Guys how do u feel about a provider u have seen texting or emailing after meeting just to say hi or tell u about specials?

I'm single, so I kinda dig it!   I prefer the GF type of provider in the first place.  Not in the stalker/I need the money kind of contact.  But There are quite a few providers that email me to let me know that they are coming back to town, or just saying "Hey".

I am single and see no problem with it.   Mostly asking me when I will be in their town or city again for a meeting.   I find it harmless and actually builds a good rapport between me and the girls.

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it's no problem for me.  Besides, it tells me that she felt at least comfortable being around me, and hopefully enjoyed my company.

I am single.. Have nothing to hide.. and I agree with what the others said for the same reasons...

and how I could not call or text unless he did so and let me know that it was ok to text back. I had one married lover that had his own room away from his wife's and he would text me to sex talk and masturbate. He would text me something and then add: it is ok to text back lol as he knew that I would not unless he said so. I was a mistress before providing so I had it already ingrained the what not to do's so there was no issue with me calling or texting or even emailing out of the blue. There are some of my clients that say you can email or call whenever but I still do not like to do that. I always appreciate him making the first move. I do have long time regulars that I email but never over specials. Just hello and there are a few with health issues that I have checked on. One had diabetes that needed to be regulated. We had finished a date once and his blood sugar or something had him shaking or hell it could have been what I had just done to him (haha! and I had checked on him later to assure he was ok. I do not travel so it would never be that but I prefer to have them to contact me first always. They will never receive texts or phone calls from me out of the blue ever.

I always feel happy when I hear back from the girls I have met.   That gives me great pleasure to know she had a good time with me and wants to see me back in bed with her.    Many of my second and third visits to some of the sexiest ladies have been very open minded due to familiarity, intimacy and a sense of feeling safe.   Quite a few of them I saw going from a great GFE to PSE.    Due to TER policy I cannot post repeat reviews for the same lady.

While the consensus from previous responders seems to be that unsolicited emails aren't a problem, I do have a problem with it. I had a provider verify me at a work email. Well after we met, she sent me a solicitation email (that was not discreet at all) to my work email address, not my private email address. Pissed me off.  

and it's always good to hear from friends    8-)

With today's technology that is sort or risky for both - I love keeping up with my AFT's but I don't feel using phones, texts and traceable email is a wise idea.  

Here is a good example of what I was talking about . . .

That is really a stretch.   I guess people have better things to do.

discreet, hidden, secret, hobby only email.....

I have a newsletter someone can sign up to if they want to hear from me, or they are welcome to email me any time. I will never email out of the blue unless we have an understanding. My exception is holidays- I may send a holiday hello of some sort. But usually that's done via my newsletter.

Agreed,  I like it. It can be sexy and fun and lead to more and greater meetings together IMO

+1.  I enjoy emails for sure

When it comes to calls and texting..no way will I  contact a guy first, he has to open up the line of communication.  Even then, unless he specifically says get back to him anytime... if I am not able to reply back within half an hour Ill respond to him by email because I dont know if its still safe for him to get a call or text back from me by then.  The only exception to this are a couple of guys who Ive known for yeeears, strongly established friends and we text (but still not call lol) anytime.   I have to have my own limit to that though...Id have no life if every, most or many guys were like that.