Great post, Elle. Sorry for weighing in so late. I visited a couple of swingers clubs near Amsterdam a couple of years ago. One of them, called Fata Morgana, made for an amazing experience. I went one night with a lovely Dutch provider, a leggy blonde, and the next night with her once again plus a cute Italian-Spanish spinner. After you paid the entrance fee, you went into a locker room, where my companions, like all the other ladies there, changed into revealing lingerie. I, like, most of the guys, stripped down to my boxers (but I now wish I'd worn something kinkier, like a g-string or a jock strap). From there, we went to explore the club. Lots of beautiful people -- and all couples (or, in my case one of those two nights, MFF), so no leering, creepy single guys. There were all sorts of places to have sex, including one large room with cushions on the floor and couples fucking from one end of it to the other. My leggy Dutch provider and I joined in that first night. The second night, as part of a threesome, I had the Spanish-Italian spinner in a standing doggy position in a smaller group sex room while she faced and made out with the leggy blonde; I turned around and realized a whole bunch of people had come into the room to watch us. I went back to doggystyling her with the biggest smile on my face -- I'd never realized what an exhibitionist I was till then! There was also an indoor swimming pool -- more like a gigantic hot tub -- where what little you were wearing came off, and you could make out with your date(s) in the water with all sorts of other wet, sexy action going on around you -- amazing for foreplay.
My personal situation changed not long after that experience, and, as a result, I haven't played at a swingers club since then, in Holland or anywhere else. I'm coming back to the States in two months and am VERY interested in finally experiencing it once again. I hope to be registered with P411 this week, and will be in touch!