I found myself in a sticky situation the other day and wanted to know what the ladies thought about it.  I had noticed that one of my ATF favorites were in town and so I called to say hello and to see how long she would be in town to see if I could fit her into my schedule.  When I called her, she informed me that her girlfriend was touring with her and she was also my ATF.  At this point, I felt like a had really stepped in it and was fucked.Lol  I didn't know what to do because I didn't have enough funds to see both and I didn't want to offend or step on toes and so I just said that I couldn't fit them into my schedule and would see them the next time because I didn't want to have to choose between the friends and cause problems.  Ladies, did I do the right thing or how should I have handled it?  

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If I were one of the two ladies, I would have preferred that at least a friend of mine had an opportunity to visit with you even if I did not.

It's long been past the time, at least for me, to show jealousy over a client.  And I would parrot Miss HoneyRose above, if they're professionals (and it's my guess that they are), then seeing one over the other shouldn't be an issue with them at all.

After all, you didn't KNOW that they were traveling together, beforehand, right?  You just called Female A.

Sounds harmless enough.  I would have gone ahead and visited with the person that you had originally contacted.

And if they are the type of females to bicker over a client?  Then, I would kindly suggest that it might be time to go shopping again for a new ATF (or 3!).  

Best of luck to you.

Sincerely,
Elisabet

Hi Elisabeth and Honey.  I have only been in the hobby for about one year now.  The one thing that I have learned since I have been doing this is that the ladies I have seen love the money and attention that comes with this line of work.  They were only in town for one night and so I had to make a decision  on the spot.  When escort A mentioned that escort B was in the room, I didn't know why she felt it necessary to tell me this unless she was opening me up for a threesome or she felt uncomfortable with me only seeing her and not the friend.  The other thing that made the whole idea awkward was that escort A charged more for the same service.  I know that the ladies say that it doesn't bother them but I don't think that people in general deal with rejection very well.  I was put in a situation where I would have had to reject one of them and I could't do it.Lol  

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going ahead and booking with your first ATF you got in touch with. And I especially don't see how a false inquiry because you assumed your 2nd ATF would be jealous seems like the most logical solution. If they are close enough to tour together then they obviously have to have somewhat of a professional rapport. You say that you know rejection can affect people, yet instead you opted to reject ATF 1 instead of following through, because you were so certain that one would be jealous of the other. Honestly, if I were you, I'd be wondering if I made it onto both of their DNS lists. And maybe consider sending along a gift card to both of them as penance.. ;

Hello Lena, I never thought of your point of view but it is a good one.  I hope that this is not the case because that is not the result that I wanted.  However, I never committed to seeing escort A.  I was just calling to see how long she would be in town and see If I could fit her into my schedule.  I would NEVER stand an escort up for a date if I had committed to it. That would be hobby suicide.Lol

You called provider A, simply book an appointment with her and politely decline to book with provider B for the reasons of lack of time, money or any other reason of your choosing.

Now "IF" it turned out that provider A was unavailable during the time slot you wanted, it would not be inappropriate at all to book with provider B as at least you would be "keeping it in the family"  

I think this was a dilemma only in your own mind.

Thanks for all of the advice.  I guess my biggest disappointment was the fact that they both were offered up and I didn't have the funds to do both of them.Lol  I did tell her that I would save my money and see the both of them when they come back to town.  She didn't seem to have a problem with that offer.

So I look at the TER site yesterday and realize that my two beauties are back in town.  Round two!  I sit back and wait to see if a move will be made on their behalf.  I get a text from provider A saying hello.  I call provider A to see if the two of them would be available to meet and she informs me that she is shipping provider B off to another location but she would back at their original location to meet me for a session.Lol  I meet provider A at our spot and everything goes well.  When I ask about Provider B (her bestie) I get resistance and so I change the subject, cleanup and takeoff.