I actually have a M&G tribute on my website for cocktails, but I also enjoy meeting for drinks before a date. I would say it depends on the situation. If it is booked, and we have a cocktail before the date it should not be a problem as long as we do not get carried away with the time.
I've had two dates where I've met the provider in the lobby bar of the hotel I where I was staying, at my request. Each time it was for outcall to where I was staying. The first time I asked if she'd like something, just good manners, and she said sure. Got a drink and chatted while drinking it. Then went up to the room. I actuallly pointed out that our time was up and she said that she didn't count the time at the bar. The second time I did this, she did count the time at the bar. I have no complaints about this, I understand that I am paying for their time and meeting at a bar for drinks certainly counts. But can any ladies throw in their two cents, what is the rule of thumb here?
Very good question!! I personally prefer to meet at a bar/restaurant. I don't "play" often....but when I do, I enjoy the early seduction of getting all beautiful and drawing many admiring glances as I glide gracefully over to my special gentleman!! This is no easy task because I'm over 6ft in my sexy heels If the interaction is going well and there is a mutual attraction, then I'm usually lenient with my public time.... I guess it all depends on your ladys personality and professionalism.....
I believe there is a lovely Juliette for everyone out there....
I actually have a M&G tribute on my website for cocktails, but I also enjoy meeting for drinks before a date. I would say it depends on the situation. If it is booked, and we have a cocktail before the date it should not be a problem as long as we do not get carried away with the time.
You have a valid question. However, you're not going to find a universal answer. It's possible that she initially agreed to meet for a drink, to get to know one another beforehand. This is not only for your benefit, but hers as well. I've actually walked away a few times, because i felt uncomfortable for whatever reason. The handful of times this has occurred, I expected no compensation since it was MY decision. Meeting for a drink, wouldn't necessarily be as important for each subsequent date. I would recommend communicating with the companion beforehand, to ensure that you're both on the same page.
Makes it sound like it was the same provider each time, which would make it odd if she changed on the second date. But I'm guessing it was two different providers?
As the others said, clarity up front is the answer.
It was with two different ladies. Also I should note that I had a great time with both of them and neither of them was a clock watcher. Although the one that did not count the time at the bar, did stay a good half hour past her time. I dunno maybe we just clicked or she had some time to kill. It's that little bit extra that will make me see her again when I'm in her area.
As an unspoken rule (if no rules have been decided). The time for drinks should be split equally between the two consenting adults. There should be no complaints or post consumption debate as no prior rules were laid down and agreed upon.
I have read a few different places that meeting for a drink before a date is smart and an extra way for both parties to exercise safety, if this is the 1st meetting. I read that Uncle Leo doesn't like to drink while he/she is working. This was forum chatter and it sounds smart, but is it accurate?
Don't under estimate those bastards, they have no issues meeting for a drink and sipping a cocktail on the clock! In my opinion, that's a benefit. This allows the companion or gentleman the time needed to discern the situation and proceed accordingly.
Because it's such a tough call sometimes I started offering a "Cocktail Date" donation on my website. It includes 2 hours for play time and 1 hour for cocktails. I add 150 for the cocktail hour which is built into my regular 2 hour donation. If we happen to cocktail for more than an hour I give that time gratis since I can tell time as well as my client can and clearly - I'm taking my time.
I know some girls might give their time for free but in my opinion they shouldn't. As I've mentioned before it's really best if all of we ladies stay on the same page. We should generally list our donations the same as the industry standard has been for years. On a slight side note I have *no* idea why some of the new ladies (especially if they're young) offer their services for such bargain basement rates. I saw a gorgeous new girl in Tampa today (six months in) and she's only asking 180.00 per hour. She should most certainly be getting at least 300.
Getting back on point, I know it's really nice and cool when a lady gives you time off the clock but if we did that for every single person we met think about how much time that would be out of our regular schedules. What I'd like to point out is that we're not just giving you the hour, 90 minutes etc that you book with us. I think it would be fair to say that the time we spend on you from screening until the time we part ways is at least double (if not triple) the time you book with us. Email conversations, planning and screening take time. Some people want to chat and chat and plan and plan. Those email exchanges can easily turn into an hour or more of time you never see on the clock. Further, we don't just walk out the door looking like a million bucks --- we have manicures and pedicures, we have spray tans, we have hair appointments, we wax our private parts, we spend time at the gym keeping fit for our job and we have lingerie, toy and sexy clothing purchases to cover just to start. The day we meet you we wash our hair, dry it, style it, lotion our entire body and put a full face of make up on for you. We pull an outfit from the closet, iron it and put it on, slip into some stockings and *very* expensive shoes and then we pack our "fun" bag with items just for you. We put gas in the car and then drive for however long to see you (sometimes up to an hour of drive time *each way* you never see on the clock). By the time all is said and done a minimum of 4 hours goes into meeting you. If I'm driving to Sarasota or Orlando that could mean my entire day was devoted to seeing you.
I'm sure there are more rituals and expenses I've missed but you get the point. Being the beautiful, sexy woman you expect to meet takes maintenance and money and if we give our time away to everyone we meet we're not only cheating ourselves out of what we *need* but in a way, we'd be cheating you too. Cheating you how? Well, imagine if we didn't have enough to cover our pedicure or waxing that week and then came to meet you? Is that what you were expecting?? I'd have to say a big hell no!! ; ) lol
don't have a separate rate for public vs. private time. My time is my time is my time. That's what you pay for, not activities.
I am a very busy person with a lot going on in my life that doesn't include my Sarah time, so that time I spend having drinks and conversation with you is just as valuable to me as time I spend playing monopoly with you in private. The consideration I request allows me to feel free enough during my time with you to not worry about other things I could be doing. I can totally, 100% be there and present for you because I am earning compensation that mitigates the time I spend away from other obligations (like my "day job").
\Well stated. If you want a quick in and out then go to backpage. Laney you make a great case and why I stay away from the "bargain variety on backpage " still hoping to meet you next month
I've had two dates where I've met the provider in the lobby bar of the hotel I where I was staying, at my request. Each time it was for outcall to where I was staying. The first time I asked if she'd like something, just good manners, and she said sure. Got a drink and chatted while drinking it. Then went up to the room. I actuallly pointed out that our time was up and she said that she didn't count the time at the bar. The second time I did this, she did count the time at the bar. I have no complaints about this, I understand that I am paying for their time and meeting at a bar for drinks certainly counts. But can any ladies throw in their two cents, what is the rule of thumb
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