Thank you! people sometimes don't realize that the Dade-Broward-Palm Beach metro area is consistently top ten largest and most populous in the country.... and high season is NO JOKE, specially in the ORL.... NOTHING will happen immediately unless we're 3 miles from each other lol

I also think gentlemen forget that it takes time to make ourselves up and look great for them! So thank you for mentioning that. I for one usually prefer a three hour notice, and even that is a rarity. Days notice is best!  
Thank you for this post!

**Does it to be sarcastic, with messy hair and little to no makeup**
"You don't look like your pictures"

Any clue why?Fifth seasonal visit,never happened before.If I even return I will go to Ft Myers Naples area. Always too slow here but Friends nearby that is only reason I come here

All Good Advice TampaJ.  Yes, we all need a little time to prepare for the perfect date.  I have never had any issues with snowbirds who tend to request dates well in advance.  
There is always the airport issue: Gents, plan for twice as much time as you need to get through airport and to settle into your hotel.  And if you would like us to meet in the lobby bar, remember we live here and prefer to blend-in (That outfit you requested is in my bag and ready for quick change in your room).