Its a real plus when the lady when the lady responds to a post,email,PM,etc.

The build up to a rendezvous is almost as important to us guys as the actual date.  The average hobbyist sees 1-2 girls a month and the nervousness and excitement leading up to is a big rush for us. Flirty emails and text messages and great board banter go a long way toward setting the great providers apart from the good ones.  A nice thank you after the session always sticks in our minds as well.  

Take it or leave it, it's just marketing 101 and I Thought I would put it out there.  We all want to be made to feel special even though deep inside we know better.  LOL.  Well, some of us are special anyway.

that what you are talking about is more a PERSONALITY thing
than a marketing thing.

I have taken the time to do all of the above (sometimes at great length)
& NEVER even seen the guy...
I AM FINE WITH THAT & I will continue to be GRATEFUL for all interest in me.

There are many providers however, who simply do NOT look at it that way.

Everyone has a way of doing business that appeals to their "target market" because...
even IF we TRY to be something we are not...
we DO "shine through" in everything we do.

cummere big boy and lemme give you a big kiss!

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There are far too many choices for providers to skip on saying Thank you. I often start my first reply with a thank you for getting in touch as well.

It is nice to a point but a gentleman would have to start the communication with me since some may not like this attention. I never would say anything in an e-mail that wouldn't be said on the phone. Actually I say less in e-mail since it might be seen by someone else unknowingly. I know few ladies that want text messages and I for one hate them. Sending messages via text that can be brought up in a legal matter later is never good.

As a whole this is a fantasy on both sides and building the excitement can be a plus. Knowing where to draw the line can make or break it .

Kisses Haley

I will converse and tease via email, leading up to our rendezvous. However, there's a fine line between building anticipation and going overboard. I've had gentlemen set up a rendezvous with me months in advance. Then, they want to email back and forth several times a day....at great length. I feel like they've taken over my inbox, at times. Furthermore, sometimes I think it can lead to expectations that can't possibly be met.

After our rendezvous, I try to always send a thank you email. I appreciate them selecting me as their companion, when they have so many other choices available.

As far as communication on the board. I enjoy it immensely, when I have the time. I think it's a good way to learn an individuals personality and determine whether that's someone you'd be interested in spending time with.

Happy Holidays!

Paris Bouvier