That I do not condone BBFS and WILL NEVER be a willing participant.  Individuals who press for it will be asked to leave.

It is not for me to say what TER is thinking on this subject of allowing ads and reviews for this unsafe behavior.  I suspect that the decision has already been made by the TER Powers That Be and anything I say would be moot anyways.   Since discussing specifics is something I never do directly in ads, I will add the following statement "All necessary safety precautions will be taken to protect my health and yours."

Although this may be an unpopular statement, I also reserve the right to NOT SEE anyone who knowingly visits and  reviews providers who offers BBFS to the extent that I am able to ascertain this fact.

That said, I wish everyone a SAFE AND HAPPY HOLIDAY SEASON!!!!



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BBFS is very dangerous...Consider the risk of std's ,hiv and infection...Its not cool to pass around infections etc just  because you want that thrill..Any Hobbyist that condones this type of behavior is indeed playing with fire.
Sadly not every one plays it safe..I absolutely agree with Sinful..Happy holidays !

Where do you search for this?  I want to know who to avoid!

How do you search this?  I want to know who to avoid!

Amen to that!!!  I think many people need to be fully aware and educated on std's, hiv, and hepatitis. These are serious diseases and are NOT worth the risk for a simple moment of full sensation! Please google all of them and see how they are transferred, their health risks, and the American statistic rate on them... Shocking!

This BBFS will turn in to a legal issue as soon as someone shares his or her disease with an unknowing client,who can point to the TER area that says provider allows BBFS. Guess the lawyers will have new business as people get sick.

Very simple. If the subject comes up, stop what you're doing and leave. Immediately!

If it's offered to you, it's been offered to others. Who knows what they brought with them or what your current partner may be carrying?

And say NO.  Or if public opinion, apathy or fear of loss of business comes into play.  Or if some ladies feel its better to address this in person on a case, by case, basis.

Personally, I feel that my clients will breathe a sigh of relief knowing that I believe in safe play.

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not so much really  would be  hard to prove in court as this is just fantasy  ......so he just dreamed he got something right?

While I fully agree with you, I wonder how many ladies would actually step up and say YES they do offer it.  After giving it all some more thought, my guess is that the ladies who do would keep it utr and ask that it not be reviewed.

I know I breath easier with the belief of safer sex.

I personally do everything safely!!! There is NOTHING that is ever exchanged as far as fluids, etc!

I know that most guys wanna kiss... but, unfortunately that carries risks too! So, therefore, I'll kiss them all over... but, not on the lips or down there without cover!... unless they have gained a little bit of my trust through extremely regular visits... then, I'll go ahead and closed mouth kiss them! I have kids to raise... and I DEFINITELY do NOT want to ever contract anything! I know that this puts me at a lower volume... as most guys wanna kiss... but, the thing is... I don't want to come down with anything! And I ALWAYS wanna make sure that my clients stay safe too (which some of them appreciate... some of them want bbbj... yet, i don't offer that... which is why i say some of them... most of the time the guy will ask over the phone do you do bb... and i say NO & hang up! LOL!!)!

I'm a complete germ-a-phobe!! So, I take very good care of myself, and am always safe whether it be covers, dams, etc!!! Then on top of that... I make sure that cover is NOT going to break by using the proper amount of lube, etc! Maybe, I will change my mind on the kissing thing... as time goes on... but, probably not! Every once in a while, I might make an EXTREMELY rare adjustment to my rules & closed mouth kiss a new hobbyist... but, most likely not! Depends.

I DON'T understand why ANY PROVIDER THAT OFFERS BBBJ or BBS would want to ever want to put themselves at HIGH RISK!! Haven't they ever thought about the fact that... most likely most the guys requesting this... already have something... and that's why they want it? They probably wanna pass it around because they are mad they have it or it's some how a big turn on to know that they are passing around diseases!

I understand allergies & etc... but, there are non-latex covers for this reason! I'm in this field because I have kids to raise on my own... However, I also love doing it because I'm a s3x addict... YET, I honestly don't know if I'd be doing it... if it weren't for my having to raise my kids!

I could go at having s3x 24/7/365... but, before I started doing this I was with an EXTREMELY SMALL AMOUNT OF PEOPLE (Men & Women) just because of the fact that I am SUCH A GERM-A-PHOBE!!

Most of my regular clients & new ones APPRECIATE the fact that I am SOOO CAUTIOUS WITH EVERYTHING THAT I DO... Because they don't have to worry about bringing something home to the Misses!!!

How many people here think that some of these guys possibly seek these risky behaviors to spread around things that they have?

Thank you for reading my opinion! Hope everyone has a good day!

