My personal preference is a mature lady. Being a "mature" gentleman myself, I feel that we have some things in common just with our ages. There are some things that just cannot be substituted for experience.

Just my $0.02

Jarhead

The 21 year old spinner type. I being in my early thirtys and hitting my sexual peek, I am more in tune with my mind and body then ever before.  When I was 22 I was a kitten in bed but now I'm sex hungry puma.  I have heard that older providers have their qualities too, although I'm not there yet so I could say.  So I wanted to hear the pros and cons and preferences from our wonderful group of gentlemen on this steamy Florida board.


Kisses


Elle Vegas

21 can be great to look at, but, perhaps more "maturity" provides for a better experience in mnay ways.

The reason ..........." When I was 22 I was a kitten in bed but now I'm sex hungry puma "

My opinion and experience is the young ladys ( girls if you will ) just simply don't know what they are doing with a man and his penis . They may have a killer body and perky tits , that's great !

There is a much bigger part of the equation - being confident , mature , experienced and knowing 100% how to turn a man on and what to do with a penis that will bring him to a squishy mess when you are done .

Our brain needs to be stimulated as well . A girl who only has 22 years on this planet just won't stimulate my other sexual organ called the brain .

I need to go look at the top ten in some of the markets , and look at their age to see if my logic has some facts to back it up .

Because mature is HOTT! I consider anything over 30 in the mature bracket. Not because of age, but because of experience. I wouldn't trust my prostate to a 23 year old...no way! Skills come from experience and experience come with age...  Mature ladies enjoy the milking, their good at it.

Looking up the top ten that is.

It was pretty interesting to me to say the least what I discovered!

I myself absolutely refuse to spend time behind closed doors with a gentlemen under the age of 30, they don't have any clue how to please a woman (sorry if I offended anyone), just my opinion.

Also, I couldn't agree more with being confident, mature and experienced and knowing 100% how to turn a man on but remember, a mature woman can have a killer body and perky tits as well!


Sweet Kisses,
Sindie

Anything over 30 for me. Again, its not age as much as attitude...

Experience matters!  Floriday is fortunate to have such a wonderful group of mature providers.

and I'm no longer young myself, I prefer experience over youth. Even my definition of the body type that I’m attracted to has changed as I myself have matured. Perfection to me is no longer a 21 year old spinner body type. I love the softness and curves of a 30 plus woman’s body.
Don’t get me wrong, I still like to stop and ogle at the young women in their 20's. However, beyond sex, I'm not sure I would be interested in spending my time with a woman that I can't relate to or bond with. Yeah, I know some will say there is nothing beyond the sex. However, for me I like to enjoy the "person" as well as the sex.  My time is valuable too, and for me to maximize my overall experience, I need to genuinely like the "person" I'm sharing my private time with.
I find a fit woman in her 30's and 40's to be far sexier on both a mental and physical level. Her life experiences make her a more confident and sensual person. These same life experiences also give a person a little humility and vulnerability that can be so sexy.  As for pure sexual performance, it was hit or miss with the girls I dated many years ago. Some were not very good at all. Every once in a while I’d find a nymph and boy that was fun. The problem was that if the girl didn’t do it for me out of the bedroom, eventually the thrill of just the sex would wear off and turn into just booty calls. It wasn’t until I met my wife that I found that combination physical and mental attraction in a woman. Funny thing was she was about 30 when we got romantically involved. So I guess that further confirms my preferences.
When hobbying, I typically look in the 30 year old range, expecting she might be a few years older. Lol As a point of reference I’m a few years shy of 50. I’m more likely to call a woman in her 40’s than a girl in her 20’s. Everybody’s time line is different so it’s hard to pin down at what age are you a puma, milf, or mature woman. For me, a puma is 30-35, a milf is 30-45, a mature woman is 45 plus. Some of these overlap so you can be a puma milf. That’s a rather nice combo.

Sounds like I'm in the minority but it seems that as I am getting older (I'm in my 60's now) I find myself more and more attracted to younger women.

I tend to think this is pure biology at work, i.e., the fertility factor. I think maybe my genes are getting more and more desperate to propagate before I check out of the human race.

Then again it could be a longing for youth and all the memory of all those young playboy models whose pictures I wanked off with in my younger years.

40 is about the age where I tell myself to move along, nothing to see here.

No offense to anyone. Like I said, I think it is just biology.

