In January, 2016, using alias Larry99, I posted a 10/10 review of a Chicago pro-sub. I had seen her several times before I was sidelined by illness.
Having recovered from my illness, I once again sought her out. Last Thursday I texted her requesting a 4 hour session over the weekend. She texted back agreeing to Sunday afternoon but other details still had to be worked out, like location, consideration (and a 45 minute credit for when she ended our last encounter early due to a migraine).  
In our text exchange, as a safety measure, I asked if we could discuss the remaining issues on the phone. She agreed to call me but couldn't at that time. I told her to call me any time. But when three days went by without a phone call (or text or email) I accepted that she had decided to blow me off.
Then, after three days of silence, she texted--but did not call--to reconfirm. But, having been blown off, I had made another commitment. She was upset, claiming that I would be a no show. Concerned that I might have been at fault, I reviewed the text exchange. But indeed, I had asked if she could talk at the time of my first text and she replied that she could not, but agreed to call me later.  
Still, I was open to making it up to her, even canceling my other commitment. But, before I could "speak" (we were still in text mode) she became rude, vitriolic, a crazy woman unlike the person I had seen on several occasions a year-and-a-half ago.
I have asked, but TER refuses to delete my previous 10/10 review. Nor will TER post a subsequent review because it would not be based on an in-person encounter.  
It is a sad situation because this lady had been at the top of my list of pro-subs in Chicago, second only to Miss Bree Breeze, who is now priced in line with her value, which is far beyond my means.

-- Modified on 8/2/2017 8:43:46 AM

You can't delete your review just because you're mad now, that would be horrible for the already shaky review system. imagine every hobbyist treating to delete or alter our reviews because things didn't ho his way.  
You didn't see her again so no new review for you either. So post a community warning with her name (and be ready to face the backlash) which I don't think you care much about since you were about to trash her in a made up review anyway.  

Or let it go and stick with the new provider that you were just about to blow off for this lady that you claim has horrible communication skills.

It's sad. Sometimes our favorite girls go off the deep end. Best to move on and find another Gem. Finding a great provider you can play with on a long term basis is a rarity in Chicago.  

Don't want to delete my previous review because I'm angry now. Want to delete it because it's no longer valid. Also, have no concern for me just moving on. I've already done that. ("I just walked away".)  

My only thought is that others should be advised that she can be volatile. On the other hand, if you catch her on the right day and she might be a gem. YMMV. In the past she was a gem with me. TER ID: 261311

Don't walk away mad, just walk away.
I think we have all experienced some "volatile" provider personalities in this racket, in fact
one of my ATF's had a nervous breakdown several years ago...very sad indeed.

So the only way he could update is if he had another session with her, and then wrote about the experience/set up to the date. However, I think he should just let it go because seeing a provider just to bitch publicly in a review over a bad text exchange is probably not a great idea - and isn't going to make the reviewer look good. (Unless it is a serious offense - however - if it is a serious offense, I wouldn't suggest he see the provider again obviously.)

I think coming onto a public board and bitching, where the provider can jump in and tell her side of the story is allowed - though kind of stupid. Those are always GREAT threads, though, because they can be eye opening as to details left out of the story.

-- Modified on 8/2/2017 12:39:35 PM

After a hiatus of not playing I messaged my old ARE asking for a date in the near future. Details still needed to be confirmed at the end of our last email. Then the day before the planned date she pops back in (not answering the previous email questions) and acts as if she hadn't blown me off seeming surprised that I booked with someone else by then.

I guess calling the flaky type out on being flaky is offensive. Probably a serious challenge for them. Maybe they have lost clients or even men in their lives because they lack the luster to follow up and can't grasp the concept well that me keeping up your end of the communication is NOT cool. Kinda sad for me cuz like you the sex was really really good and we connected on more than just a sexual level. I guess that's why it was hurtful to her though because she felt that connection too and it was kinda like I was betraying that. Who knows.