I think Mom will be more supportive than you would guess. Her love is unconditional and it's times like this when it shows.

Also...make sure she gets a much better Christmas present this year! And give sis a lump of coal.

Just sayin'
DD

I could always take her mind off the situation for a little bit.

Just sayin'

Tried to deny but she knows. I am upset and very humiliated but at the same time she is being very respectful and not angry. She said that she was more disappointed when she found out that I was a dancer at 18.

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Well thats going to make Thanksgiving Diner awkward.

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No one wants to disappoint our parents, but there comes a time when ones' happiness and self preservation must be your priority.  Sit down talk to your mother and explain why you have chosen this profession, not just the obvious ones, but what your goals in life are and how you will be able to accomplish them using this profession as the vehicle. Express you open and honest feelings and that you are you own person and not under the influence of someone other then yourself. You are sharp, intelligent and know where you are headed. You have 2 choices, If she does not come around then u have to decide, yield to your mother and walk away from this or continue on and keep your goals as your priority and prove to your mother down the road that you made the right decision

I hope things work out ok.

How did Little Sis find out?

Is there anyway to deny it?

Good luck

WOW.....what a sister! Although, I could see any one of my brothers doing the same. As of now, I've remained the "Good Girl" in my parents eyes. (sigh) I've always felt like honesty is the best policy, if confronted by family. Yes, they would be disappointed but they wouldn't disown me. My dad always said I was a beautiful girl and to use it to my advantage......well I am! LOL

Paris

Usually, moms know something is up long before the shit hits the fan. Moms are some of the coolest people on this planet. Regardless of the circumstances, in the end your mom's biggest concern will be...is her baby okay? I'm not going to paint some rosey picture over the whole thing. It's going to be difficult in the short term. The bigger question is where do you go from here? Once the dust settles, I hope and pray that you end up on top (sorry...I couldn't resist), and look back at this as a positive event in your life. Looking back, I know my most painful times in life tought me the best life lessons. You will get thru this. Time to buckle up, hunker down and get thru the muck. Take care of yourself and keep your beautiful chin up.

Obviously that was intended to be hurtful and nasty. Check your motives. Jeez...I can't believe how low some people stoop.

her car was being repossessed
& she was glad I had the money to lend her.

Count your blessings that you come from a good home &...
be thankful you're not Casey Anthony.

Trust me when I tell you Sweetheart,
MORE THAN LIKELY, your mother loves you UNCONDITIONALLY.
SHOW HER all of the benefits that you enjoy BECAUSE of what you do
& MOST IMPORTANTLY that you are HAPPY.

the truth because I just can't lie to my Mama.  Her reaction was better than I expected.  Her only concern for me was my health and safety of course, but she wanted to know how I dealt with my feelings and how I could let men come and go like that.

My reponse to her was I finally found a job (job my ass) that I TRULY ENJOY DOING and that was TRULY MEANT FOR ME TO DO.  Too bad I started when I was 44 and not 18! LMAO

IMHO:
I think your sister may wind up being perceived more negatively than you.  

Handled yourself with dignity and while your mother may be disappointed with your choices, the fact you are happily making a way for yourself in the world will have more of an impact than how you go about doing it.  You are making yourself happy and you are hurting no one.

Your sister on the other hand is the one stirring the pot.  It is her actions that are having a negative effect on your mother.  Not yours.

BECAUSE of what I do, I never had to ask.
I believe my mother respects me for that.

at some point in your career you must have figured out (if not formally with a lot of structure) that what you are doing is right for right for you now in this place in your life.  I think you are a bright lady and if you've been through that with your self, I think if you presented that same point of view to your Mom (given that she loves you as her daughter no matter what) she will hopefully see it the same way you do and accept it.  I wish you the best of good fortune with this.

We've never met, so I don't know your personality.  If you're close to your mother, you don't have much choice but to discuss this with her.  If you don't, you're never going to get past it.  Either it will be you wondering what she's thinking (judging you?), or her, with her imagination of your lifestyle going ballistic.

If you're not particularly close to your mother, you might want to write her a note that "fesses up" to what you do, and then conclude with some type of statement asking her to look past your profession, and accept you how you are.  

The damage is done, and there's no going back.  Either they accept you as you are, or else...you'll follow the yellow brick road to some other place.  I mean, what else can you do?  You could quit providing, become a "barista", have some asshole bitch at you because there isn't enough foam on the latte, and get paid so badly that you have to take the bus everywhere you go.  And if your mother didn't accept your profession as a provider in the first place, she still won't "forgive" you, anyways.

Myself being a father of a 22 year old girl, if she is a provider, I would rather not know about it (just like she would not want to know that I am a "hobbiest".)  But if she is, and I find out...well, she would still be the same daughter who phones me on my birthday, and comes over on Thanksgiving (US Thanksgiving)...

Next be honest with Mom and let her know that you are safe in what you do.

Make sure she knows you are happy.

You cannot change how she feels however you can explain why you beliieve what you are doing is the right Profession for you!


