So I have read a few posts recently which made me think.. why do we all use this discussion board? its called opinions.. if a girl decides to do some type of service let it be... I seen a lot of rude and hateful comments which.. we are all grown and we can answer politely. Some girls offer more than others and some don't. It is all based on comfort.  Why attack a provider if she does not feel comfortable doing something.. there are plenty of girls that provide what you like that you can go see.. on that note everyone enjoy your Sunday

Shae is right..too many of us want it our way..we all should respect every provider we see..every girl out there has her own personal comfort zone..just because we bring that envelope does not give us the right to violate that zone or try to expand it..

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and she is a SWEET girl..certainly not corrupted yet.

Unlike me your corrupted crazy lil bitch lol!

((( love to all )))

 

Thank you for the kind, thoughtful, and sweet post.

Nyla

That is why  communication is key for all parties involved in a meeting of whatever you make it to be. I for one am not a last minute girl that will jump at a request to meet the same day. My style is relaxed and mellow no matter what monetary gift is being offered. For optimum results for myself and my client, I will spend time to get to know more about his character, situation, and what his requested needs are in details.

With this knowledge to take into consideration, I can facilitate and deliver a more positive experience for him making him want to come back for more. Knowledge is more sexy and powerful on the mind than any mechanical physical act alone! Everyone has their own way of doing business and getting their needs met, but it's best to communicate beforehand than assuming or guessing.

there is rarely a consensus...unless you are living in a commune and are fearing for your life.  These boards are no commune...but they are quite different than they were a few years back.

The hooker you are referring to who had to post her "ad" on here would never have seen the light of day a few years back.  There is a Chicago ad board for that crap.  Posting her ad discussing her change in what she offers should not have been allowed...and with the mods here a few years back wouldn't have been allowed.  As well, since it was allowed the posts showing her for what she really is should have been allowed to stand as well.  But she had to cry to TER that those meanies are ruining her ad (or faux ad as in a post about "services").

Just be a smart gal...do a search for her handle going back at least 5 (FIVE) years and you'll see that disaster seems to be in her wake.  And ask yourself why this happens.  The common denominator is that she has an affinity for creating drama.  Check out the Boston board as well...plenty of drama she caused there as well.

As far as what any hooker does or doesn't do...that's on her TER page.  And if your pal had a website (she doesn't...and that's another drama laden diatribe of hers) it should be there.

The boards used to be informative and open to friendly banter.  But over the past few years...TER allowed previously banned members back on, like your gal pal.  And the results are self-evident.

Now any real important info has to be channeled through other sources to make sure that both the guys and gals here remain safe...or as safe as one can be in this game we all play.  Those comments to your pal were neither rude nor hateful...simply honest assessments by people who know the stories (and all those stories are available if you want to do some research_.  Educate yourself and you too will understand why some here make sure that others who put crap out there are called on it.
 

Words for everyone to live by...

We all need to be reminded from time to time to remove "our head out from our ass", including the hobbyist who had his posts removed for bad behavior.

Really Brother!!!

What amazes me is the Great lengths that a particular Hobbyist goes to, to "shed light"  on a particular provider every time she posts something.  That is the "REAL DRAMA" on this board....His continued contempt shown on these boards ... Did she swindle you out of money? Out you? Give you a STD?
I don't know the W's of your Hatred towards her, nor do I care, but you need to move on already.

With relation to "THE DRAMA", I have provided a link, that quotes the "World's Greatest Dramatist", and can be attributed to the Hobbyist's continued protestations of this provider.

Simply put .......you protest so much you're losing credibility.
Or........ He harbors deep feelings of fidelity towards her.
Either way......  
Live and Let Live Man!!!

Dometic abusive personality disorder is a clear picture here.Only very immature or abusive people beat on objects in the presence of other people in order to threaten or intimidate them.Threats are designed to manipulate and control someone to keep he in her place while the abuser will display a lack of respect of someone generally or who talk negatively and disrespectfully.

 
More frequently the abuser portrays a perfectly "normal" and pleasant picture to the outside world (often they have responsible jobs or are respected and important members of the local community in which they reside) .

 
Verbal abuse is a fairly to him and also a warning sign and really quite easy to spot once you can tell all the little ways in which the verbal abuse is being used. In addition to saying things that are meant to be cruel and hurtful,( against ter terms which states not to post comments that are
innapropriate due to being negative, trouble making, rude, and/or slanderous and abusive )  
in public or in private, this can include degrading remarks or running down any accomplishments. n displaying stereotypical gender roles and using the old fear tactic to ward off other future friends of his victim.

It's clear the expectations he has of women that they must serve him, obey him in all things - even things that are criminal in nature. A low self-esteem takes up a big part of his character and is therefore easily insulted or upset scoping for most any comment towards him considered reasonable such as many have tried yet rarely will an abusive personality accept responsibility  for any negative situation they themself create a  problem they harp on or create for attention.Publically, such as on here an abuser will try to curtail someones social interaction. He/she may prevent you from spending time with your friends Controlling behavior is often e disguised or excused as "concern" for his community. ( Dr Jekel Mr Hyde)Again fear tactics used as his only leverage.
 

It is clear to see that psychiatric help is long overdue.I'd like to see change balance and harmony but when someone who is abusive continually denies their own character  begging for those around to confirm the statements he makes, is a sign that the anger is escalating to another level which can be more dangerous then making a fool of themselves in front of others.One can consider abusive persons comments as insulting but then must consider where it's coming from. A sad deeply unhappy individual who's real world is to such a happy one perhaps due to the lack of intimacy and loss of being cherished and loved from their S.O. coupled with the possibility of something that may have happened to them long ago and was never treated clinically.

XO

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Anything behind that, is really none of another's business. I don't go preaching at cbj only providers that they should be doing bbbj just because I do...I really don't give 2 shits about what another woman does with her body, as long as she is not some HIV infected germ farm.