I like the theme days and its a great way for the ladies to express and promote themselves without exceeding the ad limit.  

However either its just three themes or it seems a very few early birds ( ok cute birdies) get up and anounce the theme for that day.  

Why not Anounce the theme for the upcomming day a couple of days in advance so more ladies can get proper photos ready and make it more fun for everyeone.

 
And I will admit that I am pulling for "LATEX and LEATHER LUNES !!!"  or "WICKED WILD WEDNESDAY" or just DOMINATRIX DAY!!!

But maybe the early birds are busy doing other things and not to worried if we don't throw up a photo.  

IMHO if we don't have the theme of the day photo, why not just play off the words and post what ever you want?

 
Enjoy your weekend,

Gabby xox

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Because all you providers ever do is bicker over the theme threads. Talk about a dysfunctional bunch and most of you have been adults for more then 25 years.  

So if TER names the three weekly theme threads then there would be nothing left to bitch about, right?
Maybe they should template it for you too, then all you have to do is attach your pic. They can be numbered then the only thing left to bitch about is who really got up the earliest in the morning.

This has been going on for over a year now. Pathetic!

Speaking from a humble observers point of view..I really never pay attention to the thread names, I just enjoy all the beautiful pics and plan my next escapade accordingly... Now I must say, there are a few that I look forward to seeing every time.... (As soon as time permits, I'll def ask for permission to enjoy their company)..... So just say "post them ladies" (on theme days)  and everyone gets the opportunity to let the guys know why they're at the top of our most desired list... Just my thoughts!!

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Except that its the ladies photos that have to meet the theme or be rejected by the unknown mod.  The guys do not get rejected from seeing the photos because their views or wishes do not meet the theme.  

The guys just want to see the photos and the ladies want to use the opportunity to impress, attract, and amuse the guys.  Lets make it fun and inclusive for all

.... My post started out under good intentions but many of you are right about my digression through the thread. I will say this -- it takes two to tango and don't think I was alone in the attack war.  

To everyone - I was never referring to HCM in my original post. I guess it just must have seemed that way. Honestly - I don't ever remember one of her themes standing out as odd or hard to follow so I'm sorry that she/you felt I was calling anyone out. Further - again, I was able to participate in both theme day threads that were hard to follow so the theme didn't affect me at all. I was just thinking of the other ladies who were left out so wanted to see if I was the only one that thought they were odd and difficult to follow. That's it. No more, no less.  

I have deep respect for the provider I was referring to and we have spoken about this. The details of our conversations shall remain between she and I.  

As for who I am as a person and how I live my life - I honestly don't like being thought of as a "bitch" or as an instigator. I'm likely one of the most compassionate and empathetic people you could ever meet. I get sad when I see a wild animal killed by a car on the road. I save lizards from my cats. I'm the first one to slam my car into park and to rush to the scene of an accident. I've volunteered after both 9/11 at Ground Zero and after Hurricane Katrina in MS for 2 months following the storm.  

As for getting along with other women I'm sure few will believe this but I'm a pretty friendly provider and generally go out of my way to meet new girls at the M&G's. Even when I'm disagreeing with someone I don't go behind their back via PM, email or whatever method of communication and bash them or say bad things about them. I very rarely mention names in fact and I also rarely hold grudges.  

Last -- if everyone can try to see this from a different POV - my post last Wednesday was surely not meant to pick a fight with *anyone* (despite it ending up that way). I *truly* thought I was advocating for the ladies as a group here on the Florida Board. Clearly that was the wrong thing to try to do. Because I've been so unsuccessful in getting my point across without being misunderstood I won't be going out of my way to stick up for what I think is right with regard to the hobby world nor will I try to further fool myself into believing that we ladies can be diplomatic, discuss things calmly like adults or support one another as sisters in the business - from street walkers to Ritz Carlton models. It makes me very sad to say such a thing but having an opinion and sharing it with a group of people who have never met (and who don't know the inflections, the tones and the body language of each other) has been a disaster every time. Participating on TER can be very stressful not to mention hurtful (I accept my part of being hurtful) and extremely personal.  It simply isn't worth it because in the big picture who gives a damn about a theme day thread when kids are bombing Boston, when buildings are blowing up in Texas, when Hurricane Sandy victims are still homeless, when emotionally distraught teenagers are packing automatic weapons, when teenage girls are committing suicide left and right after being bullied or exposed on social media and when middle-class Americans are still hungry due to the economic drop out in 2008? These are the things I *really* care about. My list goes on an on but I'm sure you get the jest.  

