Good afternoon good people of the ter board..just wanted to post a thread about reviews.if i may,i,d like to post my comments about them.
As a provider,i appreciate when gentlemen who see me post reviews about me.It lets me know they were pleased(or displeased)with what went on,and lets other who are curious about seeing me,know that i am a honest and reputable provider--indeed,some have remarked that they were prompted by my reviews to vist,and had the reviews not been there,they wouldnt have,or held off for awhile in doing so.Good reviews,in my opinion,are VERY VERY important.Its more impressive for others to toot your horn then for you to do it yourself.but there is a down side to reviews as well.
unfortunately,the reviews are one sided-and once a review is posted,the lady in question cannot post a response-beit positive or negative to a positive or negative review.many of those who have been involved in the hobby for awhile know to read ALL the reviews posted and see what the average of them all is,rather then make the assumption of the lady by just one review.if a review is less then stellar,perhaps there are unspoken factors that were involved,nothing to do with conning or ripping the client off..things such as perhaps the donation was only average,and the lady adjusted the occasion to fit the donation given,or perhaps the lady wasnt feeling 100 percent,but doing her best to give a good occasion anyway.perhaps the client was tired or shy or nervous and couldnt "complete" things before the time expired....and,(and this can happpen too)sometimes bad or barely fair to good reviews are given if the client has romantic ideas about the lady and she doesnt feel the same(nor did she promise him anything of the kind)or,he wanted MUCH MORE at her banquet table then she actually served(but there was no promise of much more to start with-he simple assumed it)many people who post reviews are fair and honest,but theres always that potential for a bad apple to post a bad review simply out of malice..and a bad review cannot be disputed,nor erased-and it can hurt a ladys business-and,all she can do is hope for more good reviews afterwards to balance out the undeserved negative.
I have been lucky as many of my reviews have been good-and i give thanks to those who posted good reviews-but i DO apologise for the following
that the incall/shop setting doesnt have all the comforts of home that i wish could be there to add more comfort and relaxation to your session...they are set up in certain way,and i do my VERY BEST to make you feel at home regardless and that you leave happy.i apologise also to anyone who saw me over the last week and a half-i had a bad cold-one night in particular i had a terrible migraine headache and i had to leave early after seeing someone for a session(the pain was terrible,and i wasnt my usual chippy self)my apologies extend also for the fact about time...shops are different then, say,being an independant..they charge for the rooms in half hour blocks-so,unless you want to pay almost double for the room(which i think is outrageous)most sessions only last 30 minutes(but then again,if you want an hour or more,there always the clients option to pay more money for the room and slightly increase the ladys tip,since she has to tip out more to the shop).I try to make sure every person leaves happy..but sometimes you dont know if the person will be happy in 10 minutes or it may take the entire session time...i dont like,and try to prevent,someone walking away with things left"incomplete",even though other factors relating to the client may be involved(like alcohol,drugs,medications,nervousness,tension,emotional issues,fatigue).clients and providers they see are the same-they are both human..and everyone has their bad days and their good days.
my point is,is that when a person wants to see a lady,and they go by reviews,take them with a grain of salt...the most important reason why reviews exist is to find out if she is a con artist or not,and if her reviews are consistantly in the "good" range,then you can bank on the fact your money wont be wasted.but,even if her review was "good" as opposed to "excellant"doesnt mean she isnt worthy to see..perhaps the person who reviewed her wanted more then she offered..or didnt give the proper donation for the occasion he desired,or she was ill,but being professional anyway-lots of reason could apply here-and any could be the difference between "good" and "excellant"..besides,what is "good" to one guy could be "excellant" to another.
these are just my thoughts--thanks for taking the time to read this...phoenixxx
