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OOps... correction.  I meant to say ' it serves as an easy vehicle to differentiate themselves into a higher position in their social hierarchy.'

Less correctly what I wrote: "it serves as an easy vehicle to differentiate themselves into a higher class "..  oops.


I just moved Texas from Scottsdale Arizona/LV Nevada, and I have noticed that alot of providers have NO BLACK MEN posted on their adds? Has something happened here in Texas that I don't know about? Because there are some hot ladies that I would luv to provide financial support however 90% of the ladies that I am interested in have posted NO BLACK MEN in their add.

If you haven't figured it out by now I am African American

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My guess is that most of the ladies who do not meet with black/Hispanic/Indian/whatever men had a bad experience or a couple of bad experiences, and don't want to risk repeating because they think the same would happen with everyone else of that group. Or it might simply be that they feel no attraction to the group, and don't want to disappoint them.

But I think it's GREAT that they're up front about it. What a waste of time it would be to get screened, scheduled, and show up only to hear "uhhh, no thanks" at the door! And it would be a waste of time AND money to have a lackluster date because she's uncomfortable or you have zero chemistry. Saves time and trouble for everyone.

I'm also in the 10% Honey mentioned; race, religion, ethnicity, country of origin, etc. doesn't matter at all to me. On the other hand, I don't accept financial support from women, couples, groups, etc. We all have our preferences. :)

You are not looking at the upscale ladies. Or not seeking the more worldly and educated ladies.

Women who care about themselves and have the attitude of enjoying who they meet take the time to approach their potential friends as individuals.  See if they are a match and proceed from that point.  Color rarely plays a factor in this.

When a lady isn't discerning and the only criteria she has is a.) ya got the money and b.) tell me the names of 2 other escorts you've seen to make sure you are "OK" *whatever that means?*    (!)
When they don't have any other interaction with a man, FATE dictates their experience,  they are apt to find themselves in the company of the most disrespectful people and unhappy interactions.  Instead of the reality that they are making bad choices.. they make the flawed logic conclusion that a certain race or age or ? is 'bad'.  


Maybe you should re-examine your sources for escorts and the  type of ladies you are drawn to and why.

Another thing to consider: The profession is rife with ladies  from lower socio-economic classes where racism is more prominent IMHO becuz it serves as an easy vehicle to differentiate themselves into a higher class ..  Humans are animals and they want to gain status in social pecking order instinctively.  

For example:  Once I met some carnival workers (travelers) who made a huge deal between who had trailers and who camped or slept on the ground (?!)  From where I was sitting they were all Carni's... but the lower you go apparently the more important it becomes to differentiate yourself from the 'other' I guess.

good luck in your search.  Cheers ALEA!


OOps... correction.  I meant to say ' it serves as an easy vehicle to differentiate themselves into a higher position in their social hierarchy.'

Less correctly what I wrote: "it serves as an easy vehicle to differentiate themselves into a higher class "..  oops.


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