contributing helps everyone.  As great as it is to be a paying member, the contributors and ladies are in fact the life's blood of the site and without either it would just be a message board.  Posting is fun, it give everyone an idea of who you are so that if you ever seek a suggestion we can better help you find a great match.  Anyway, welcome to the mix and looking forward to your posts...

you are now an official member of our fraternity..having seen Hollie..Ann and Envy entitles you to first class membership..i cannot call you our " undercover lover " any longer..

Love being an active participant in the community!  Congrats on your change of heart dude!