Why are so many ladies who place ads on TER so lax on checking TER PM's from interested gents? Often time it will be 3-4 days later when she replies to a request for a appointment. It seems like you're not using the full resources available?
Communicating thru PM on TER is the safest and most private way of reaching out to ladies and getting responses. Email Accounts can be hacked and can be used to blackmail. For me it does not matter as I am single. How would a married guy react if his email account is hacked, have his email correspondence with escorts printed and mailed to his work or home especially if he is married?
Same thing with web sites. They can be hacked very easily and all private contents can be used to blackmail. My opinion. People may differ or don't agree.
If you want to ensure meeting a lady. Got to her website and see how she prefers to be contacted . I Am on an exchange server. Much like safe office and other very private means of communication. TER is not suitable for me for screening or setting appointments. It is not a verification site, it's a review board. It is also not private and all communications are viewed by a third party. That being said, different ladies have different screening methods. Some basics include name and DOB and email for starters.
If you are unwilling to provide me with these basics then we will not be meeting. I am sure there are ladies who accept PM's on TER as appointments but not many. Maybe TER should make this an additional option to our TER profile? Security within this community should be everybody's priority. With that being said stay safe. Have a great day Xox The Sexy Swinger
If you read the lady's site and profile it says the best way to contact her Everyone is different so if you read and follow directions I'm sure you will hear from us sooner than later... I personally prefer an email to my gmail account or fill out the booking form on my site Also, in my experience, (imho) many guys on here just email to email, they are not usually requesting a date...if they are serious they read my site and send email to my gmail or use my booking form on my site and sometimes send a pm here just to let me know who they are In the grand scheme of things: we are people too and have busy lives and family obligations, just like you 😀 Best advice: read the website and follow directions for best results you don't want to miss out on your next atf! It's a great day!
I get email notification immediately upon someone sending me a private message here. If anyone is interested in having this convenience, check your account manager for "notifications". I am notified via email on my hobby phone a message is waiting. Saying that speeds things up but I only have one computer I open TER up on and it may be hours till I can read the message.
I also don't use TER as a single way of screening my new friends. If you have whitelists, post or write reviews they are used in my decision-making process. I always ask for an introductory email as well with name, age, physical description, city/state you live Kisses Haley
Ever since I let my VIP expire, I can no longer send or read any PMs.
When I did use them, it was only to contact someone perhaps about a thread that was active, etc. Never to set up dates but I also used them as a way to introduce myself........ then move on to private/hobby emails.
The provider can click on your member name to see who you have seen and wrote about. Your whitelists are there as well. No need for her to search TER now and email will help confirm your plans.
Sounds like you have a good plan but ..... I thought gentlemen who didn't have VIP couldn't send PM's .... That is very good info you shared here since many men review but don't have VIP Hope your having a good day ..... Kisses Haley
I did put a caveat at the end of my posting. "My opinion". "People may differ or don't agree".
I am and will not say that PM is the way to contact, screenings and appointments. It is nice to show interest and break the ice to go forward. I have used PM sometimes to check if a date and time is good for me and the lady to meet and then proceeded with the screening. I do get lots of PMs from ladies who are interested in seeing me. I have had plenty of appointments set up thru PM with ladies who had no problem with doing it that way. It all depends on how the two parties want to handle it. In your case I am sure I went too far with PM and regretted it later. Spilled Milk! Stay safe everybody.
I guess I'm confused as to why some ladies are not alerted when someone sends them a PM and some are? Does it depend on your level of membership and why wouldn't all providers have a VIP membership?
And check the box that says "get email notification".
Then they will get an email when there is a pm. BUT...I personally like email communication. If I get a ter pm, then I have to get to my computer and log in. If it is an email and I happen to not be home I will get it immediately. Hence a much faster response! Makenzie
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I guess I'm confused as to why some ladies are not alerted when someone sends them a PM and some are? Does it depend on your level of membership and why wouldn't all providers have a VIP membership?
Serious people looking to make a serious appointment will follow the guidelines posted on my website. Otherwise it is time wasting. I come here to banter and have fun when my schedule permits. I use twitter to show my personality, TER is for my reviews and reputation and my website for actual bookings. It is a pretty simple format.
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