Then again, I'm not surprised by your response perfesser69.  You'd probably blame yourself if a lady did a NCNS on you.  SMH

I tend to do my outing via backchannel.  Granted it doesn't hit the majority of fellas...but then again if they tell two friends, and they tell two friends....you get the picture.

And many might be shocked at some of the "top talent' that pulls that shit...a lot!

But the gals you've highlighted...many of us already knew....sorry you had to find out the "hard" way

Oh...and that was a classic Seinfeld episode.

Hey, Giselle, we all still love you!  You just need to get your head back in the game, if you still want to play.  I would be happy to see you some time in the future once you get your act together.  And I know you can do it.  I'll bet we all are pulling for you.  You are a vital contributor to this board and a favorite of many, including me.  Don't be so hard on yourself. Instead, use that energy to improve yourself.  Then we can give each other tongue lashings!  Now that sounds like fun :@)

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I truly did not mean to offend anyone or take anyone's time for granted.  I have a very hectic schedule and sometimes bite off more than I can chew, which is no one's fault but my own.  Please forgive me for any and all the problems I may have caused you.  This constant struggle to be on time will be a number one priority on my list of self improvement.

Again many apologies, I'm so embarrassed but I deserve all of the tongue lashings I am receiving and I wish the tongue lashings were of the ones of a sexual sort but I guess the only ones I will be receiving are of the negative variety...

XXX-Giselle

As you stated, it is amazing how some of the 'top rated' talent have severe issues.  Most guys find out too late in the game.

Thank you to my fellow hobbyists for supporting me and coming to my defense.  You guys are pretty, pretty, pretty cool!!  (Curb Your Enthusiasm line).

nothing but positive.  OK...you did go to the wrong hotel and call me wondering why my room number was 1420 but the hotel only had 8 floors !  So I guess by the letter of the law you ended up 30 minutes late when you finnaly showed up where I was actually staying. And it might of been kinda dittzy...but all was forgiven when you entered my room wearing a sexy sundress and greeted me with a repentent DFK. Plus , I recall you being rather generous with your time.

And ...hmmm..I'm pretty sure it was ME who bungled the possibility of us getting together the last time I was in Chicago.

Some ladies lack organization and lead complicated lives. Others simply jerk guys around with little regard.  You certainly do not fit in the latter. At least not in my book.

I have no problem with  being known as a white knight. It beats being the opposite, and it keeps the ladies happy.

So you are saying that if I contemplate providers that advertise real DFKing and don't deliver I have rejection issues.  Sorry, I'm not buying it.  It is my right to bring up issues like providers not delivering as advertised whether it be pseudo kissing or unprofessional appointment keeping.  What have you been smoking, Don?

well..well..looks like the target is off giselle's back now..who's up for tomorrow boys? how about ashley..or audrey..or dodda..or olivia...i am sure there is some jerkwad out there who can find something negative to say about them.

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Besides, I thought you were more into other hobbyists dick sizes, not their honest feedback.

this guy actually says 'dont be hard on yourself giselle'..what a fucking classic line.who is being hard on who here? its called reverse psychology..hope you feel better about yourself..

This is a constant battle that many fellas have to deal with.  If you're OK with "ditzy" or "flaky"...good for you.

I typically schedule a week or more in advance with a lady...and if they don't have the ability to deliver on what they have committed to...I will simply move on, AND let my fellow pals know of MY experience.

And FWIW it is rarely a ONE TIME problem for some gals...which was the thrust of this thread!

Oh..and BTW some of the gals you mentioned in YOUR post...yea, they have problems as well.  If you don't care and want to scream how terrific they are...go for it.  But for many of the fellas we charge a heluva lot for OUR time, and when gals don't give a shit (over and over), I find that unprofessional.