P.S. - I don't like the "spinner" type either and probably for the same reasons.

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I am not going to address the sexual aspect -- both are all I could handle when they arrive ; to my grand pleasure  !

The difference is the setup and timely arrival ! In two dates twenty has been one hour late--and on to second scheduled for noon, did not contact me until seven in the evening ! Yes she had a very valid reason for not showing at noon--BUT no excuse for not calling at 11AM !

The Puma --many dates over the last two years  Has on RARE occasions been late but I have never been unaware of her tardiness in advance of the scheduled arrival , and she has always linger bit longer when she was late !

Yes STUFF does happen in life but , to me , puma has more control of her life and can limit the STUFF !

My wooden Nickel's worth !

Men like variety. That's why we are here. That's why we do what we do.

Based on the varied ages of most of the guys (35+ and +++++) they're going to go for the mature (30+) ladies on a regular basis. Women in this age group are more comfortable with their own sexuality, and more able to carry on conversation during the down time.
This is what we choose the most.

What no one seems to want to say is that there is also something exciting about the young ones. Yes we know they can't carry a conversation. We know they don't relate.
But there's something about a flawless 20 year old body bouncing up and down on you that attracts us on a primal level. It's raw.
Sure, she may have little to no GFE skills refined yet, but the bod and the pure sex for sex only experience is exciting.

Most of your answers will say we like the mature ones, and we do.
What you won't hear, or see reviews of, are those same ones who visit women their daughters or granddaughters age simply because they can.
They are the ones who will answer your question the way they think you want, and will look best on the board.

Perhaps this can be construed as reverse age discrimination but there have been numerous threads on NCNS, un-returned calls/emails/texts, filled voice mails etc.  One thing I found is that the younger providers are by far, the least reliable.  I've NEVER had a mature lady not keep an appointment but with young gals...  Jeesh!   I've about given up on them.   Yes, there have been a few success stories but sorry young-uns.  I've had way too much bad luck and heard every excuse under the sun, that is, if I heard back at all.  It's just my observation and I call 'em as I see 'em.

a-clouds

As a mature male, I would love dearly love to hook up now and then with a super hot young lady but I know from a lifetime of experience that it just would not be worth it.  (and I would be willing to pay a premium too)  The younger ladies just don't have the ability to do the deed to my satisfaction.  There is too much that they won't or cannot do as they just don't know their own bodies let alone the male body and what makes for a good fun session.  A lot of them have probably never had a real toe curling orgasm themselves.  Just to mention a few thoughts on the.  How many really enjoy DATY and can really respond to tongue and fingers?  How many really enjoy DFK with a client and are good at it?  How many are willing to perform BBBJ and can do so with reasonable ability and enthusiasm?  I don't even need to go that far out - - - how many can even give a real good full body massage to a happy ending?  Well - - - - I'm waiting for an answer ?????

Over the last 20 years I have participated in the lifestyle when I reflect on my experiences there has only been a very few situations where a younger provider has come close to the skills and wonderful experiences of a mature lady.  I will always chose a more mature woman these days as my personal feeling is that I want to be able to have a conversation with the lady I spend time with and that to means a mature lady.....  Guess that says how I feel GRIN

Bigpart 52

Good question ElleVegas,but I do not find it easy to answer and to be fair to ladies of all ages.  We are likely to think age and maturity to be the same - not always so.  Yet there is a relationship between age and maturity. I've met younger ladies to be more mature than some older ladies. So I have a little difficulty in doing the category of more age more maturity as an absolute. The younger ladies tend not to have the experience which contributes to the development of skills or even open to receive pleasuring. Yet I've found some young ladies with fantastic skills, but it is the exception. My super fun is giving the lady pleasures. And the more pleasure they are open for me to provide, the better and often this means more than one orgasm for them. I find the more experienced a lady, the tendency is for her to be more open to my pleasuring  and skilled in providing me my desired pleasure she can give. Also, the older lady know how to max her physcial assets that are attractive to me - make up, hair beauty,etc. And the conversation with the 28 year old and older flows much better.

The bottom line, I tend to go for the older vs the younger.  Yet here and there a certain lady, though younger may catch my fancy for some visits.

