Turn Ons - The Little Things  

And wear nice shoes and yummy cologne! But of course being chilvarious also never hurts!

She communicates with me as we plan on the date, calls me by my name( not baby, miss jackson if you're nasty) and doesn't check her phone when we are together.

men who smell nice, with a tiny, subtle smell of cologne. (Too much has the opposite effect.) And I love it when they dress up for me and take me to dinner, observing all the right protocol (pulling out my chair, standing when I get up from the table, etc.). I also love it when they are truly interested in what we speak about, and remember things I've said and bring them up in conversation later. I love when they pay attention. And conversely, I love it when they share things about themselves. I love to know what makes them tick. And I'm with you on the nails and feet. Details are everything.

polite, respectful and treats you like a Lady not a piece of meat....is/are HUGE turn-ons and should be for any Lady in this business.

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In my P411 profile, I have bothered to write a little bit about me and my life, because turn about is fair play.   When it is clear that the lady has actually taken the time to read my profile, it is a turn on.   There are times when it is painfully obvious that the lady did not read a darned thing, like for example the fact that if you are coming to see me, I am probably at a business conference and I do not want someone who shows up in the Julia Roberts get up from Pretty Woman.    On two occasions this past year, I had to go down to the lobby (key cards for elevators) to meet ladies who were less than appropriately dressed, they barely had anything on.  Lol!

When meeting for the first time, we chat for just a couple of minutes on the phone the day before.  Just to put a voice and personality to the pictures and emails.  Adds a little flirtiness to the game.  I also love when a Lady dresses/looks like the person and persona that they put out there.  Look, I think most of us "Hobby" because we are looking for something that we aren't getting somewhere else (at least I do).  So to have some level of fantasy, or someone to treat me like I'm special, even for an afternoon, goes a long way.

About 10 years ago, I was in the garage doing something and I caught my wife at the door looking at me with this half flirty, half bemused look, and then she said "not bad, but if I can be honest, I wish you were taller."   I am a shortie at 5'9" and she is 5'11'.   It is fine most of the time because she likes to wear flats anyway, but when we go to an event and she puts on her heels, I have to admit it is not a pretty looking picture.    We have a friend who loves to "dance" with her, because he is 5'4" and his face ends up right smack in her boobs

Great thread Laney!

is when a provider does a little homework prior to our meeting (just like I would do) and reads a little bit of some of the reviews I've written.  That way, she gets a little idea of some of the things I like.

... and yes!! I agree dinner dates act as major foreplay for me. It's so much more fun and relaxing behind closed doors once you've spent some time with someone and have had a chance to hear about who they are.  

Talking on the phone beforehand is nice....it's always good to hear a voice before you meet someone.

I like petite because I'm tall, 6'4" and who can anticipate what I like. I might be too personal but if a 5'2" girl wears a strapon it's a total turn on!

These are things that I notice that make women most attractive

"Someone who emails me once in awhile and let's me know about their life."  

I don't think either of us meant a weekly or even monthly email. We're talking about the Merry Christmas, Happy Birthday and the "hey, it's been six months since we've spoken - how are you?" messages. If you're a repeat client then we definitely like hearing from you as we consider you to be a true "friend".  

.... I was thinking about it and kind of chuckling as I tried to define what "too much cologne" really is.  For me, too much cologne is when I can barely breath being next to him because it's so heavy. It's when the cologne gets on my clothes and I can smell it in my car the next day. It's when I can't run an errand after a call because I smell like the latest Armani for Men. Mostly - for me - it's when it gets in my hair and **lives** there. Everytime I turn my face I smell the blasting scent of his cologne in my locks. Cologne is too heavy when even after I wash my hair I can still smell a faint scent of cologne on me. Yikes!!!

... as I mentioned last week I'm finding that the telephone is my best friend in the business these days. Reading what all of the gents have to say about we ladies doing our homework, knowing a little about each other before we meet, sharing a short conversation person to person and all of the other points made are kind of a nice validation.

As you know Jim, I am truly a caring person. I do like to know how my Sailors are doing after I put them back to sea.  

and the fact you're just plain great fun to be with is why I keep coming back all these years-You're always pleasant and always go the extra mile to make sure I have a good time-I wouldn't say different, just special, and your attitude has made you a great success in the hobby-Having been around the block more than a few times, I'd consider you a 'gold standard' for the industry.   1rob...you DESERVE this pat on the back...out   8-)

I don't think anybody could spend time with you and not realizing they just meet somebody special.

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Smiles all the time
Adventurous
Open minded
Interested and interesting
Energetic
Naturally affectionate
Looks good in a baseball hat and heels (not necessarily at the same time)
And of course an insatiable sexual appetite

me with a civvie boy!  

but we are likely lovers. And we are not lovers unless on some level we are also friends. And I care about my friends. I don't have time to email back and forth every day, but I love getting a little note every so often- even once a week is great! I will only email back and forth so long before I feel I'm being a nuisance, so I like my friends to take the lead. I'm there when you want me and absent when you don't.

Paying $500 for a dress shirt, or $410 for a pair of Hermes boxer shorts? Naah. It's perfectly possible to dress very well ( and be chivalrous) without being foolish.