So the "targets" are never off anyone's backs...and if a gal pulls those stunts the word spreads quickly.  And of course there are some guys who don't give a shit and will tolerate that crap.  I'm NOT one of them!

touche my friend..a lot of guys here call it 'honest feedback'..a lot of guys call it bashing..to each his own..i am of the opinion if someone has a bad experience with a girl..simply write the review..any one interested in seeing her will read it and make up his own mind..back channeling is always an option..i just cant see bashing someone on an open board [deserved or not] for 563 people to read when it can be done in a more discreet way..why make someone a pariah when they are not..there is a reason the RO board exists..

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The problem is you can't write a review on a NCNS.  

you can do what joe has done...and warn others this way.  But as you can see you will invariably have a few guys shill for the gals no matter what.

As I posted, I find it just as effective to let folks know of this crap via PM/email.  Amazing how quickly that method of communication gets passed around as well.

And frankly, when a fella like joe uses his handle as he did here, that is a heluva lot more meaningful to ME that he is NOT making this shit up.

But there have been plenty of PSA from alias' over the years that are simply nonsense as well.  Those fellas had an agenda...and that is usually pretty obvious as well!

I don't understand the point of throwing providers under buses, so to speak.  I have seen you, as well (posting under an alias--PM me if you want for my info, Veronica).

Shit happens in a session.  Sometimes you are late; other times she is late.  That's just the nature of the beast.  Sometimes you get along famously; other times you don't.  It's part of the risk of seeing someone for the first time, and guys should look at a session as a first date, with the sex being guaranteed.

If you don't get along with a provider, I'm not sure why that belongs in a review.  There are plenty of girls I have seen once and never saw again.  They weren't bad at all.  I just didn't feel like I wanted to spend limited resources with that person again, when there were other choices, including providers I have seen in the past.

It's amazing how political boards get.  I've been on other boards for other subjects other than escorting, and inevitably the ones who post the most end up becoming the self-proclaimed "authorities" on things, and TER is no different.

I don't know Giselle.  I don't know Savanah.  I do know that so many people jump to conclusions about things they don't know.

The implication being that you can't think for yourself and will blindly just defend her.

No, sometimes the girl is actually correct, and you say how your experience with her was.

A WK would be someone who says that the other guy is full of shit.  A guy who simply states his experience was different is not a WK.  He's just expressing his own experience, without discrediting the other guy's experience.

I thought it was two parties coming to an agreement about an activity/event to occur between two parties.  That's not a game to me.  That's an agreement.

Again, as I said in my response to your other comment, I realize that some of what I say may seem like I'm a WK simply because I am the new guy, who isn't based in Chicago and who is based in NYC.  And I'm posting under an alias.  Yeah, I know how boards work, and of course it looks kinda suspicious.

I can only tell you that I have seen a few different providers in Chicago, back from when I used to go to your fine city three or four times a year.  Some of the girls I have seen there include Layla Rose, Veronica Chase, a hot blonde in her 30s named Jamie, as well as Trisha Taylor, a busty, tattooed bodyrub named Leesa who was based in the Gold Coast area, and a bodyrub girl named Mik.  I also dated/hooked up with a girl who was a waitress at Hugo's Frog Bar next to Gibson's Steakhouse.

You can feel free to PM me and see if I'm real.  ChicagoCPA and I have been corresponding offline, and I think we get where each other is coming from a little better.  And it's actually ironic, because we are finding that we share a lot of the same views.

So again, please don't let my being the new guy posting under an alias be the reason why you don't consider my point.

I have no agenda here.  I just do think that board politics do cause certain hobbyists to take a very opinionated, hardline stance against certain providers if their buddies all kinda believe one thing.  Not saying that's what's happening here, because after all, I am the new guy.

But like I said, hopefully you can look past my newbie status and the fact that I'm posting under an alias before you totally discredit my point of view.

Thanks.

Since you already know Giselle why would you not just call her up instead of embarrassing her on here
Have some class pal  WTF !

Fine if you don't value your time.

Want to hear about Your bad experience with savannah rain and her assistant as I had one myself.