One off..Or long term?

For a first time, the Ad and reviews will do the trick. Sometimes just the Ad. For repeat business, the attitude goes a long way to complete the fantasy and merit a second visit and more. Plagiarism, I'm not sure I would notice or what the question entails? Mock others, There's no place for it. It only reflects on the person writing the mockery, not the "others". That goes for me too as a guilty party, but I'm not trying to sell. Carries herself and presence? Important for the long term, and can be figured out at a session, where your dollars are betting on it, or a M&G. Always trying to help, shows a great attitude. Going the extra mile is of course, important to everyone.

not always easy,

For myself, board persona is a factor! Can be turned off very quickly or makes me burn with desire.
Posting and pics along with communication by PM or e-mail weigh in as well.
Then the hint of the flirting and being naughty!!!

Great question!!!

YOU asked !

" But how much does a ladys postings and ads effect your choosing a provider?  Do you mind if they commit plagiarism?  Mock other providers "

There are a few ladies on this board who do this . You have your own little crowd you run with, you post degrading things about the ones you don't like and so on. I think you KNOW what I am talking about here .

100 % .....................I will NEVER , EVER see one of these ladys !!!! Repeat NEVER !!!

It is classless drama that I can get in the civie world for free. Us gentleman do this thing to avoid the drama ! If you have nothing nice to say then ..............

It also gives me a little insight into your overall personality and I for one think its un called for , classless BS .

If all you owened was my opnion and $2.00 , your net worth would be around $2.00

I imagine every guy has their own set of criteria.  For me I tend toward the ones with a natural look.  A classy professional website says something to me.  I like pictures that show a woman in a smart sexy manner, that could be with lingerie or a nice dress with just enough showing to let the imagination work.  I dont particularly care for porn photos.  I guess those are things that work to create the fantasy for me.  

I can't say that I look too much at the postings around here, it seems like only a few regulars post anyway.  But yes, rude and crass is definitely a turn-off and tends to indicate an unstable personality.

Usually a nice ad, good reviews and a pleasant personality with phone/text/email will get me interested.  The rest depends on the service level of the provider and her general attitude to determine if I will see her again.  Overall, I would say that if someone is kind and doesn't overhype themselves in their ads I will almost always go back.  Most of the providers I've seen I have had great experiences with.

I hate to unnecessarily TOFTT so I rely on reviews, board posts, ads, pictures, websites and twitter feeds to decide who I'd like to meet.

In addition, scheduling plays a huge role, and its much easier if she has a convenient incall.

I have learned that people will FEEL about and will TREAT you..

exactly the way they TREAT or FEEL about other people. Had a Girl Friend once that always talked shit and treated others like shit. I knew that I was not special. She was just evil and off and on she was the same to me.

but then I do the research.  If she meets my requirements, then I pursue.  If not, I move on.

Swim

As the board newbee, I'd say everything is pretty much covered here and some.... But I also take one other thing into consideration, the last box on the p411 (conversations the provider is well diverse in)... Kinda what made me join the party in the first place "getting myself into unique situations that's mutuallyl enjoyed".... So when a provider only has about three specialities or doesn't list any, I somewhat look over it.....(I guess I'm trying to broaden my horizon a bit).... But hey I'm a new guy so what does it matter huh?.....great post though!!

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How I Decide

Well, I must say that reviews are very important.  They give me a general idea of what I might expect from her.  Also, she should have several reviews (reviewers should have some history and experience to count as viable) because they can indicate she is probably a safe date and not likely to be LE associated.  I also like the information at the bottom of p411 so that I know by her own admission what it is that she is into.  Even though I might not be interested in much of it, I still like to know.  The other thing is her pictures.  There doesn't need to be dozens & dozens, just a few that show how she presents herself.  The porno poses are not necessary but she should give some thought as to the pose and the lighting.  Dark pictures with poor focus and just too small just don't do it.  They are a waste.

I'm visiting this board from Atlanta, but thought I'd post because I just started the hobby at my 70th birthday - may be unique perspective.  I'm analytic so applied search criteria to Atlanta top 100.  Over 25 years.  Prefer naturals, given a choice, and I'm more of a buns than boobs guy.  I'm 5' 9" so height a factor.  Found athletic and average bodies worked best.  Can also exclude some - hate CBJ for example.  Found lots of hits in top 50 - then to reviews and websites.  Reviews for not only the physical performance (any in the top xxx is great), but also for the attitude.  I really look at a date as a mutual thing and migrate toward ladies who engage with personality also - board really helps here.  As for the websites, I'm surprised how much the website reflects the person you meet.  The choice of language, structure and photos are really telling.  I found that this process produced more than a handful of amazing ladies and the ones I've enjoyed meeting so far have been wonderful.

The few times I've been really intrigued by an ad picture alone I have been ultimately disappointed.  I really think the key is knowing yourself and how to match it.  Fortunately, there is such a variety of outstanding providers available that you can easily find those that meet your needs once you think them through.