As soon as you walk thru the door or when the your clothes start coming off?

Sorry guys but as much as I would like to start it when the clothes hit the floor, I do have other things going on in my life including being on time for other guests.  If I were to relax, share some conversation, maybe a glass of wine and then get down to it having the time not start till the clothing comes off I would never be on time for anything, or be able to get half of my personal life stuff done.  Which is why I keep my gifting reasonable for what I offer so that if you want a more leisurely arrangement it is still fairly reasonable.  If you are not inclined to have conversation we can do that too, however if I am not comfortable with you and it is our 1st visit you could be compromising your experience trying to get as much bang as you can for that buck.  That is not just me either, it is pretty universal.  If you don't care to get to know us we are not going to put forth the effort to get to know you and that includes your likes and dislikes.

Basicly you get what you give.  Treat a girl like a cum bucket and that is what you get in return.  Treat a lady like a queen and you will be treated as her king in return.  But still the time starts when you walk in or for some after that required shower but if you want to relax with a glass of wine and have fine conversation that takes a little bit, it is on the clock...

Take care all and lets have lots of jumping of the bones going on!!!  Sage

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I always arrive on time, but I'm usually asked by the lady to give them five minutes.  That almost always stretches to 10, then it takes a couple of minutes to get up to the room.  So through no fault of my own, the appointment starts 15 minutes late.  Are you saying you would only give me 45 minutes of your time???

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running late, this doesn't bother me in the least, I'm used to it and plan for it,  but it does throw of the start time calculation a bit. I try to check when I walk in the door but often I'm preoccupied at that point.

Or at least that is how I run things. So that means, if you'd like to pick me up and drive the two of us to a destination, the clock starts with the drive. Which may be surprising to some, but you better believe during the car ride, I am "on". I try to make the experience seamless and complete, and think that little things can make an experience memorable.

Does it not start after you place your donation on a table and she makes a phone call? and it ends when she answers a phone call.

Everything I have read so far in this post is just plain common sense.

When I meet a provider for the first time I like to spend about 15 min or so getting to know one another.  If I am with a provider I already know, I like to spend 15 min catching up.  I would never consider treating a lady like a cum bucket nor do I want to treated like I am in line buying a beer at the ball park.  ( I miss baseball season).

In the event the lady is running late, I have never had any issues with the clock starting until I walk through the door.

In fact, in most cases I must travel from 100 to 200 miles to see a provider and have never had any issues with being charged time if I am running late.  All of the ladies I have visited understand and work with me, I usually give them a window of 30 min,

To me this is just common sense and good manners.

But that is just me.....

but for most indies we have a safety call set up but it is before the guest arrives and after he leaves so guests don't feel the outside feel of that.  For indies it is about someone knowing where you are in case something happens.  Generally it is another provider and when the all clear is given then the "friend" knows they are ok and don't need to go find them

Most of the things we all harp on constantly are common sense.  Be clean, be on time, don't overstay your welcome, play safe, be respectful, etc.  Unfortunately common sense just isn't so common.

True enough.

I am running late. In that case when I am ready. I do however try to be on time and am usually no more than a few moments to minutes late. I let client know and add to me on OR compensate with an upgrade if they r in a hurry ad I was 15 minutes late which is rare. I like talking about this.
I've had many clients30+ minutes late ad still expect their full time and even say they will leave if I can't do this. I DONT see clients who pull that crap again unless it is a reasonable excuse. Most times it is just a jerk guy who thinks cause he is paying me he is the boss. I can think of exactly who I mean right now.  
Carly

If they're late, any reputable provider won't cut you off at the prearranged time. If you're late, all bets are off and it's her decision whether you stay or go.

Back in the days when I used agencies, this scenario happened quite often. She was late because the previous guy was late and the agency was booking them back to back. Getting only 40-45 minutes because the next guy was there already pissed me off to no end so gradually backed away from agency girls. It's happened with indy's too but much less frequently, especially if they're heavily reviewed here. One or two bad reviews of an hour turning into 45 minutes would make her phone go silent.

You do know he doesn't pay for watching hookers eat, sleep, s**t or anything else that's not playtime. He also doesn't pay to take you shopping so I doubt he'd pay to drive you to the hotel you're doing it at, lol. In this case, you'd be on your own getting there and then it wouldn't be on his clock. You know how those bean counters are, every bean counts.

Thanks for the heads up though. I'll be sure you have your own transportation getting to whereever we meet next time

If you're in line getting concessions and miss part of the movie, they do not rewind the film. Better yet, they don't wait for you to arrive to start the film.

This issue is a bit controversial though because it can be displeasing to either side.

If I'm late for work and I'm an hourly employee, then the expectation is that I will not be paid for that time I was tardy. This is displeasing to ladies who feel that the appointment starts at the time agreed. Because she would still expect her full gift/donation if she were the one tardy. I dare not dock her donation. But I think it is fair for her to respect my time, because what if I have a schedule to adhere to.

On the other hand if I am late (which I very rarely am personally or professionally) and she is there waiting for me then I certainly can see how she may feel that her time is to be compensated. How can I ask her to stay past the agreed time to assure I get my full hour when I was late? I really can't.  

