I have a question and need some advise, what is the best way to prepare for a session such that going for 2 cups is no problem at all? I am in my mid 30s and have no problem with my test levels.

I think you should rub a couple shots off to male sure you are ready

I'm not sure if you're being facetious, but in my experience, doing as you suggest would have the opposite affect.

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Tell the lady, don't hold off on the first if you've only made an hour appointment.

I don't suggest jerking off. I recently had someone who jerked off while taking a shower to get ready for our appointment. One and done shouldn't jerk off before P4P.

How to condition his body so that he'll be able to actually get to two cups. That's how I read his post (although I could be wrong).

Wish I had an answer. I think you either can or you can't. Everyone's recovery time is different.

That is exactly what I was wondering about!

Age has a way of catching up to you.  Enjoy the stamina young lad while you have it

First of all, I would take a look to see if  
1. you are attracted to the girl's pics.  
2. If she's reviewed as looking as good as or better than her pics. 3. If she creates a comfortable atmosphere.  
4. If she does things in her reviews (you may not get much of that in the actual reviews, but back channel helps via PM) to bring a new twist to your fantasies that will get you going again.
5. Be as clean and shaven as possible. You want her to want to play down there. She'll be more enthusiastic if you hop in the shower and scrub-a-dub-dub when you get there!
6. Schedule enough time! 2 hours for breaks, chat, etc.

A lot of this is trial and error. While you have fun with most or all if you do your research, the lady you will see again and again is one who can get you to 'shoot' more than once, if that's what's most important to you. You haven't lost, however, if you only pop once during an appointment.  

Why haven't you lost? Our goal here is to leave you not only with satisfaction, but with memories, and hopefully keep you wanting more so you come back to us. We also want to make sure you're thinking about us when you're popping alone! lol

Now here's one other thing I would suggest you NOT do… don't go and try so hard to make sure you get off multiple times that you lose the ability to do so. That would totally screw me up. Just go and enjoy. You'll be more relaxed and it will naturally come. (Your first time may be tough as you will be nervous, most likely… if you're new at this.)

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All of those steps will slightly help out, but I think his question relates to his own physical ability to finish two times. You know, like if you workout, you can become stronger and lift more weight. So he's asking what can he do to help him finish twice in one session....... because usually it is just one time for him.

I haven't read anything about this, but I would tend to agree that FatElvis is correct. You either can do it or you can't. Everybody has a different recovery time and, unfortunately, it is incredibly hard or damn near impossible for some guys to finish twice in a one hour period, especially as you get older.

But if it's a definite goal, I would point to wanderer48's post as the best advice. When you are masturbating, try to finish twice in one hour. If you can't do it yourself, there's almost no chance you'll do it with a provider. In fact, that should be your goal every time you masturbate as a way to (maybe) condition your body that it is expected for it to finish twice.

I am good for only one finish in a hour session. It doesn't matter if it has been one day or one week since my last orgasm. And I've never tried conditioning my body to expect 2 cups. Maybe I should. I just try to enjoy that first finish as much as possible instead of worrying about getting two in (and maybe not having as great of a time because of that).

I must admit I get a little jealous reading some of the reviews that mention 2 (sometimes 3) finishes in one session. If you think you can make it happen, I would double the session price!! haha I'm that confident it's only one "completion" for me

But going back to Vince, definitely try out wanderer's advice. And come back in a few weeks and let us know. I might have to start my own "workout" sessions if you have success.

It's not a  race to the finish line, so make sure you are taking the time to relax and enjoy yourself. Consider 90 minutes as that can be a sweet spot for the experience you might be looking for

Yes Elvis ... it is conditioning

Knowing how your mind works in a sexual encounter will greatly enhance your sexual experiences.

How do I know this? My time doing this has taught me the great importance of mental stimulation before, during, and after sex. How to stimulate a man mentally, and how to stimulate myself mentally.

Now, I only explained some ways to prepare. But he has already said he has no physical problem with cumming twice.

Sometimes when we dive in to learn about a subject, we don't realize that there are more questions, or the right question hasn't been asked. As you notice, the OP wants to know how to prepare physically, but is neglecting to understand that there is much more to getting the result he wants. Sure, you guys can fire away all the physical ways to prepare… but so far, no one has a straight answer but, "Don't jack off." Don't you think that says something?

The wrong question is being asked.

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At you're age, if you're in relatively good health, two cups in a 1 1/2hr or longer session should be doable. If it's never happened before then you do need to prepare. Diet, exercise, get enough sleep, and back off on the alcohol a week before your date. As mentioned by others, you need to find your partner attractive, fun, and comfortable to be with. And she needs to possess the skills. That's where the ter reviews are so helpful. However, don't beat yourself up if you can only master one. The right lady can make that one pop way more meaningful than multiples. It's not quantity, but quality. Good luck!

I didn't notice..... "I am in my mid 30s and have no problem with my test levels."

Which I assume means he has no problem finishing twice on his own (or in the past with girlfriends, etc). He is just looking for a way to help ensure that he can do that with a provider. That's something completely different and I think you made a lot of great points in your post. I was approaching the original post as a question from someone who has trouble physically (in any circumstance, including w/ a provider).

+1000 to this advice.
I find if a guy is actually overfly focused on getting 2 cups in less than 90mins especially it will mess with his head (performance anxiety).

for a couple of days and don't masturbate. This will ensure your balls are heavy and the first load will be quick, giving you ample time for a second one.

First find a provider that you are really interested in.
Chemistry takes care of a lot of things. I have scheduled with some providers that the time just flew by. And others where the chemistry was not there from the very beginning and the experience was mechanical . A second cup in that situation would not come to mind.

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Don't come for at least 4 days before a date; a week if you can stand it.   I do this and can get off 3 times in 2 hrs , but not if I have cum recently.   Everyone's different.   Good luck.

So many times with providers I have tried to do two cups in one hour or even 90 minutes.  I can never seem to do it.  Even with ample time left in the appointment, almost 1 hour, can't get a second shot off. What's worse is that after one shot, I completely lose my sexual energy and sometimes lose all sexual interest in the provider. It's terrible, I know...

coming one time in an hour, much less two!

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