whos responsibility is it to provide condoms ????

and carry more than one size. We all know one size doesn't fit all. In this case it is never the man's responsibility and for my protection I will always use mine.

After a terrible experience with an indy in Orlando who forgot to bring it with her, I always carry my own to appointments.     As for  whose responsibility, in all fairness it should be the girl.

I will have them with me but will us the ladies if they want me to =)

be sensitive to some brands.  Also, she may prefer one brand over another for a variety of reasons.  I myself use SKYNS made by Lifestyle which come in regular and large.  I hope one day they will make XL.

condoms for protection. Lady's choice if both have supplied condoms.

It's different from lady to lady and from gent to gent I guess. I always bring protection. I have a variety to choose from as I know some gents prefer/fit  different brands, styles, and sizes. I carry brands like trojan, durex, and lifestyles and include different types like ultra thin, xl, her pleasure, spermicidal, and non-latex (polyurethane/polyisoprene). I had one female condom but I don't get many requests to use them so I don't carry them anymore...

supply if condoms on hand.  I have never had a problem with this.  In fact, I've come to expect that the provider will have whatever she needs to have sex with me (condoms, lube, wipes, etc.).  I've seen a lot of ladies and it's never been an issue.  And I understand perfectly that providers don't want to use any that the hobbyist might bring.  If I were in their position, I'd want to have 100% control over all the physical aspects of our meeting.  But I don't see BP ladies and only see well established well reviewed ladies with a good reputation (which I think ought to be the rule for everyone), so maybe there's a part of the hobby I'm not familiar with.

In fact, most providers won't even use a condom you bring because too many asshats do stupid things to them. I use three brands, and that's it. If a guy can't fit in them, he has no business contacting me, because this info. is not exactly cryptic.