Just got out of a long-term relationship and wanting that feeling of a girlfriend again.  I don't engage in this behavior regularly but I am visiting the city on business this Sunday night and looking to find a wonderful upscale GFE provider who is open to BBFS.  I know I am going to get judged for this but really looking to have a more intimate encounter. I'm looking to grab cocktails first and then head up to my room at the Sofitel.  I am very clean cut, upscale, intelligent and definitely 100% disease free.  Looking for suggestions of the more open-minded ladies out there.  Please PM me.  

Why lol?

I can't believe someone would post this under a non-alias.

For someone that just got out of a LTR, you sure know the Terms of the Business. BBFS Providers are UTR. (under the radar). You won't get any offers from Ladies for BBFS. My suggestion is to look or ask Ladies if they would like to see you. Looking for BBFS right out of the Gate won't get you any offers. BBFS Providers are out there. But you have to get to know the Ladies first before you even ask for this type of Service. And the Ladies must have a lot of Trust in you before they even offer this to you. just my 2 cents.

I for one want to know who's engaging in this reckless behavior. Knowledge is power, and I prefer to be informed when it comes to who's playing Russian roulette with their lives.

Oh ya, and if I can get one of those cool ailments like herpes or HIV for a lifetime souvenir, that would be fun too!

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You really are an embarrassment to the TER community to even post this question.

You forgot to post your room number.  BTW - the BBFS you'll be getting is with Rosie Palmer this weekend.

So you guys and gals have Never had or done BBFS. Well at least you won't Admit it.

And I don't think anyone is under the delusion that the relationships found here are monogamous

BBFS and unprotected intercourse within the confines of a monogamous relationship are not the same thing, bro.  

I've never even done that in normal life, I'm far too untrusting. I'm not the type to judge,  but there are less painful ways to kill yourself OP.

That line of argument has never made sense to me at all.

What's the difference? A Civvie Girl has former Boyfriends. A Provider has her Clients. So tell me is one of these Safer than the other? My guess would be neither. Both have about the same Risk.

First off. I do not practice in BBFS with providers. I think its risky. There is no way for me to know enough about you, your sexual practices, nor do I know you enough to feel comfortable to show you my hand before the river card is even dealt.  

I'll bet some of you would go for it. If I got to know the Girl for a while, I would. At least I'm Honest enough to Admit it.

Dude really? Google the word "monogamous."

Sorry, but I just don't see your line of logic here.  

BBFS is widespread in the P4P world in all kinds of variations.  Many perform the camel slide...and many indeed go full out BBFS.

You just accused a majority of a very small sample size of providers in this thread of doing something they deny. By rights they need to know exactly who you are, and not your alias. That kind of direct accusation always demands total accountability.

OK. BBFS is a Special Request that may be offered by a Provider. If a Hobbyist asks for BBFS and the Provider grants his Request, what's the Problem? Seems like every time this Topic is Discussed, Providers and Hobbyists have Strong Condemnation about it. If two Consenting Adults in this Business do BBFS, then why should everyone else get upset? BBFS does feel a lot better than using a Cover. Have I had BBFS? Yes I have. But with only a few select Ladies that I've known for a while. I'd rather be Honest than getting Mad at someone about BBFS.

Because it potentially would pollute the water that we all have to swim in. It's like he is taking a risk, but it takes a risk for all of us. The majority of us feel that a choice is potentially being made for us even though he and his Provider are enjoying the spoils.  It would be different if he said he was looking for a Provider who he would eventually like to Marry and be with only her and she be with only him.  And if that us what he's lookin for,  then there are dating websites out there for that.

you born stupid or have you devoted your life's work to getting this way?

And my guess is it just became significantly harder to see any woman in Chicago after announcing his reckless attitude.

You Fool!!!!
You're. Just fanning the flame.

If you really are not intelligent enough to understand the risks that it puts you at and you put others at by not practicing safe sex.  There are professionals who just may be able to talk some logic into you.
Ask your own Doctor he would even be surprised by your ignorance on this subject.
You would be wise to have your self tested if you value your health and well being by your own Doctor or a local STD clinic.  Have you not ever heard the term knowledge is power it is never to late to learn all you can about this subject then you just may change your tune and open your eyes to what people are trying to tell you.

Check your facts, bro. I am NOT about to tolerate some alias suggesting slanderous nonsense about my health and safety. If you wanna start rumors, at least have the balls to do it under your real handle.  

Well that went about how I would have expected. This isn't the type of environment where anyone can admit to taboo activities without the fear of loosing business. Years ago anal was as suspect as BBFS is now even now BBBJ  is not offered by all and is occasionally hotly debated. I am sure the original poster will find what he seeks and I am sure he will have gotten at least a couple of tentative PMs.

Suited with a sugar baby.

If you go through recent Chicago reviews, you will come across at least one provider with generally good reviews who recently got one bad one by a guy who was freaked out because she slid him into her without a condom and he didn't want it, etc. Reading between the lines on a couple of her other reviews, the positive descriptions from some other guys do not include any description of putting on a cover, I have not seen this provider myself, so can't really tell you whether that is accurate or not.  In the very few instances where I got BBFS from a provider, it was several decades ago, and only after I had seen the same woman repeatedly. In both instances, they made a strong point of saying not to mention that in reviews and that they did not do that with everyone.

They can be quite pleasurable for both partners,offer your boy freedom and safety at the same time. Just my 2 cents.Good luck,sorry to hear about your break up. xo

I was fool enough to troll for this, just because I wanted to try it. If you search hard enough, you will find it, I did, along with a case of chlymadia.  Thats right, 10 years hobbying with no STDs, and just 2 bare encounters and im in the doctors office with burning pee. I was lucky on several counts though. This was not an antibiotic resistant strain, and one gram of zithromax did the trick. There ARE strains of chlymadia and gono out there that have so much resistance they are getting almost impossible to cure. Health professionals fear a untreatable gono strain because it would be a public health nightmare because of how virulent gono is. And I was lucky to stay HIV negative. Well, no more stupid bbfs for me.