Due to a lack of respect, experience and just plain cool on the part of younger guys, I've had long standing policy of not entertaining anyone under the ago of 30.  Every now and then I will double screen and make an exception, if the young one jumps through all the hoops I find necessary.

Generally I still do not like young guys all that much, but recently I've had the opportunity to hang out with a few really layed back cool younger ones.  One 26 year old who was so refreshing I became fast friends with.  Most recently I spend an entire day with a 22 year old who I let sneak by for a quicky last year. At first I thought what the heck am I going to do with someone who is so much younger than me (I am 39), but we ended up having so much fun! He apperared to have no hang ups at all about the age thing.

Now I am intrigued by what a younger man sees in someone 10 to 20 years older (or more).  School me.  I want to hear all angles and perspectives.

Thanks  

I'm in my very early 30s, and for me, getting serviced by a lady who was maybe a senior when I was a freshman in H.S. is kinda cool.

From the provider's standpoint, I would think that younger guys are better clients (less work).

A younger guy that has any kind of class and maturity will not only recognize, but greatly appreciate, what an older woman has to offer.

Just as some younger guys are like crazy puppies...some younger girls are just annoying and self-absorbed as hell. Well...that can be a real pain to deal with all the time.
Now older women? They've 'been there done that', got the T-shirt, and are over the games. They know what they want, how they want it, and aren't afraid to tell you. They can also TEACH a younger guy....a LOT.

I was 22 and 'seeing' an older woman. I SWORE she was 28-30. She was 40.
Let's just say that, at 22, I THOUGHT I knew how to have sex. I REALLY THOUGHT I knew how to DATY.
I...was...WRONG!!! SO wrong!!!
She taught me things...and it was one hell of an education. I, and more than a few ladies since then, have a lot to thank her for. Needless to say...I've never forgotten her and never will.

I understand the philosophy of some providers declining gents under the age of 30. However, I prefer diversity! I'm a permanent fixture at the local college, with regular clients ranging from 20-28. I've never experienced disrespect but rather they are clean, courteous and always respectful of me and my time. Okay, so I only see them once a month...when mom and dad sends them money. Hey, it's money well spent for their sons sex education class! It's the least I can do in the name of education!

It's always a thrill to meet a young man who finds this mature lady sexy..I do have an age limit of 25. I have never had a problem with someone so young and find them very much the gentleman.

I think they are just as much intrigued by why a mature woman would not see them as you are by why they want to.

Kisses Haley

"I've never experienced disrespect but rather they are clean, courteous and always respectful of me and my time. Okay, so I only see them once a month...when mom and dad sends them money."

Good point, Paris. We're clean, we're quick and we pay in cash. Perfect clients!

Just let them think they're the best you've ever had, and you'll have reliable regulars for the next decade or so.

I'm in my mid-30's, and tend to prefer providers who are a little bit closer in age.  The really young 19, 20 year olds have amazing bodies but often have no sensuality or sense of building the moment.

But, it all depends on the individual--both sides--there's either positive, good energy, or something else...I realize that providers use the 30 or older standard for a variety of useful reasons, but, like Nikki, some exceptions should always be considered...You have to find out if there's still a basis for the rule!

All of you ladies are kids compared to me, but when I was in my 30's I had a GF in her 50's, we had fun.  BTW Ben Franklin wrote an essay on Older Women you'd find enlightening, I find his last reason why sex with an older woman is better to be hilarious - "because the sin is less."

Then there is Andy Rooney:  "An older woman will never ask out of the blue, 'What are you thinking?' An older woman doesn't care what you think."

Here are a BUNCH of good reasons for young guys to love older women:

An older woman can wear any hat she chooses and nobody will laugh. A younger woman wearing the same hat will always look like a lampshade in a brothel.

An older woman always carries a purse full of emergency supplies. Young women go hungry and bleed to death every time there's a natural disaster.

An older woman always carries a condom in her purse. A younger woman is still hoping the guy might have one on him.

An older woman is a cheaper date. A younger woman will cost you 12 beers, but an older woman will sleep with you after a cup of a herbal tea.

The older a woman gets, the stronger her libido gets and the older a man gets, the weaker his libido gets... which is why nature intended young guys to go out with older women and young women to go out with older men. (this one ain't always true - wink, wink )

An older woman can wear bright red lipstick during the day without looking like she just had an adventure inside a jam jar. This is not true of younger women or drag queens.

Older women can run faster because they're always wearing sensible shoes. An older woman is into free sex! An older woman is almost always already attached to someone, so there's no need to develop a phobia about committing to her. The last thing she needs in her life is another clingy, whiny, dependent lover! (child)

Older women are more honest. An older woman will tell you that you are an asshole if you're acting like one. A young woman will say nothing, just in case it means you might break up with her. An older woman puts herself on a pedestal.

An older woman will never get pregnant and then suddenly demand that the two of you get married. In fact, if you impregnate an older woman, you will probably be the last to know...

Older women have jobs with dental plans. Younger women can't help you when your teeth get knocked out playing hockey.

An older woman will never accuse you of "using her." She's using you.

Older women take charge of the situation. An older woman will call you up and ask you for a date. A younger woman will wait forever, by the phone, for you to call...

Older women know how to cook. Young women know how to dial Pizza Hut Take out.

An older woman will introduce you to all of her girlfriends. A younger woman will avoid her girlfriends when she's with you, in case you get any ideas...

Older women are psychic. You never have to confess to having an affair, because somehow they always know.

Older women often own an interesting collection of lingerie that they have acquired from admirers over the years. Young women often don't wear underpants at all, thus practically eliminating all possibility of a strip-tease.

Older women know what Kegel exercises are.

An older woman will agree to go to McDonald's with you for a meal. Younger women are too nervous to eat anything in front of somebody that they might possibly boff later.

Older women are dignified. They are beyond having a screaming match with you in the middle of the night in a public park.

Older women are experienced. They understand that sometimes, after 12 beers, a boy just can't get it up. A younger woman may need some time to grasp this fact.

An older woman has lots of girlfriends... and most of them will want to boff you too.

An older woman will always meet the minimum height requirement to go on an amusement ride.

An older woman will never accuse you of stealing the best years of her youth because chances are someone else has stolen them first.

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Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress

June 25, 1745

My dear Friend,

I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.

But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:

i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.

2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience.

4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.

5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.

6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.

7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.

8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!

Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.

Benjamin Franklin

-- Modified on 12/30/2008 3:18:39 PM

Horray for young guys with big accounts.  Thanks for opening my mind up to new experiences.

C'mon, just funnin' ya.

I once had a young man, who told me he was NOT a virgin!

Hmm, I knew he was a little too nervous, but he was a very, very nice guy.

I go more for the personality of a person, instead of the age.

To each their own though.

Hugs,
Jina

While I'm getting closer to 30 than 25, I was 23 when I saw my first provider. For me, it comes down to the experience and attitude. Usually, a younger gal just doesn't know what they are doing.

I think it's the reverse of the older men liking younger women.

Old Ben was an amazing character to be sure!