I think that if you wanna harp about it then this issue is about providing convenience to the person who was inconvenienced. If she is late and I waited on her my choices are:

1. Cancel the meeting. Because I am upset that my time is not being respected.
2. Ask for some type of compensation (which I would never do because I don't like to haggle). But Carly mentioned an upgrade, Jamie mention starting the time when she's in my presence, Someone else says when she's ready.
3. Rush the meeting (for the passive aggressive persons out there) and be unhappy scrutinizing every imperfection you're looking for just so you can say you had a bad experience.
4. See if she can make me forget. If she does, I am a happy man. If she doesn't then I gave it my best shot, but probably will not repeat.

We aren't mind readers, we can't know if an accident might be in our way and when it snows, all bets are off regarding arriving on time. If you're going to be that strict on time and a guy gets stuck in traffic or even worse by one of our long freight trains that invariably stops in the intersection, being late by 30 minutes is very feasible. In this case, would you prefer that he call you, let you know that he's stuck in traffic and must cancel the appointment? If you're going to be that strict on time and make no exceptions for traffic, trains, accidents, or other conditions we have no control over, then you should be willing to accept a cancellation when he'll be that late and you plan to give him a half-hour quicky but charge him for the full hour.

When I'm stuck in traffic and know I'm going to be more than 10 minutes late, I call and ask her if she prefers we cancel the appt. If she's planning on cutting me off at the appointed time because she booked back to back appts, I'm cancelling.

In my experience, usually there are two types of sessions.  One type where you take some time to get to know each other and the time is not counted so you get a full hour of sex.  Other times, the provider and you sit together for 10 minutes to break the ice and you get left with 50 minutes of play time.  

Then on occasion the outlier like my most recent session where the meeting was set at 10:30, provider arrives at 10:37, she takes a few minutes to change into lingerie and we chat a bit such that we get to the bed at 10:55, and at 11:30 she starts to get dressed and takes her leave.  

Of course, some of us have had the pleasure of encounters where both parties are having so much fun that you get two hours of playtime for the price of one.

The provider controls the session and determines when the clock begins to run, and when the session is over. YMMV depending on the relationship that exists between the 2 of you, if any. If she has other things to do that day your session may very we'll be shortened if you are late arriving. If her schedule is wide open, and you've seen each other before in a mutually beneficial way, she'll probably add time to the back end to give you all of the requested time.

The hobbyist determines whether the overall service being provided (including any time constraints) is worth repeating. There is a huge selection of providers available in this city. If you don't like how you are being treated with regards to the length of the session, or for any other reason, why would you go back?

The bottom line is that there are no hard and fast rules. It's an arrangement between 2 consenting adults, the terms of which are exclusive to that relationship, and which can be terminated by either party with absolutely no advance notice.

Duh, isn't a big issue with someone who calls to share fheyr stuck in traffic etc... Common sense again!  I'm specifically referring to a client who was always 30+ minutes late, never called to alert me and was always rude!  I saw him maybe once per year so when he would reach out I would forget who he was. Then when he would show up, I was like yuck! But I wasn't rude to him at all and tried to be nice! All he did was bitch to me the whole time about providers!  Then I blocked him from calling. Rude people are exhausting and draining! No thanks, this is suppose to be relaxing and peaceful!

Respectfully RIGHT!!!!  I agree 100%!!!

There is a difference between extenuating circumstances, and when you've just left late because you figure we can start whenever you get there. Just like we want a little leeway for random things with you guys, we will absolutely give you some too. There are a lot of variables that go into our decision on how to handle it, but more often than not we try to be fair and accommodating.  

If one of us causes a major delay, more than 10 minutes or so, and at least one of us can't stay later, then that needs to be addressed. If it's my fault, I always offer to reschedule, do extra time later, bring another girl along, discount if he still wants to stay, etc. It was my issue, and because I respect you, I will do my best to make it right.  

If it's you who was late, and you choose to go ahead with a shorter appointment knowing that one or both of you cannot stay for the full time, the polite thing to do is to pay her full rate. She reserved that time for you, and she was ready when she said she would be, and she turned down other people to see you. It might feel a little like an "in good faith" move, and you can certainly argue that you should only pay for what you get, but we will remember it, whichever you choose.  

There are a lot of ways to work around scheduling mishaps, and as long as everyone is genuinely trying to do the right thing, I don't think they necessarily need to be a big deal. I think most of us are aware that life happens, and aren't going to be to upset if somebody else experiences it every once in a while. Just my .02

You know how it is around Chicago. You have a better chance shooting craps than predicting what the highways will be like at any given time. And those damn trains around the airport, it never fails, I always catch one when I'm otherwise on time.

Good post, thanks.

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The session starts when you walk through my door.  I allow for an additional 5 minutes or so in case you need to use the restroom, but that's it.  I generally book my appointments with plenty of time in between, just in case something comes up.  Running late does happen, and as long as I have proper notice and the amount of time isn't huge, I don't have any issue providing the full time paid for.

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