GENTLEMEN! I'm thinking some of you need a refresher course in hobby manners!

When you arrive at a providers location, have her fee in an unsealed envelope in a pocket or other easily accessable location. Let HER take the lead! She will ask you to hand it to her, or to place it on her table,or in the bathroom-or whatever!

DO NOT-repeat-DO NOT take the money out of your pocket or wallet and start counting it out, and DO NOT ask her "How much is your fee again?".You should know the agreed upon fee before you arrive!
THANK YOU! Sophie

For some reason this simple exchange seems to trip people up.  I've had pretty good luck with the following procedure, always at the beginning of the session:

1) Greet the provider.
2) Put the envelope on the nearest counter top in an obvious location and don't mention it.
3) Ask the provider if I can use her bathroom.
4) I wash my hands slowly, which gives the provider enough time to take the envelope, check the amount, & put it away.
5) When I come out the envelope has magically disappeared...and I have very clean hands.  

I don't know if this is the best procedure, but it seems to work smoothly with porn stars, high end providers, and local girls.  --z

Ok...who's using my name??????

This is the 2nd time someone has used my name...wtf????

Just so everyone knows...please dont confuse this "sultrysophie" with ME, who has been "sultrysophie" since 2003.

WTF?

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!  Something so simple can make the world of difference for putting a young lady at ease.  The visit will always go 100 times better once we are not concerned with how to pay our bills.   Thanks again for the great tip, I hope everyone follows your lead!

I always make sure the fee amount is understood before the guy arrives.  Maybe on the phone.  I confirm the time amount they will spend with me and say ... ok that will be 'x' amount for that amount of time. Please have cash for me *since I do accept cards with advance notice but I have to be at home to run those for an approval code before I leave for the incall* (and then instructions which differ from person to person slightly) to ensure no misunderstandings.

but always end with 'and there is no need for further discussion of this aspect of our time together'.

Many guys don't automatically know now to handle paying.  always good to have a method of clarifying things, ya know.   but a good discussion topic.

Who are you? You are not SultrySophie!

Not sure who you are, but you are not THE Sultry Sophie

Not THE Sultry Sophie? WTF? There is a "real" SultrySophie? First I've heard of THAT. Anyway, if thats so, she isn't registered here so what can I say? *I* have been SultrySophie for several years now. ? Sophie

Amen to that Sophie!!!
A good hobbyist will always know what to do!!
That erks me too!!

never question the amount... it should be clear on her website, if not I pass - then, once there, place it somewhere in plain site before I sit down... without exception.

This lets the lady know - you know what you are doing and respect the rules of the hobby.

I will admit, once I've seen a lady several times... I have forgotten... we get to kissing too much - or something distracts ... usually I remember when I'm getting dressed.

In my limited experience, I've found it helps to have an envelope ready. At some point very early on (and I've never been asked, except once by a very "shady" agency girl), I'll get eye contact, make the "shh" gesture (single index finger over closed lips, and WITHOUT THE "SHH" SOUND), and place the envelope in an obvious open place like a table or nightstand while maintaining eye contact. Never fails.

Now, any Provider who's concerned about a hidden camera or other tomfoolery might not like this, but...well, it's just my way of doing it, y'know. Works for me, so far. The important thing is to never mention "the transaction" while at the meet, fellas. SO IMPORTANT for her comfort and security, no?

As for our Tale of Two Sophies, what can I say? Even the Good Book had more than one John, in the New Testament alone! Can't y'all wrestle for the title, or something? I mean...I'd watch, y'understand, is all I'm saying.


Okay,
Bobbo

"which gives the provider enough time to take the envelope, check the amount, & put it away"

I've had sessions where I found the donation 2-3 hours later...let alone 7 minutes after your in the door...lol.

I can honestly say I have never "checked the donation" before BCD even started.  Im lucky to find it "after" you've been gone 30 minutes..lol  Only after I start cleaning up is when I run across it normally.

I guess that could be the meaning of a "session" vs a "good session", eh?

Great point. Thanks for posting. It makes me nervous when they are asking amount outloud and counting the money outloud. Money should never be discussed!