I saw a provider the other day for the third time.  Prior to meeting I only sent terse emails with information relative to our meeting and did not waste her time with paragraph after paragraph of nonsense.  Before meeting with her I was squeaky Irish-Spring clean, used deodorant, and swished some mouthwash before entering her incall.  Upon arriving I made sure the envelope with the correct agreed upon amount was placed in a conspicuous place.  During the appointment I was nice, kind, considerate, respectful and treated her like the wonderful human being that she is.  I also made sure to follow her rules, did not push any boundaries, did not act all creepy and weird and pester her for BBFS.  I kept track of the time and was very considerate to not go over the scheduled hour, even leaving 5 minutes before the hour was up.  Unfortunately she did not act like she wanted to be my friend nor did she invite me to dinner, give me her personal phone number or ask if I wanted to take her to a movie over the weekend.  I don't understand what went wrong.  I followed all of the recommendations from the client's gospel on how to make providers your friends, but did not get the outcome as promised.  Can anyone please explain what I did wrong?

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Your joking right???!!!

Hello my name is Lana Dubois,

To: HobbiestoftheWeek.  

I bet you she will begin to find all sorts of free time for you. Well as long as you don't ask  for the card back that is. lol

It's funny though, I did things "all wrong" according to many of the hookers here last Sunday. I called her on a Sunday, last minute and asked for a date "as soon as possible" which turned out to be barely an hour later, which included time for P 411 screening on her part. I did give her the courtesy of showering, but never asked what her rules were, so I can only guess if I broke any. I did push the boundaries a little when I mentioned that I would be happy to take her to "Thai Temple" sometime, never once offering to do so "on the clock" but somehow when I mentioned that I was going to go to the Thai market for seafood after I left our appointment, SHE asked me if I would take her with me.

Apparently this girl did not get the memo about "how to treat a hooker" because she and I have been texting several times every single day, have seen each other three times this last week for one hour dates that have all turned into minimum of four hours, and yes tomorrow I am taking her to Temple, after a session of course.

I guess I really should go back and read the hookers handbook on how a john should act, but quite frankly I have been too busy with my new friend. There is no delusion that I am going to become her boyfriend, She goes back home in a couple of weeks, but in the meantime her and I are having a great time together. It's not broken, so I have no intentions of trying to fix it. I am so glad that i didn't listen to any of the hookers here on this board who would have discouraged me from even trying to book her on such short notice on a weekend.

Maybe you should try doing things all "wrong" and see how it works out, not that you didn't have a great time in your own right.

For some reason, a provider I see actually likes me as a friend and a human being. I must have really screwed up because I text her on Saturdays and Sundays and she doesn't get pissed. Hell, she even brought her dog to meet me - when I wasn't paying!!!! WTF? Guess I'm in big trouble cause I haven't been following the proscribed rules as set forth by the provider goddesses.

yep..BTW..CC said hi..

Speaking of Chicago (former) drama queen board trainwrecks...............

considering that you purposely choose hookers who live in third world countries/are from third world countries and have little financial opportunity outside of sexwork. Your actions are predatory. You are well aware that you frequently choose women who are trafficked, both here and abroad, though you'll never admit it. Instead, you'll delude yourself into thinking that these women want to be with you because they like you.  

get the rest forever free, I always say!

This is poking fun at cosmicangst and a leftover from the other day's mega post he started

Just how can a 'trafficked woman" go on OTC dates that she initiates with me? Not to mention giving me her private information, including how to reach her family back home if we were ever to lose touch?

Is it so hard for you to envision that these women are simply women who get lonely and want the company of a man who isn't just interested in how often he can stick his dick into her?

Did it ever occur to you that you might just be a racist?

Perhaps you can explain why women in the States decide to become hookers.  I'm sure it's partly the great benefits, 401k, terrific health programs and advancement opportunities.

so the pot is still being stirred from the post below...

Maybe you'll get to meet her some time

I'm probably one of the few who don't know who you are. I don't see why you feel the need to hide behind an alias to say what you and other providers are thinking. Trust me, we all know what you ladies think of us. It doesn't bother me so why not say it with your advertising handle?

And you do know who she is  LOL

Or are you just preoccupied with reading private boards?