pictures

i used to ask for pictures before a session..but now rarely do..some are more than happy to let you take a picture..most will tell you no..if the lady has a blurred face on her site..i would never ask..most have SO's or outside jobs to protect..a picture is not worth risking her privacy and security..clients might say it is for their " personal" use..but with the internet the way it is nowadays..i personally would not believe it..there is no reason to open up " pandoras box "..much too risky..

I agree with macdaddy

If the girl have her face blurred/cropped she most likely will not want to get her picture taken.

I took pictures with a client before but he was a long time regular and they were vanilla pictures.

I need to be paid for the pictures and the session. He could profit off the images if he really wanted to so I must be paid for it. And I must receive a copy of images so I can check them

The pictures that emblazoned in my head. I am not much for taking trophies and prefer to keep my activities as utr as possible.  

Just my 2 centavos

I have a few provider friends who allow pictures but I have been seeing them for over a year.
I would never ask on a 1st date - that is too much to ask for.     One friend is totally comfortable with pictures without the face.   With another we now always take pictures first (it is a turn on for us both).  We look at them together.  I Usually delete nearly all of them right away anyway.  She used some of the pics for her site.  Again though it has been a longer term relationship and she trusts me.   I have only asked when I have been really sure the provider is cool with it.   Otherwise asking and being rejected can kill the mood.

photos have a way of finding their way into places you'd rather they not end up.

Digital photos-on a phone, or once downloaded onto a computer, can end up anywhere by genuine accident or deliberately. Deleted anything is rarely actually deleted, unless the tech owner actually knows what s/he is doing and has the proper software to scrub the files. Without this, pretty much any file can be resurrected. Furthermore, digital files tend to come accompanied with LOADS of metadata that can include things like the device the image was captured on, the geographical location, date taken, and much more. On the lady's side, too much can simply go wrong, and from personal experience I can honestly say that most gentlemen simply are too sloppy with tech and data to be trusted with something so sensitive.  On the gentleman's side, that's a whole lot of shit for your S/O to pull from when she hires a tech savvy detective to dig up all the necessary info to land you in the poorhouse after a divorce.

Hard-copy photos-while seemingly safer (assuming they were shot with a device that has no digital capability), they can still be scanned into digital format (at which point all prior issues apply), or else found by an undesirable person, such as an S/O.

And, at the end of the day, let us not forget that an angry S/O is never simply the man's problem. Many a lady has been hunted down and outed (or god forbid, landed herself in an "Alienation of Affection" lawsuit) because the gentleman was sloppy.

Perhaps it's simply because I don't get off on risk, but photos never seemed worth it to me.

LOVE to take pics and shoot video of sessions.

I have done this with three providers. Two were regulars I have seen several times and one had it in her ad that she would do it for an upsell. I had a great time all three times.

The two regulars I tipped them both generously even though neither one had asked for extra.  
With all three I made it clear that the material was for my personal use only and I gladly jumped through whatever hoops any of the three asked me to to help make them comfortable. No questions asked. One regular wanted her face covered, in which a well placed pillow or towel was very handy. She didn't care about her tattoo's just her face. The other regular asked that I buy her a mask to cover her face otherwise she was completely open to it. The third gal that had it in her ad didn't care that her face was on camera and this was great as she has been the only one who allowed her face on camera but she wanted one particular tattoo to be avoided. No problem! If you respect the ladies and they can see that you respect their wishes and are going out of your way to make them comfortable some are ok with it. I am also on camera with all three of them and didn't obscure myself at all, so I have allot to loose too if any of the material gets out. I offered to let the ladies see the pics/video and delete anything right off the camcorder before I left that they didn't like. I have not and will not mention who they are except for the gal with the ad that said it was ok to. The two regulars didn't say I couldn't, but they didn't say I could. So I will not! I have asked a few more ladies and most say no but I will keep asking because you never know... ...and I find it very fun and exciting to shoot video and pics. For anyone I am attracted to and ask to do this I am the utmost gentleman and go far out of my way to make the ladies as comfortable as possible. I'm not looking to be able to identify them. In fact its fun when their faces and tattoo's are obscured too, it adds to the mystery.  

No I am not the one this thread is written about...    

Although I may be disappointed when a lady says no, I have FULL RESPECT for their decision and would never be rude about it.  

To the comments about guys having this stuff laying around for their wives to find... yeah probably not a good idea... However we are not all married men...

How do your ladies feel about it? It seems it would be up to them... no? Or is this a rule you apply as their agent.

T

I have seen my provider regularly and felt comfortable to take video. She said OK and got to take 2 videos with her. First one was to dark so I asked the again on my next trip. Of course this would never be posted online. Just for my own use at home

Porn star brookeogan will allow this for 700/hr!