here. Other people  might have thought this was pushing the envelope or thumbing your nose at me when you posted since DD made a big point under my post.

I certainly posted under ellie Vegas with no problem at all and her post stands does it not.

Kisses Haley"

I am not Hailey but if I may. We may have created our own monster in posting that we thought it was a good idea to include the city in the photos. That making it sound like the rule about advertising was going to change. As our friend d Diego pointed out the powers now moderating might consider the addition of location in the photo as a ad......

It was also mentioned that the prior moderators would most likely have look at it that way. So those of us who liked the idea, myself included misslead some of you with our posts liking the idea. For that I Appologize for my contribution to the idea.  

We all know the basic rules really have not changed. There may be more gray area than before but for a while we will just have to deal with finding what has really changed and what is now a little grey.

This was not Hailey's doing as to a photo being taken down hostess' or hosts do not have that authority. We have to follow the rules as well.

I hope this brings this particular bump in the road to a end. Let's get back to the beautiful ladies and their photos

Bigpart52

Seems like we're getting a little picky here.  If the board is going to go in that direction, it's just going to drive people away, IMHO.

Swim

I understand about following rules. At first I didn't like the idea but when I saw others I liked it..however much to my disbelief I got a pm chastizing me like a 2 yr old. It was pretty harsh to say the least. Now I'm aware I w

as not the only one. Why not just be polite in explaining things instead of being so mean.

I guess for now on no one better change anything unless it comes from the higher bees.  

Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and I sure don't ever want the hostess job. I prefer to have fun instead of all this bologna.

Now I'm getting ready to go party!!   Have a great one all.

Swim my friend you want to borrow my glasses lol her post said kisses from the keys and continued to say listed her city and location.  

This is how TER announces things. they just flip the switch that changes the name color from black to red

Re: Are you the Host now??? :0 -e-

Oh my guess my red tag is showing. Trust me on this it may be red but I am still the same friendly guy

This board is going to go to hell........with not having one specific person in charge. Look at the corporate world successful companies......they have structure........managers etc......DD was our so called board "mod" or "manager" a person who was basically the head babysitter.
Now we have a woman who is out of her mind and out for her own personal vendetta against who the hell cares or knows. I am sorry ladies from threads I read I would NEVER want to be associated with Haley. She is drama and throws people under the bus without a wink of the eye.  I would gladly be associated with Toni any day. She carries herself with the utmost style and grace. She is thoughtful, educated, and actually has something interesting to say.

From the past couples weeks all the bullshit alias' and all the DRAMA I am out. I won't be posting any pics on this board gents find me on the NYC, Boston, or Chi boards. I am strictly just ads.

I sure hope TER gets their head out of their ass and see what a disaster this discussion board is going to turn into. As for now Ta-TA and all my lovely ladies who attended the Cupid's Ball boy what a lovely night we had!! Love you girls!!

Xoxxo
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-- Modified on 2/13/2012 9:24:28 PM

We do not have Moderator powers. Haley could not remove a post nor could I.

DJ

DD you make a excellent point and aren't we all here to have fun?  And of course enjoy some sexy times......