I made plans to meet in Ft. Myers with Aaliyah Hadid TER ID: 295758. She is advertising with the name Aaliyah and phone number of 336-717-1365. I was aware that she had two bad reviews, others were excellent, but she explained the bad ones were from her agency that was unhappy that she went independent.

After driving appx an hour to see her, I texted her multiple times at her hotel without any response. After 35 minutes I left.

I sent her a text telling her that she made an unwise business decision as I am a member of p411 and TER and that she could have had a nice review.  

Three and a half hours later, she texted me that she had fallen asleep. She made no apology and no offer of making things right.  

Make plans at your own risk. Be prepared for a NCNS

I don't believe she is touring. This occurred in the middle of the day. If I may ask, how many times have you missed a meeting because you fell asleep? And, what was your response to the hobbyist after you awoke?

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I have never called out a provider for a cancellation. I am mindful that cancellation is a reciprocal issue in the hobby.  

I give the benefit of the doubt whenever I have received cancellations. This time I did not because my instincts, which admittedly could be wrong, didn’t believe her.  

I was irritated that she expressed no remorse and made no offer to make it up to me, as has been offered in the past.

I value the information, both good and bad, from p411 and TER to help ensure safety, discretion, professionalism, and activity compatibility.

I initiated this thread for informational reasons and for venting. Perhaps it will encourage her and others, both providers and hobbyists, to respect others’ time and money

I travel and have local encounters.  I can't imagine falling asleep when company is expected!  I am too hyped up, doing my makeup, picking out the right clothes, making sure the room looks perfect, picking out music....in general up to the last minute I am tweaking things to make the encounter perfect!

The only times I have ever cancelled an encounter are when I ended up ill and in the hospital or when I cancelled or cut short a trip out of town.

given you a discounted rate...added more time to a visit..and Apologise ...
That is not a good reflection on the type of provider she is...
sure we all make mistakes..but that was uncalled for!

Glad your safe..
I have read threads as such through out the years..
where did professionalism in this buz go??
Hugs.. to all
Keri