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I am a regular client of your lovely daughter. I am an elder, wealthy, lonely man who enjoys spending time with Elle. We go to dinner and the theater once or twice a month and she makes me feel young and alive again. I'm sure you already know that besides being beautiful, your daughter is intelligent, charming and has a great sense of humor. Most of our dates consist of dinner, window shopping on Las Olas, and.a little cuddling. My safety and your daughter's safety are the #1 priority. She knew all about me before we ever met. Elle has been there for me thru some of my difficult times. I consider her a friend. I was on old depressed lonely man before I met Elle. She has been such a positive influence on my life. Since I have met her I have started an regular exercise program, changed my diet, and started playing golf again. I am grateful for all that Elle has done for me. Yes, I compensate he for her time. We all get compensated for our time. My first wife was in the healthcare field. Very prestigious....she got compensated to clean up shit and put up with a lot worse. Momma Vegas, you have raised a kind, caring, and lovely young lady. Kisses,

Okay so I over did ihe letter a little, but your mom should believe that this is your typical client. She doesn't need to know all of the details. If she has seen your website and ads, tell her it's all bs. Wait to you see the letter I write to Lil Sis!

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... so I did and still do. I tell her racy stories and about all of the fun I get to have... I've told her more than I'd tell all of you!!!! xo xo xo Lo!!!!!

Not everything has to be over-the-top dramatic, or the Oprah show. It doesn't mean that someone doesn't care.

As far as any mean responses.....well they're just a horse's ass.

Just sayin'

The smart ones suck cock for a living and get paid damn well for it.

Looks like you do it for kicks and giggles.

Seems to me the gals are smart....and you're the one who should be ashamed there, SwordSwallower.


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That is what I would say if I were caught on my end.  Admit nothing, and just move forward...

I asked, "do you expect me to live the lifestyle I do on what I make at my day job as a scooter mechanic?  Do you know what it takes to keep the Sofla mobile in duct tape?  Geeze, Ma, lighten up."

It's genetic mom. I didn't want you to know.

Who was your sister trying to hurt the most....You or your mother..? Context might not be what's on your mind right now but it is the most important down the road....

Over 40 responses to the thread, and all but 1 were supporting and caring. Sometimes you have to find a little humor in bad times just to be able to cope a little better. In any event Ronald, your response shows that you care.

I didn't mean to disparage every response, but some attempts at humor seemed unfunny or cruel.

hey...you suck cock for a living.  thats it.

you can sugar coat it like the patronizing response from the old man above, but you know it and everyone here knows it.

you feel ashamed because you are a normal human being and realize, plain and simple, its wrong.

why do we all keep it a secret, use an alias?  cuz we all know the same thing.

You have it backwards!

It's SOCIETY that is WRONG.

THIS profession goes back ALL THE WAY to the beginning &...
it has stood the test of TIME.

Perhaps what YOU do is wrong but...
I know I bring JOY to the lives of many & I hold my head up high.
I am able to help loved ones financially too because of what I do.
I even have TIME (BC of what I do) to help animals.

You sound to me like you are judging YOURSELF
& trying to spread the misery.

... So there I am, heading to airport and my daughter tells me that SHE thinks my parents deserve to know the truth.  Oh, I was pi*sed!!!  I had no choice but to call my Mom and tell her myself.  She handled it well.  In fact, she was more worried about ME ... I was crying my eyes out while driving on the toll road.  That was not the way I wanted to tell her and I told her that ... I just knew she would rather hear it from me than my daughter.

Now, I do have to say ... She does NOT know I am back in the game.  Since I have a license in massage and skin care, she thinks that is all I do.

Hugs,   Tarah/Terri   xoxo

OR Elle my love -When you go to visit them !! Hope to see you soon !

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admit it! we do it by choice so why be proud and just admit it

hmmmmmmmmmm????

There is a bit Johnny Carson did years ago...

It seems that Jane Goodall, who conducted a 45 year study of chimpanzees in Tanzania, observed female chimps exchanging sexual favors in exchange for food, twigs and other chimp valuables.

Johnny's comment

"How 'bout that, it really is the world's oldest profession.."

rimshot please...

Hahahaha!  You're the fucking MAN,  DD!  Next M&G, drinks for you!

Sucking cock is wrong, um okay.  Have you ever realized this is the oldest profession in the book?  Have you also realized that if we legalize prostitution and marijuana we might get out of the "hole" we are in?

I am ashamed of what I do, HELL FUCKING NO. If I knew about it when I was 18 well damnit to hell ya never know what could've happened but I'm thinking a very prosperous business and retirement, and making a lot of men along the way very, very happy!

I have no secrets, I don't need an alias. Want to find out what I'm about? Just leave your negativity at the door please.

"i told her my fantasy and her eyes got so big and she got a big smile on her face when i told her about my fantasy of her making me suck another guys cock. i was very detailed and she just took it all in."

Right from his reviews!!!

lol!


Fucktard!