So I looked at my list and came up with some interesting, at least to me.  I have been saying in response to similar posts that I preferred ladies between 30 and 45.  So I did some analysis of my dates.  Out of my almost 150 wonderful encounters, 30 were with 22 different ladies that were under 30 at the time I saw them.  Only 6 were under 25.   All the rest, with 2 exceptions were at the time of visit between 30 and 45, 37 different ladies, numerous repeats obviously.  The average age of all my ladies is 36.8, the repeats are included for each time I saw them as they may have had a birthday between visits.

I wasn't lying about my preference for more 'mature' ladies.  I guess I'm like most of the rest of you in preferring more 'mature' ladies, at least by age standards.  Unlike many of my compatriots that have answered ahead of me, I don't have an explanation of why.  I just look around and if someone piques my interest, I don't look at the age, I just press on with the research and if successful, I make a date.  Age is not one of my requirements for paying a lady a visit, too many other things are more important to me than that.

Swim

Age is not a requirement, but I typically end up spending my time with ladies in that are 30 plus. I have spent some good times this year with a 23-24 year old. So, It's not that I wouldn't or don't want to see younger girls. I think it has a lot to do with the research I do before I chose my dates. Excellent reviews and consistency are very important to me. Many of the younger girls are lacking in this regard, so I'll pass and go with a lady that I know I will click with.
This exact scenario played out earlier this year when I was traveling for business. I had it narrowed down to 3 girls. 2 were 21-25 and one was 26-30. P411 listed the 26-30 provider as 31. All of the girls were an average of 9/9 in their reviews, in the juicy details  the 2 younger girls had a few ymmv comments had me on the fence. I ended up seeing the 30 plus provider because all of her reviews raved about how sweet she was. Turned out to be a great appointment.
I'm heading out of town again later this month and based on my research, I have my top 3 girls picked out. Again, the top 2 are in the 31-35 category. The 3rd is 21-25.
Like I said in a previous post, my time is valuable too. Discreetness is also extremely important to me. I need to feel very comfortable and trust that the provider I chose is a true professional. That's hard to find in the younger girls. Maybe as I get more experience under my belt, my views will change. But for now, that's my story and I'm sticking to it.

...is as vague as life itself....

It is all relative....Mature in age? Disposition? Position in life?  

One of the definitions (from the DICTIONARY ITSELF) says"having reached a desired state in life"....Dear God, no one will ever be MATURE.... no one is ever happy where they want to be in life....and if they are, there is always something more they want or need.

Another definition says "belonging to the middle stage of EROSION"...come on now, "EROSION"?!  Wow.... If that is the case, I NEVER want to be mature.... Okay, I know my body aches, but ERODING?

What is wonderful about this hobby and the boards is, there is an ass for every seat or a seat for every ass..

We have hobbyists from 21 to 92....we have providers from 21 to 62 (?).....  What is mature to a 20 year old, is probably young to a 40 year old....and a young spinner to a 30 year old is an infant to a 50 year old.  It is all relative... Come on now, do we have to go here....

If we do, then here is my final comment:

"The older me gets, the older ye gets too..."  Here's to getting older and better and wiser and maturer.... Is maturer a word?

While we know not everyone here is not actually over 60, it is one of the stated traits of this board to be more laid back & to have more mature, less heated discussions.  So I'd be extremely surprised if the vast majority of respondents didn't fall on the side of preferring mature ladies vs. young ones, and it's pretty clear that's how it's turning out.  Might get a different answer on a different board.
As to me, I have a pretty firm rule of not seeing anyone under 25, and most of my sessions are with ladies over 30.  That doesn't mean I don't find the young hard-bodied early 20s ladies physically attractive & indeed am very tempted by some of them.  But I feel there's not much sense having a rule if you're going to ignore it, so I pretty nearly always resist the temptation.

in the hobby the last 6 years....22 year olds to 55 year olds....blonde, red head, brunette, white, black, latina (damn...gotta get an asian!!)...they were all hot & fit....so,  IMHO....it's all Good Pussy!!!

YUM!

A rose is a rose is a rose is a rose- G.S.

gj

know how to truely please a man. Sure they can get him off but usually it is without a GFE experience.

Therefore, I tend to see ladies in their 30's and early 40's although I will see someone in their 20's if they have caught my eye by what they have said on the boards or in PM's or emails.

I never really thought about this before. I typically have gone with the ladies I thought were hot. Some turned out to be while others did not. When I look back on the ladies I have seen, the ones over 30 were consistently the more skillful at their trade.