I am remaining alias for the moment please understand and respect this. after you read you will understand why.

I have been put on "black list" boards by someone who has never ever even met me. I had a little to much to drink at a M&G and said she was a little big and not my type. I should have been more discreet and watched what I was saying and more important who I said it to. I would have publicly appologized to her if she had contacted me I was wrong to say what I said.

My real problem is she put me on these boards and said I am dangerous. When you folks find out who I am you will not believe this has been said about me. 7 years a senior in the hobby and on the board. Anyway can you girls or gents let me know how I get off these "black list" boards, I asked her to remove them and she said no way. BTW she is not on the FL board or part of our community. I am distraut and nervous that some one will see my name so please any advice would help. Thanks for everyones time her I appreciate it allot.

There are at least 5 DNS lists and reasons for being on them can vary. SOMETIMES a guy gets put on one for NO good reason, or because a lady is vindictive. For some of the other reasons -- see my post below.


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It does suck - but if your history is as you say, it should carry you through.  perhaps other providers that are more respected than this lady can get you expunged.  Trust me, a lady that takes action on what appears to be an innocent, albeit ill advised, comment is likely not well respected, possibly immature.

Before I knew better I made an ill advised comment in a review relative to body size, about a well respected & classy provider.  She didn't like it & let me know it in no uncertain terms that she was offended but kept it between us like the classy & beautiful lady she is.  That is the high class response - not TRASH a gentleman.  BTW, I learned my lesson & if she reads this will probably remember, so I'll say thanks for the lesson, lol. (NO I won't say who it was even in PM; I've got class (finally) as well.

What I'd like to know is how are you dangerous?  Other than being guilty of saying something stupid at the wrong time(haven't we all done that at least once in our lives?)  It would seem that this is just to cause you a lot of problems.  I would say that if you have any providers that you are friendly with, perhaps you may be able to get one or several of them to possibly contact her and they may be able to persuade her to drop them.  Good luck.

If you have nothing be shameful about or to hide why use an alias?

You are better off coming right out saying who you are and the person that did it.

IMHO

This cryptic stuff makes you look dodgy

About 6 months ago a certain provider spread some false rumors about me.  If it weren't for several ladies letting me know that these untruths were being said about me, I wouldn't have known.  Both ladies said, "so & so is saying you short-changed her."  Thankfully, these two ladies believed me!  I have seen other ladies since so I guess I'm one of the lucky ones.

I've been to meet n greets as well... met ladies that thrilled me and some that didn't... that is life... play your cards right and you are not going to get blacklisted..

I remember being approached by a very popular provider at a meet n greet and I just smiled and walked away... yes, she was of the not my type variety as well... I just didn't TELL her, she got the message though - but you don't deserve what you describe...


bottom line is - no lady should wield so much influence or  'whatever' that you have to hide behind an alias

look at it this way - bark it out in your real name and you really aren't in any worse position... just  be sure that you know what you are talking about...

where the F@#K did that edit feature go ???

okay, had to be cute...

this board is about DUDES - and that is what we are here for - our Florida ladies grace us with so much - wit, pics and all else... we will support them 100% until there is something clearly 'off'

but hiding behind an alias just doesn't muster up any 'rally around the dudes' ... sorry,  love my ladies and you're not changing anything without details ...

Ooops - you did say... when we realize who you are... ??????? please clue us in...

In a friendly community like this our first reaction is to help a fellow "friend" and hobbiest.  How do we know this alleged reason for blacklisting given by the alias is true and he is not a predator looking for new victims?  Unfortunately there will always be a provider looking out for herself and unwittingly, or wittingly help a predator with her kindness. I say name the lady who DNSd for this crazy reason and let the community decide her reputation, otherwise it could be bullying.

I would not only let everyone know who I was, but also the lady who did it!  (if this story is not a total fabrication).  If you are the well respected, long time TER and board member, those who know you will vouch for you, and this problem would go away much quicker.  But then,  that's just me!

The more I check in and read these messages the more I learn and the more I'm grateful for sites like this and especially this one for the sharing.

If being unruly at a M&G is cause for being banned, Fuzzy and I would have been banned for life right after the Orlando M&G.  

This is a great forum to clear the air in a civilized manner.  Let's hear both sides.

now were you alittle unruly???? But I will say I wasn't included...now dang that wasn't fair to me...