would like to find an escort in the southern suburbs. first time doing this so kinda of nervous

you might want to try one of the local agencies to see if they have girls on the south side.  traci at apropo.com is great to deal with.  just make sure you're registered with rs2k so the service can confidentially screen you.

Get a VIP membership so you can see all the details in the reviews. Do a search filling in the attributes you would like to find in a lady and keep narrowing it down until you find a few you like. Do some research, read thru the reviews and stick with with well reviewed ladies and you'll do fine.