... to me last week. It's greek and I didn't ask for it (I am not the fan of Greece culture), and neither show it on her Eros ad and her site, pretty much initiated by her hand to adjust the position during behind action. Then extra is $100 being asked before leaving. Unfornately, there was no extra 100 on me (I usually only carry over $50,000 value on plastic square), I have to went down the street ATM to get the cash. Also there is another issue. Her TER profile states consideration is less than her website and Eors. Obviously she wants to up the level, better be make it same to avoid confusion and embarrassing. Anyway, OK session and not really happy ending.
Should I write in the review?-- Modified on 7/27/2013 4:08:13 PM
Last week I was meeting a lady who has a good rep on these boards. We had a good time and I was extremely pleased. During our time together, she provided a service which she does not advertise and which I had not seen in her reviews (and NO, it was NOT BB. I am not an idiot). When the time came for me to leave, she looked at the envelope and asked how much was in it. I told her it was the amount we agreed on beforehand. She told me that it should be $50 more for "the extra".
Now, please bear in mind, I had not asked for this extra service or even mentioned it before we got together. Since I really like this person, I forked over the extra cash, since I didn't want to get in an argument and perhaps lose my chance of seeing her again.
My question for the board. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? And how did you react? Aggravated as I may be by the upcharge, this person has treated me well in the past. I am just looking for some feedback.
then you should not owe the extra. If you ask about it, initiate it during the session, then you should pay the extra. A provider who just tosses something in without you wanting or initiating it, well it should be on her and no added fee necessary.
if you KNOW something is unusual and you want it.. you should ask ahead if there is an extra charge for it imo. This certainly happens a lot to me.... but then its true I am a bit of a FREAKY GIRL!
Now, please bear in mind, I had not asked for this extra service or even mentioned it before we got together. Since I really like this person, I forked over the extra cash, since I didn't want to get in an argument and perhaps lose my chance of seeing her again.
My question for the board. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? And how did you react? Aggravated as I may be by the upcharge, this person has treated me well in the past. I am just looking for some feedback.
you are the wonderful defintion of freaky!!!
vague about what the service is. Since you are not mentioning her name, I am not sure of what your reasoning is. I can think of a few situations where, things could be really clicking with you guys and rather than spoil the "MOOD" by bringing up money, she just went with it! Is this "service" she provided, one that normally comes with an upcharge by most providers?
Now, please bear in mind, I had not asked for this extra service or even mentioned it before we got together. Since I really like this person, I forked over the extra cash, since I didn't want to get in an argument and perhaps lose my chance of seeing her again.
My question for the board. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? And how did you react? Aggravated as I may be by the upcharge, this person has treated me well in the past. I am just looking for some feedback.
it is by her choice and she should suck it up. As we have all seen here this is also how the men think, and it certainly leaves a bad taste to be upcharged after the fact about something they might not have even wanted.
Ladies, do not do this. Return guests can be your savors when things get slow or when you are no longer the new it girl. If you run a ploy like this, return guests will be few and far as well the word will get out and you will be considered a pariah.
Doesn't matter if it spoils the mood, ASK gently...
On a side note I do this from time to time, where I maybe need greek to have my hardest time... When I need it, it is not asked for and the guy goes along with it, then it is always on me. NO I will not email guys when I am in the mood for it so you can get it for free... Just saying I do practice what I preach.
So that's where the name comes from
What was the Extra Service she performed?
Say for example a girl knows she charges extra for anal, and knows it hasn't been brought up, as you are lubing up or discussing whether or not it is allowed, she politely mentions, "you do know this is more".
But I don't count the envelope in front of you anyways, I feel it's rude...
I don't do the up charge thing really, but I don't offer anal, so.
... to me last week. It's greek and I didn't ask for it (I am not the fan of Greece culture), and neither show it on her Eros ad and her site, pretty much initiated by her hand to adjust the position during behind action. Then extra is $100 being asked before leaving. Unfornately, there was no extra 100 on me (I usually only carry over $50,000 value on plastic square), I have to went down the street ATM to get the cash. Also there is another issue. Her TER profile states consideration is less than her website and Eors. Obviously she wants to up the level, better be make it same to avoid confusion and embarrassing. Anyway, OK session and not really happy ending.
Should I write in the review?
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Happened to me as well, and service wasn't Greek. It was bbbj with cim/cof. It was a blast, don't get me wrong, but there was no mention of an up-charge for such a service. I paid the extra when she called it out as I was dressing, but decided I wouldn't see the provider again. I was completely taken by surprise when she mentioned it. Plenty of upstanding ladies out there to choose from, so no need to deal with a hustler. It's just bad business and will only lead to less frequent clientele.
Are any of you three (Glaze, Alias, or Pepper) going to name who these different girls are? Are ya'll pussies and afraid that your "escort" will get mad at you and screw up your chances of somehow-someway-just-maybe she'll be your girlfriend???
Why not let us know who these girls are? It'll save us the time and our own frustration if we happen to book the same provider.
Remember...this isn't eHarmony or Match. She's NOT gonna be your girlfriend.
You can kiss my ass. This coming from someone who has never reviewed. Go F yourself. And I have a GF, as this is just a hobby.
That is EXACTLY the way to get what you want.
Get bent.
I am not going to give the name in this regional board, may be in review afterward when the time passed. We are all try to being "act nicely" here b/c it should be a pleasure business, rather than ignite the fire. Bad experience would be the lesson to learn and for never repeating in the future.
No one should ever 'up' a guy at the end of a session and then ask for more money. As well the EXTRA should be prominent on her advertising. Just my 2 cents! 
Namaste, Chloe xoxo
based on her site, and assumed that you thoroughly read it, so she mentioned the light envelope. Another possibility is that she mixed you up with another client, one who may have indicated they wanted the service she provided you and would pay the additional fee, so she checked the envelope to make sure you (he) paid as previously discussed.
Otherwise, she's just not professional. maybe send her feedback via email in case she doesn't know to discuss money beforehand.
I'm in many situations like that, and I usually tip for the added service....sometimes it is the time.
They never have to ask either.
Not to tip, nor recognize and communicate the service requires such a tip is disrespectful, asking for it is just as disrespectful.
I would expect to give more at the end of the session. You are a very lucky guy if she enjoys you so much that she throws in extras like that without expecting more $.