Hello,

I hope this is ok to post..I am new to this hobby, nervous to jump in. I have looked at many sites but never got the nerve to try. I am somewhat overweight so that adds to nervousness. Any advice from the experienced and ladies?

I am willing to go to Tampa, Orlando, Jacksonville areas. Is that to broad, do I need to narrow it down?

Jim

When you feel comfortable, come back here and ask for Newbie friendly providers.  Be prepared to give extensive screening information due to your lack of reviews and board presence.

Good luck, we all start somewhere.

Thank you, I will do that soon.

Jim

What a coincidence! I just happen to be "newbie-friendly". I'm in the Treasure Coast area but travel anywhere from Orlando to Miami. No worries about being nervous with me either, I'm alot of fun )

As a "somewhat overweight" dude myself I understand what you may be feeling. I'll think you'll find that you are certainly not alone in that department. My personal experience has been that my weight was never a concern to providers. Be polite, well mannered, groomed, etc. and you'll be just fine.

You have come to the right place (TER). I too am new to the hobby but no longer a virgin.lol  The FAQ for newbies is a good start. I would also as recommended look for a newbie friendly provider. I would also add a well reviewed provider/agency is a must for the 1st time. Good luck with your new hobbie.

TimeTraveler2010

As a newbie myself who just took the plunge here in Flotida I can understand you being nervous, but I think we tend to over complicate things.  Remember this is all about having fun for you and her.  Read the reviews here, do some research and decide on a lady. (I joined p411 to help with the screening.)  How far you travel to see her is completely up to your comfort zone.  Unless you are MASSIVELY overweight I am sure most providers will not care at all.  Just remember to be very clean.  No one likes to kiss a garbage mouth or get next to a smelly body.  Make sure you follow her protocol for visiting and have the rate correct (a tip and/or a ice-breking gift is nice.)  But most of all simply be RESPECTFUL.  Treat her like a lady, which is what a man should always do anyway, and you will be rewarded.  Pick the right lady, RELAX, and have some fun!

I too am relatively new here but once you get started it works very well. Evveryone has given you good advice. While the good reviews I have all been accurate and very helpful, what I do find  disappointing on the site is a reluctance to give bad reviews. There are many bad providers that have been out there for yers where no one has done a bad review.  Let's not be afraid post the truth!

Hi Hun~ When youre ready, there are many ladies including myself who would be happy to welcome you to the Hobby.  We understand your concerns and, will make you feel comfortable and welcome, and make sure you have a wonderful experience  xoxo~L

Give Lauren a shot. She will really put you at ease with her outgoing personality. You will have a great time.