Finally  --- for anyone who doesn't like me and who may decide to take this post in a negative direction I just don't want to today okay? This is my apology to our group. I hope people will take it at face value and not hold grudges for too long.  

Have a pleasant rest of your weekend all -
Love Laney

ps. I definitely down for Dominatrix Day. Sexy shoes were fun too. Pajama party is another good one

so my response today was not just related to Wednesday's post, but all of them combined for the last year.

If we had a mod to stand up and say "These will be the theme topics", and they are more generic and less specific the problem would be solved.

Just sayin'

This was a civil polite discussion about the issue, until you started bitching.

Then you pantie-era had to stir up shit with your rude and  
 out of line comments.

If you have a problem with the theme threads here go back your honeys on the TS board and start your own theme there. I bet they would even let you be in charge of all the theme threads on the TS board

Has everything genuinely deteriorated to the point that something as ridiculously simple as theme days is the impetus of SO MUCH goddam drama?
There's only three of them a week.....I mean....how fucking difficult is this, really?

There wasn't a fucking thing wrong with mobile Monday (amateur pics so the whiners don't complain about only pro pics), and the two other days being generic, simple, and allowing everyone to participate (legs, ass, tits...get the idea?).

News flash....hardly anyone is taking pics just for theme days any more. Why bother? It's a cluster fuck. It used to be that the days were set and ladies took pride in having fresh pics. They would plan ahead and have pics done on a regular basis. God knows I took enough of 'em.
Well that doesn't happen now because everyone knows that theme days are a joke.
So WHAT is the big goddam deal about theme days???
Pick a simple generic theme....toss up any old pic from your collection....move on and call it a day.

Jesus Jumping Christ....we've got multiple threads...women PMing other women...trainwrecks....drama.....for what? 3 fucking theme days a week?!? Puh-leeze.

Ladies....you have so much time on your hands to worry about this? Try working on your business. Have a calendar on your site that actually gets updated. Put up ads that have the information your potential customers need. Update the pics once a freaking year.

Guys....if you have these fetish things and like very specific pictures......don't fuck things up and make the ladies think they have to jump through hoops and change, announce, get clearance for, or whatever....for stupid theme days.
If you want specific pics....there's this brand new thing called the internet. Look up your own shit.

Just fuckin' sayin'
DD

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Still licking your wounds, I see.
What no fire hydrant jokes? I miss the "originality" of your posts and you forgot to say "bitches".

Troll on.

All of this absolutely amazes me. Women either think potential or existing clients are attracted to this drama or aren't smart enough to realize its the opposite. Wow. Reminds me of a kamikaze.

Really, does anyone think this really matters! Have a point of view and express and move on. Pics are pics and nothing more; enjoy them or not. To argue for years and try repeatedly to justify a position or point of view is sheer nonsense.

The only wounds I have are from ROTFLMAO at your sorry, pathetic panty wearing self.

Now tell us all how wonderful you THINK you are in your make believe world

Keep being discussed... theme days won't exist anymore period!
We are all adults here right?

Sweet Kisses,
Sindie

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Now that's the place for Latex & Leather Lunes,  Stilleto Saturday,  Whip Wednesday,...

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My original comments regard Laney still stand. I know she thinks I am being an asshole, but she needs help.  She takes my comments as a putdown, but if someone out there knows her please get her some assistance.   Read her previous comments for confirmation.