When a lady engages in, what she knows is a dangerous practice, she is not likely to concern herself with routine testing.  She probably does not know if she has any STDs.  Its plain and simple.... So a court of law will be hard pressed to convict her of anything lest they convict any sexually active person who sees multiple partners without a condom.

Imagine coming home and having that conversation with your wife that you have caught an STtD from a provider and she must also be tested.  Or, if you are single, imagine your doctor telling you that you have contracted HIV, must now take antivirals, and stand the chance of contracting full blown aids.  What then when you meet a lady you want to spend your life with?

AIDS is no longer considered the "gay" disease it once was.  It has not gone away!  Its just that its not talked about as much because so much else is going on in the world (European financial crisis) and our own high unemployment.  Articles about our own US Navy announcing possible layoffs, Wallstreet layoffs, home foreclosures and Americans struggling to make ends draw more attention.  Hell, the winners of DWTS, Kim Kardashian's wedding and reopening the investigation into the death of an American Film Icon - Natalie Wood gets more attention than AIDS reporting... Lulling Americans to believe that the problem has gone away or is not much of a threat.   YET IN OUR NATION's CAPITAL, the city with the highest percentage of individuals living with HIV or AIDS, the Department of Motor Vehicles now offers free AIDS Testing, along with its other driver services.  The problem is not and will not go away.

The other risk to hobbyists is that "congratulations, you are going to be a daddy and I am keeping the baby" call.  Remember that it matters little in what context a child is conceived, just that it has your DNA.  Try going home to your family and having that talk.  Also pull out your wallet and count on 18 plus years of child support. The provider can go to court and have every man she has had unprotected sex with (during the period when she would have conceived) be required to undergo a blood test.  And if you are fortunate enough to be a high worth individual, 20% of your salary can fund her retirement.

Each of us knows the risks.  Hopefully we are all adults and let common sense guide our decision making .

Hi all,

Those who want BBFS PLEASE don't bother contacting me it will be a waste of time. If your willing to do BBFS with a provider to me that tells me you are so desperate for the feeling that who knows where you have gone in the past for it, at what levels.....

Life is too short as it is to risk making it shorter or obtain health problems that you may spread to your spouse or GF.

I am not sure if I agree with not seeing providers who see TS's. I know a provider who does and she is very obsessive about safe sex and hygiene. Although it would not be my cup of tea for other reasons.

Be safe friends keep it covered!

Kisses,
Sherri GFE

I am of the opinion that BBFS will continue to exist on the same basis that it has existed to this point. Providers who enjoy the company of certain established and regular clients will continue offering it, on a very limited and selective basis, and it will be because they genuinely like and trust a given client. Whether that trust is always wise is not for me to say, but it does happen that a client chooses to see one provider exclusively, and though not a romance per se, a certain bonding often occurs, that is cemented by BBFS. Those who indulge at this level don't report the practice in reviews as it is considered a personal matter unique to the relationship. Most often it just "happens" and it's never even discussed.

And it will continue to be available at the other end of the spectrum, in the form of providers who think it gives them an edge in a very competitive marketplace. These are likely to also be those who engage in other risk-taking behavior, the sum total of which presages an early doom, both personally and professionally.

It's like everything else in life. It's not what you do, but how and why you do it, that defines who and what you are, and where you are likely to end up.

Chicago Walt

Seriously this goes on in South America as a SCAM _ girls know exactly when they are ovulatiing and let American or other "rich" guys bang condom free all the way to get pregnant, they say they love the guy and they sue for child support or blackmail the guys....I know this happens for a fact.
GUYS WHO DO THIS GET WHAT THEY DESERVE - AIDS, PATERNITY SUITS, GONORREA, HERPES...

ITS PIGGISH AND UNPROFESSIONAL OF BOTH THE PROVIDER AND CLIENT.

of AIDS or get junked up with stds No idea why this is considered acceptable. To each their own I guess...

XXX-Giselle

....some of these guys and girls are so pigheaded because they haven't caught anything or anything incurable yet they'll keep on doing it. smh.

I agree Sin, and it really sickened me yesterday to see that at one point the poll shown that almost half of clients would see a provider for it! Today that number went down significantly, but the yes's are still more than the nay. If we want this industry to be considered a legitimate service, we need to act like adults. We all love to play, but lets play safely.This whole fiasco gives the opposition one more reason to be against our lifestyle. It becomes more than a moral issue; it becomes a health issue. .

I personally will NEVER risk my safety or that of other people for that extra buck. Its simple math here people. Why would someone see a provider knowing that she probably offers that same service to most of her clients?

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